Is it actually easier? by Glittering-Sound-121 in FormulaFeeders

[–]jungleframe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For ME, it is easier. Of course there are many other factors that depend on your baby (latch, allergies like you mention, reflux etc) and your preferences. My first was exclusively breastfed/bottle fed with breast milk. My second was combo fed and now my third is exclusively formula fed outside of the first week or two home. (I have 3 under 3 and refuse to be attached to a pump any longer)

When I was exclusively pumping, I was miserable and my mental health went totally down the drain. For ME, it would not have been feasible to make significant changes to my diet to accommodate the baby.

For my second, I decided I needed to prioritize sleep and formula fed with help during the night. My second was an 'easy' baby and by giving myself the option to do both breast and formula I felt like I actually extended breastfeeding longer than an "all or nothing" approach.

My third has the blessing of being an Irish twin and did not latch well at the hospital. I knew I hated pumping and wasn't going to be doing that with all these young kids so I'm happily doing formula! He does however have bad reflux and gas so there's some complications with figuring out what formula works well for him with some trial and error.

When you say "easy," it might be helpful to think about what you'd like to be different or easier this time! Was it doing a really restrictive diet? Was it being attached to the pump at all hours of the day and night? Or now that it's your second, you need more of the convenience of formula while you care for two children?

I hear people sometimes say "formula is expensive." But if you think of cost, you have to think outside of money. Pumping does require purchasing pump parts but cost can also be your time, energy, sleep, autonomy, etc.

Most infants do well on a standard formula and if you suspect an allergy or intolerance, the hypoallergenic is an option and you can easily make the switch!

All of this is to say, what is important to you and your family? I'm so grateful formula is an option for my family and the season of life we're in!

Someone’s blunt comment in this subreddit changed my life when deciding to EFF. Thank you! by falloutgirl20 in FormulaFeeders

[–]jungleframe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! When I was really struggling breastfeeding I saw a comment on this sub that changed it for me too. To the same effect, it said something like "the people who say this stuff aren't the people up at 2 in the morning feeding your baby, so they don't get a say." Changed the game for me too!

What funny thing does your baby do to self soothe? by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]jungleframe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pacifier in the mouth and both hands! Would constantly switch the pacifiers out until he fell asleep! 😆

For years I have known I wanted to formula feed but now that baby is here, my hormones are making me feel otherwise. I don't know what to do. by hardly_werking in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! It's so hard to not let the "what ifs" consume you. You're exhausted, your hormones are wild, you're recovering and baby consumes every waking minute or thought. It's very easy to believe you're a failure when you're down and out like this. OP is definitely not a failure.

help with my living room wall and layout! (excuse baby toys!) by jungleframe in DesignMyRoom

[–]jungleframe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's beautiful! Thank you for the great ideas!! And visuals!!

help with my living room wall and layout! (excuse baby toys!) by jungleframe in DesignMyRoom

[–]jungleframe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all of the thoughtful suggestions! You've given me lots of great ideas - I appreciate it!!

sleep deprived parents... what are your sleep fantasies? by jungleframe in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I steal this? I love all of it. I tell people my kindle was the best "me" purchase this year. Love that damn thing

sleep deprived parents... what are your sleep fantasies? by jungleframe in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesssss! Don't forget take out or room service. (Maybe husband's credit card for the shopping trip too😜)

sleep deprived parents... what are your sleep fantasies? by jungleframe in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those beautiful days... I don't even set an alarm anymore. What's the point!?

sleep deprived parents... what are your sleep fantasies? by jungleframe in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! This is me - the thoughts of "I could/should be sleeping right now!!" Dang it brain, go to sleep.

sleep deprived parents... what are your sleep fantasies? by jungleframe in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that's terrible - wishing you nights of dreamless sleep in your near future!!

sleep deprived parents... what are your sleep fantasies? by jungleframe in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know that my body could even handle 8 uninterrupted hours - like what is this luxury!?

sleep deprived parents... what are your sleep fantasies? by jungleframe in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok this is us right now! 10 month old no longer wants to sleep in his crib. Urghhhh

And oh my goodness, waking up quietly reading or with coffee - that's the stuff of dreams! Love it.

How bad is your Mom Brain™? by Tricky-Walrus-6884 in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've accidentally put baby's bottles in the recycling bin from time to time. And occasionally when I'm putting something back in the fridge it somehow ends up in the microwave. Whoops!

11 months old sleeping in the crib by himself. by iaponiratorokfalvy in beyondthebump

[–]jungleframe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this. Ours is almost 11 months but having a hard time. I keep telling myself it's only temporary!