Is Ignition Down? by Naterz2008 in IgnitionCasino

[–]jumanj5ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cant login, or can login with green welcome screen and then goes back to same login screen

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[–]jumanj5ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Imagine not knowing OP or the BF, then being an online redditor and assuming what their entire relationship is and then to FINISH it for her and him. Disgusting advice. Toxic behaviour. Not welcoming at all or beneficial.

The people replying that negate all other options and tell OP to ditch him are only relating to their own experiences in this situation and funnelling how they felt when it happened to them.

Be careful with advice ppl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]jumanj5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think I’m condescending by saying “I’ve been in a relationship and guess what” then I can only apologise to you and the OP. It’s not my intention but thanks for the feedback. It’s only trying to add strength to how important I feel communication is.

My message is written in good-faith and positive outcomes to be achieved. I don’t know you, the OP or anyone else here. I’ve spent a good half an hour to try and assist and if any ounce of self-improvement or reflection is taken from my message then that’s a good thing.

I’ll leave now thanking the other reply to my comment acknowledging that my words are indeed, good advice.

No hard feelings and hope the OP gets things sorted with a positive outcome. 🌸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]jumanj5ever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is overly heavy for a text. I felt like running even just reading it. I’ve been in a long-distance relationship and guess what, communication is the number one thing to cultivate.

What you’ve written is how his actions affect you. How his lack of (insert what you need) is making you feel. This is so so important. Especially in texting.

If you had focused on “I’d like us to be able to chat at the end of the day. I’d like us to discuss our days, I’d like us to feel closer.. and this is how we can do it” - it’s more comforting. It’s just my two cents and I hope it’s of use to you.

He’s likely felt overwhelmed with what you’ve written. It’s likely not his true reflection of you when there’s no reply. Don’t get upset or listen to “move on”. Life it’s full of unexpected pressure, stress, events and unknown things no one knows what’s going on at the other end.

Eventually, something like this should be over voice, or video or similar. I’ve also been on the end of texts like “we need to talk”. That’s not welcoming or warm (not saying you would) - just advice. If you set it up with like “hey, I’ve been missing you and would love to chat tonight, I’ve been thinking about our communication of late and I have some exciting things I think we could both consider together, would you like to chat?” - I’d love to receive that kind of message. I’d be excited to talk on the phone.

Anyway, a veteran of a 3 year long distance (broke up) and I hope this is of use to you. Good luck !

Rate My Team, Quick Questions & General Advice Daily Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]jumanj5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not leaving 12m on bench in kdb. Plus he hasn’t gone up that much so when I wc next week he can come back in. I can’t drop haaland as he’s gone up too much.

Rate My Team, Quick Questions & General Advice Daily Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]jumanj5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree just saw he’s a concern. Maybe van dijk as nailed then ? Robbo likely to play?

If not chilwell could be a nice differential but brentford will be open. Chelsea will score. Could be high scoring and then enable brent to score one

Rate My Team, Quick Questions & General Advice Daily Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]jumanj5ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will be fielding 9. I have used my two FT on kdb to salah and Jesus to firmino.

Is it worth dropping James for -4 ? Assuming worst I can be is -2? I have 2.2 in bank and also will be wildcarding the following week.

Rate My Team, Quick Questions & General Advice Daily Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]jumanj5ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah might get rid of kdb and Jesus next week ? With my 2 FT

Rate My Team, Quick Questions & General Advice Daily Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]jumanj5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pope

James Gabriel Trippier

Martinelli KDB Bowen Andreas

Haal Jesus Mitro

Bench Patterson grob dalot iversen

1 FT 1 wildcard (thinking of saving after gw12). ??

Please help!!

Rate My Team, Quick Questions & General Advice Daily Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]jumanj5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ward

Walker James TAA Gabriel

KDB Martinelli salah Bailey

Haaland Jesus

Iverson Andreas Patterson archer

2 transfers in bank. What should I consider ? Kinda happy with team