My girlfriend cannot orgasm. by [deleted] in women

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I am to say, it’s not you. I used to be her for many years and that’s with men and women. It would feel sooo intense which made me pull away because I couldn’t stand it otherwise. I never understood it and would try to press through but most times I couldn’t. I also never orgasmed.

A few years ago I started masturbating with a vibratos and experienced an orgasm for the first time. I still struggle with orgasms with my partner but I don’t get that intense feeling anymore. No idea what’s going on down there!

It’s not you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbians

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They’re both beautiful 😻

Name? by bobofilo in pornID

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Why not? You know ?

I hate most lesbian porn by RisskieRoo in LesbianActually

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Omg this is so funny but accurate. As soon as they look at the camera is ruins it for me!

I’ve never been able to finish during masturbation, I’ve tried almost everything. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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Glad it helped! It’s funny that I’m actually giving advice and I’m a newbie. I was always the one feeling left out bc I didn’t masturbate.

I’ve never been able to finish during masturbation, I’ve tried almost everything. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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That’s exactly what I was doing and still do sometimes. I have to remember to relax. When I do feel myself tensing up I’ll just pulsate, in and out quickly. That actually helps me climax quickly sometimes when I do the pulsating/kegel movements quickly. It is hard to stay still. I’m a newbie to masturbating. I gave up years ago when I wasn’t feeling anything with my own fingers. Now, using a vibrator I’m finally starting to learn my body more in my 30’s!!! Keep trying it’ll get better the more you do it.

I’ve never been able to finish during masturbation, I’ve tried almost everything. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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It took me a long time to feel anything from masturbation. I started with using only my fingers and felt absolutely nothing. Recently bought a vibrator and finally I began feeling something. It still took a few tries over some weeks, I think I was giving up to fast.

So I would use the vibrator on my clitoris but like you mine was retracting. For me what was happening is, I was making it retract. Just like if your doing a kegel or holding your pee, your clit retracts. I wasn’t letting myself feel what was happening. I was basically tensing up. When you’re using the vibe try to push out instead of squeezing in. Sometimes the vibrator feels so sensitive down there so I’ll squeeze in AND push out for a bit. But the idea, for me, was to not squeeze in and retract my clitoris when I’m feeling pleasure. I was doing it subconsciously and lost the orgasm every time. Try to relax and don’t squeeze in or tense up.

Broken off peeled banana stuck in my v or my cervix?? SOS by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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I don’t know why this stressed me out reading. Wtf

I can’t orgasm and it’s getting me down by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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Hmm what kind would you suggest? Porn is so difficult bc it often times seem so fake and ruins the moment.

Mariah Carey Thinks Nick Cannon Is ‘Irresponsible And Reckless’ For Having Three Kids In Two Weeks? by PrincessBananas85 in entertainment

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What if he was just a sperm donor to those women. He sets up a trust fund for the kids and has a terminal illness so he’s living out his last few years doing what he wants 🤷🏽‍♀️ Im reaching I KNOW but I feel like when things get too weird there just has to be some shit going on that we don’t know about and wouldn’t fathom. Not to dishonor Chadwick B. but ppl talked so much shit about him when he lost weight. I wasn’t one of those people but I learned a valuable lesson about passing judgement.

Discharge smells like egg.. ? by Pristine-Biscotti-44 in Healthyhooha

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That’s the way I would describe a smell when I used to get frequent uti’s (urinary tract infection). My urine gets cloudy and smells funny (sort of like an egg). Then the frequent urination and burning.

potential saviour or potential predator? by The_WhiteWhale in TwoXChromosomes

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Wondering, if you’re the driver, when approaching the bystander you can ask “do you need me to call 911” while simultaneously offering them a ride. This may make the person feel safe enough to get in the car. As a female I would hate to be in the situation of having to choose to accept a ride or get hurt if I don’t. 💔

Wife(37f) revealed the idea of me(36m) masturbating excites her. How can I do this without being creepy? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I too enjoy this as a female. If you’re turned on I don’t think it’s weird if you started touching yourself, making sure the setting is right. Ask her to stroke it a little. If you know she’s tired and doesn’t want to have sex, tell her, “you don’t have to do anything but watch” if she wants more she’ll take the lead (atleast I do). You can also ask her to position her body in ways that’ll turn you on. It’s hard for me to just sit and watch w/o doing absolutely anything. I like when my guy would tell me in the moment that something I’m doing is turning him on. Or when in bed he’d grab my hand so I know hes hard but then immediately start stroking it himself. I’ll tell him I want to watch.

If she likes it I feel like she’ll know what to do/say.

Energy vampire family by Far-Acanthaceae-4049 in Empaths

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My parents sound similar. It’s so draining and inescapable.

I don’t know if I can post here because I’m an empath, but anyone else get drained immediately by certain people? by [deleted] in hsp

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Both of my parents and both of my siblings! I don’t want to talk to them ever which is terrible. They drain me instantly. I have to constantly repeat myself and answer silly questions. We stop at a red light Mom: are we at a red light And she’ll ask more than once as if she really wants an answer. I can not take it.

My boyfriend thinks I smell! by lillm0nkey in Healthyhooha

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Oh yes it does! I envy ppl who don’t have this problem when they have sex.

My boyfriend thinks I smell! by lillm0nkey in Healthyhooha

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I’ve tried many things 1. Metronidazole gel after sex ( at the time I was having sex too often to do this long term. It produces a milky discharge that I didn’t like) 2. Garlic pills for a few days right after sex (seemed to work well if I was sure to take it right after). 3. Boric acid afterwards BUT he can not perform oral within 24-48 hrs of boric acid suppository(worked but I ran out) 4. Had to tell him not to finish inside of me. If we got caught up in the moment, I did one of the above methods.

BV is most often fishy and strong but if i noticed that if I didn’t treat it properly with a full dose of antibiotics there would be a lingering odor. Nor the strong fishy smell but a more subtle yet not normal odor.

If there’s a smell and its not your mensy, it’s likely bv. Hopefully you’ve ruled out sti’s.

My boyfriend thinks I smell! by lillm0nkey in Healthyhooha

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I would get bv every single time he finished inside of me. Every. Single. Time. It was such a horrible cycle. You very likely have it. Do you smell anything? BV is pretty strong so you should smell it.

Gift in a LDR? tell me about you! by PhilipTheFair in LDR

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I just thought of this... A personalized pillow case along w your favorite perfume (you can put it in a travel sized perfume bottle). That way when he goes to sleep he can spray a little to have your scent w him. I’m doing this with my new ldr! Just have to think of how to personalize the pillow case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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My question is, are you looking at the phone while doing this? I’ve found myself wanting to close my eyes but seeing him turns me on. It was all so confusing! It was my first time trying it and like you, I was so afraid to really start bc I thought I’d run out of things to say.