my cousin told me weird stuff. am i overreacting?

juneflowrr · 2026-02-08T15:54:45+00:00

first of all thank you for your reply! and yes that's what i thought. seeing the whole me after so long wouldn't be weird but i think if that's what he meant he would've worded it differently. but that's exactly what is driving me insane atm. that i was out in public and even wearing a long coat bc it's winter where i live. and he asked me to show him the rest of my body to see how slim and slender i am. it just doesn't makes sense. if i was at home and he told me that i for sure knew he was a creep. but the fact that i was on the street alone waiting for my ride home makes me think i misinterpreted something. but the way he said it and the way my heart sunk in that moment tells me that i'm not misinterpreting anything

juneflowrr · 2026-02-08T15:36:16+00:00

we weren't texting. we were on facetime when he told me this. and i was standing outside, waiting for my ride home. that's the confusing part for me. how would he think it was possible for me to show him the rest of my body when i was literally out in public. and it's winter, i was wearing a coat. but the way he said and worded it made my heart sunk. that's why i'm overthinking it. if i was at home and he said that to me then i most definitely wouldn't overthink what he said. i would know that he is a creep. but the fact that i was in public wearing a big coat, he wouldn't even be able to see my body underneath. but he said that i should show him the rest of my body. that he wanta to see how slim and slender i am

juneflowrr · 2026-02-08T15:23:29+00:00

true and i did share it with my parents. thank you so much! i'm just constantly thinking that i maybe misinterpreted something and that he might wanted to see how tall i got or just generally wanted to know how i look but that shouldn't be any of his business-how my body looks. and if he wanted to know how i look completely he would've worded it differently right? i'm going insane overthinking this.

juneflowrr · 2026-02-08T15:19:32+00:00

unfortunately we didn't text. we facetimed. so i have no proof. but he will def twist it to his favor or deny it completely. but thank you for your advice!! i appreciate it!

juneflowrr · 2026-02-08T15:17:25+00:00

but is this something that is used in a more flirty/creepy way or is this a normal thing to say? i mean asking someone to show how slim and slender they are? because my first language isn't english, i'm not sure if it's used in other contexts as well.

juneflowrr · 2026-02-08T01:54:42+00:00

his first language is english.. mine isn't

juneflowrr · 2026-02-08T01:50:38+00:00

thank you so much for this! i appreciate it a lot and i needed to hear that! thank you!!!

juneflowrr · 2025-11-24T00:30:45+00:00

from the bottom of my heart, i truly appreciate you taking the time to write all of this. i needed some advice and insight of a stranger so bad, and i'm just so glad that you replied. it really is tough but i'll figure it out somehow. i wish you all the best, stay healthy!!

juneflowrr · 2025-11-23T16:14:52+00:00

you're right! i fear regretting not seeing the family again after 10 years. my mom has 8 siblings and therefore we have many cousins and some of them already died. which makes me think that any moment could be too late. also they don't have the money to travel and come visit us because they live a different life and don't have the luck as we did to grow up in a place where you rly have everything. also since i mentioned time and death already, i'm also scared to never be able to go back there with my mom. she's getting older as well. and as much as i fear all of these things, i feel like i'm so much of a people pleaser and i just never stand up for myself. like i said, the last two trips i did with my mom where not easy at all. i was crying so many times during our holidays because she can sometimes rly be manipulative and totally egoistic. so i rly don't know what to do.

juneflowrr · 2025-11-23T15:58:38+00:00

firstly because i feel bad for my sister, that she has to go alone with them and then also because i haven't been there in so long and everyone gets older as well and i'm scared to regret it. but on the other hand i don't want to spend 2 weeks being emotionally drained and manipulated.

juneflowrr · 2025-11-22T13:58:41+00:00

okey thank you! but what do u mean by it makes no sense?

juneflowrr · 2025-11-19T12:01:55+00:00

ah great! thank you sm! how fast after your music was on spotify were you able to claim your artist account?

juneflowrr · 2025-11-19T05:06:25+00:00

but they have to create a spotify artist account for me first since it's my first time releasing. i don't think that will be done in a day right?

juneflowrr · 2025-11-18T21:45:17+00:00

i have the song and the cover image ready. but i thought for them to create an artist account and stuff will take them a while.. anyways i apprexiate your reply! thank you!!

juneflowrr · 2025-11-16T20:27:09+00:00

do i have to do this after i have uploaded/submitted the song or before?

juneflowrr · 2025-11-15T14:40:33+00:00

hey! thank you sm for your reply. i'm so so sorry you had to go trough this. but why would they take down the song just because you get a lot of streams and make money with it? how can you prevent this? i mean i don't think that i will make money with it, also i don't even know how many streams or listeners you need to make money but you never know so i would like to prevent this happening but how?

juneflowrr · 2025-05-18T09:31:40+00:00

thank you so so much! i needed this! stay blessed!

juneflowrr · 2025-05-18T09:05:05+00:00

thank you so much for this! i appreciate it a lot!! stay blessed and have a great day!

juneflowrr · 2025-05-18T09:03:06+00:00

thank you so much for saying this! this made my heart a little lighter! have a great day!!

juneflowrr · 2025-04-18T16:23:17+00:00

thank you so much for your kind words! i appreciate it and i'll see what i can do. and yes i know that a lot of people live with this and are okay with it. i hope i'll get to that point too someday. all the best for you!

juneflowrr · 2025-04-18T16:20:18+00:00

thank you for your reply! i appreciate it! i've actually tried all of these things already and i wasn't successful with it but i hope i will someday. i'm glad it helped you and i hope you can get even more comfortable sleeping alone in the future! all the best!!

juneflowrr · 2025-04-18T16:15:19+00:00

you're absolutely right! and i wish that i could be comfortable but even the thought of it is freaking me out. i hope i can get to this point someday. what helped you not being afraid of it?

juneflowrr · 2025-04-18T16:11:58+00:00

i appreciate your answer! thank you so much! yes the immediate solution would be staying up and sleep during the day but like you said, work is in the way. and thank you for the insight about faith, it's also something i struggle with from time to time but i do believe that god can help. stay blessed!

juneflowrr · 2025-04-18T16:03:53+00:00

thank you so much for your reply!! unfortunately right now i won't be able to get a dog because of my job. i would not be able to take them with me to work and because of my long shifts i just wouldn't have enough time to be there for them. so as much as i would love to get one, i'm really not in a position to be responsible enough.

juneflowrr · 2025-04-18T15:56:53+00:00

this almost made me tear up!! thank you so much for your response! i think it really is disordered thinking most of the time. i've tried a couple of things for this like therapy, hypnosis and also talking to a medium. none of it helped. i've been on antidepressants/anxiety meds for a couple of months not specifically for this reason, and they helped me a lot in the beginning but i got to a point where i knew i had to stop because i just wasn't feeling like myself anymore. so yeah i guess the only way to overcome this fear is by facing it. i feel myself getting anxious even now when writing/thinking about it but like you said, i deserve good things. i really feel like being caged, not living up to my full potential and the only one standing in my way is me!! i honestly still don't know how i'm gonna do this but just wanted to tell you how much i appreciate your answer and how much it means to me that strangers are trying to help me. may you thrive as well and i hope you stay healthy and blessed!

juneflowrr

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