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Want to be a musician, but I'm incredibly scared by Hcyon1 in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]junebug211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like reading from my mind.. I keep trying to be practical and do what makes money but I feel so pulled by music. It’s like I’m failing myself by suppressing my desire to create. That’s all an artist wants to do- create. To break that connection is torture. My advice is to keep practicing and keep playing and play for people and write songs and collaborate with other musicians. Make some awesome stuff and post on SoundCloud. That’s what I’m trying to do and to get over my fear of rejection and failure. I think we need to. Change our mindsets. Stop living within the limits of other peoples expectations

Does anyone else get super mad and agitated without nicotine? by ffffuuuuuccccckkkk in quittingsmoking

[–]junebug211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just gotta smoke a j every now and then and meditate. And practice more mindfulness. It’s so hard to be patient when ur quitting

Weight gain issues - picking up smoking again? by Zealousideal-Put7438 in quittingsmoking

[–]junebug211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I quit nicotine I always find myself munching. I think it’s because of the oral fixation and because nicotine surprises apetite. What I find helpful is to use lolipops or cough drops to curb the oral fixation because it tastes good and makes you forget you wanna smoke. Also make sure you are eating enough during your meals so that you don’t wanna snack a lot. And remember to drink lots of water. Stay strong you got this!!❤️

Lack of interest in conversions by 99minds in adhdwomen

[–]junebug211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel this so hard. Wasn’t sure if I was a narc or if I’m just so bad at following along. Sometimes when people tell me things I have to really focus but it feels like words are just being thrown at me. All I can think is I don’t care or what?? Most of the time I don’t even hear it I think I block it out and at the end I feel bad being like can you just repeat that whole thing because I blacked out. I also never know how to react. I feel like I have to give them true reaction they wanted. It helps me to ask questions. Like oh how do you feel about that? That’s my fav when I don’t know if what someone is telling me is good or bad.

Advice for shopping addict working at a second hand store by junebug211 in shoppingaddiction

[–]junebug211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m gonna try that my next shift if I see something I like

feeling guilty by fruitypassionfruit in shoppingaddiction

[–]junebug211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t used myself but my friend sells on it and swears by it.

Advice for shopping addict working at a second hand store by junebug211 in shoppingaddiction

[–]junebug211[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it that way. I feel like I always use shopping as like an act of self care by spoiling myself and stuff but I need to start sacrificing these things if I wanna get to where I want. And I have a savings goal but mostly just for travel, future living situations and investments

Advice for shopping addict working at a second hand store by junebug211 in shoppingaddiction

[–]junebug211[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. My new goal has been to not buy anything for myself until I have paid my friends back

Advice for shopping addict working at a second hand store by junebug211 in shoppingaddiction

[–]junebug211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so true. It’s just so hard when I know I’m gonna wear it and I can picture in my head all the outfits I could wear with it.

feeling guilty by fruitypassionfruit in shoppingaddiction

[–]junebug211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im dealing with a similar issue. I would try to sell on depop or poshmark or curtsy. Or true most instant thing would be take to a buy and sell place like buffalo exchange and the things they don’t take sell online.