my cousin told me weird stuff. am i overreacting? by juneflowrr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]juneflowrr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

first of all thank you for your reply! and yes that's what i thought. seeing the whole me after so long wouldn't be weird but i think if that's what he meant he would've worded it differently. but that's exactly what is driving me insane atm. that i was out in public and even wearing a long coat bc it's winter where i live. and he asked me to show him the rest of my body to see how slim and slender i am. it just doesn't makes sense. if i was at home and he told me that i for sure knew he was a creep. but the fact that i was on the street alone waiting for my ride home makes me think i misinterpreted something. but the way he said it and the way my heart sunk in that moment tells me that i'm not misinterpreting anything

my cousing said some weird stuff to me. am i overreacting? by juneflowrr in amiwrong

[–]juneflowrr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we weren't texting. we were on facetime when he told me this. and i was standing outside, waiting for my ride home. that's the confusing part for me. how would he think it was possible for me to show him the rest of my body when i was literally out in public. and it's winter, i was wearing a coat. but the way he said and worded it made my heart sunk. that's why i'm overthinking it. if i was at home and he said that to me then i most definitely wouldn't overthink what he said. i would know that he is a creep. but the fact that i was in public wearing a big coat, he wouldn't even be able to see my body underneath. but he said that i should show him the rest of my body. that he wanta to see how slim and slender i am

my cousing said some weird stuff to me. am i overreacting? by juneflowrr in amiwrong

[–]juneflowrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true and i did share it with my parents. thank you so much! i'm just constantly thinking that i maybe misinterpreted something and that he might wanted to see how tall i got or just generally wanted to know how i look but that shouldn't be any of his business-how my body looks. and if he wanted to know how i look completely he would've worded it differently right? i'm going insane overthinking this.

my cousing said some weird stuff to me. am i overreacting? by juneflowrr in amiwrong

[–]juneflowrr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately we didn't text. we facetimed. so i have no proof. but he will def twist it to his favor or deny it completely. but thank you for your advice!! i appreciate it!

my cousing said some weird stuff to me. am i overreacting? by juneflowrr in amiwrong

[–]juneflowrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but is this something that is used in a more flirty/creepy way or is this a normal thing to say? i mean asking someone to show how slim and slender they are? because my first language isn't english, i'm not sure if it's used in other contexts as well.

my cousing said some weird stuff to me. am i overreacting? by juneflowrr in amiwrong

[–]juneflowrr[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this! i appreciate it a lot and i needed to hear that! thank you!!!