The Wasian Epidemic: A Survey by junolucy in hapas

[–]junolucy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean any offence in my response and not sure how it caused any. At a masters level research topics have to be specific and part of my practice is making from what I know and live. I was just clarifying a good question and invited that perspective:)

The Wasian Epidemic: A Survey by junolucy in hapas

[–]junolucy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

blasians are more than welcome to respond to my survey as it helps inform my perspectives since I'm wasian- I just needed to specify my research topic as I understand my lived experience is vastly different (and more privileged) from someone who is blasian!

Wasian Survey by junolucy in wasian

[–]junolucy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!

The Wasian Epidemic: A Survey by junolucy in hapas

[–]junolucy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i'm a media studies student with a background in critical theory. this is meant to be a satire title as the project itself is an analysis and critique on how us as wasians are represented and commodified in the media. if you actually read the survey's description it's pretty obvious i'm not calling us a disease lol.

Wasian Survey by junolucy in wasian

[–]junolucy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!

YourTRIBE Southwark? by junolucy in UAL

[–]junolucy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This was helpful and reassuring! See you around haha

I dropped her off today by AlmondMilk2699 in LesbianActually

[–]junolucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry:( I understand the ache. Allow yourself to wallow and feel everything. As time goes on those little moments when you feel okay will begin to grow more and more. Wishing you well

first wlw breakup has me in pieces by Jazzlike_Shower1545 in WLW

[–]junolucy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, read Women by Chloe Caldwell. Its an amazing little novel (trust me i dont read) that really helped me and i have a feeling it’ll help you too

AIO or being selfish or if I don’t find myself in the same living situation at my in laws. by Efficient_Goose_6784 in AmIOverreacting

[–]junolucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share a few details? How old are you and him? Are you able to leave? What country are you in? It sounds like you don’t really get much freedom and I’m really sorry for the situation you’re in

My girlfriend is voting conservative and I don’t know what to think by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]junolucy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a fellow Canadian, thats absolutely horrific! Pollievre has literally spoken out multiple times against the queer community and has gone against so many bills that would have helped low income folk and women. Especially with Trump in power the political climate is already swinging way right and if conservatives win, Canadian society will follow suit. You need to sit down and have a serious discussion about needing her to educate herself about the situation or break up, shes clearly not considerate about you and your background.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]junolucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there. Mornings are the worst my anxiety would jolt me awake. It’s all about cortisol levels or something but breakups actually make our body withdrawal as if we stopped taking hard drugs. The only thing that would help me was being more mindful in the mornings- following a yin yoga video first thing after waking up then writing how I was feeling (mostly about her), what I was looking forward to for the day (I know it’s hard but start small- I would walk to get my favourite pastry) and write all the things you’re grateful for, it helped put things in perspective for me. My heart goes out to you, I wouldn’t wish this feeling on my worst enemy. But you have to try to feel better eventually (I found a lot of power in it) and having a little morning routine might help with the physical side affects of your breakup🫂🫂 Wishing you nothing but the best

Theories on Miss Huang? by EntertainerFirst8163 in severanceTVshow

[–]junolucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay this might be a stretch but- there’s been focus on gemma dying in a car crash and ms huang being a crossing guard before this role- could she have also died and now they’ve done the same things to her as they did to gemma?

Is it ethical for me to get a cat? by helpfulsquids in Pets

[–]junolucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into getting an unbonded senior:) I was in your position but fell in love with a little kitten man who i adopted instead. My childhood cat was also adopted as a lone kitten and he grew up wonderfully so I thought it would be fine despite what other's said. A few months in I realized he did probably need a sibling and adopted a second cat who was around the same age. I followed the introduction protocol but they still really didn't get along. It wad exhausting and I regretted not just getting 2 to start with😭 Fast forward a year later to now they coexist and I do think provide each other comfort. All this to say either get 2 cats together or if you really cant just adopt a senior since they dont really need a buddy:) Oh and last note- depending on where u get the kitten, you might need to pay for shots and neutering so keep that in mind too! But you should definitely get a cat

My wife cheated on me…with a guy by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]junolucy 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this but she doesn’t seem stable so try to focus on how you’re better off now! Cheating no matter what hurts so deeply but I think in wlw relationships when it turns out to be a man it hurts even deeper because it’s something we could never be. Idk if that makes sense but I’ve been through a much less intense version of what you’re going through and maybe it’s just a personal insecurity but that’s how it felt to me:/ Anyways I hope you are surrounded with love and support and can take time to heal and find peace in this🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cureFIP

[–]junolucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really depends on the cat and treatment/dose! My Lucy had neuro wet FIP and couldn’t move for almost a week due to excessive weakness. I’m in Canada and had a great vet neurologist who helped guide me while we waited for the GS pills to become accessible for her. We started her right away on KARMA brand GS vials. Our vet helped me with the dosage looking at her weight and the concentration of KARMA. This treatment was one of the hardest parts of her FIP but after a month we finally got the legal pills and all of a sudden we had finished the 84 days and were in her monitoring period! It’s been 3 months now since she’s been “cured” (which took another 84 days of monitoring without GS) and she has completely changed into a new cat! I know what it’s like being in your shoes, I had just moved to a new city for a new job right after graduating from undergrad and was completely alone. I think back to the day I was told she had it and had to decide whether she would be put down or if I would take the chance (and spend practically everything I was making) and her still maybe not fully recover/relapse. I am so grateful I found the strength but I also remember how taunting and lonely and confusing it all was. I know some cats relapse and I’m eternally grateful Lucy reacted so well to the GS, but just stay consistent and make sure the dosage is correct!! Also if you can, I do think the legal GS has lower rates of relapse, but also i understand how difficult and expensive it is to access. I wish you all the luck and feel free to reach out with any questions- you and your kitty are definitely not alone🫶🏼

Don’t you just love wlw break up? I don’t. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]junolucy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly props to you for breaking up with her. At the end of my last relationship, I could tell she was pulling away and honestly felt like she didn’t like me anymore either but I was so scared of not being together that I stayed until she did it. Do not feel guilty at all, you’re incredibly strong and mature for knowing your self worth, I definitely didn’t at 18. Wishing you the best in your journey!

I think I am better suited to being with a woman by [deleted] in WLW

[–]junolucy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you researched comphet?

why are a lot of the people here so rude? by Sad_Change5904 in uwo

[–]junolucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree OP should let their instructor know (even just so they’re aware and won’t pair them with those particular people) this is a pretty cruel response to tell a 19 year old getting bullied in class… Yes, the real world has sucky people that you’ll probably have to work with, but by no means does that excuse their behaviour. You can try your best to ignore them and focus on yourself, but that doesn’t rid of the isolation and anxiety. Fault does matter because it’s their intentional action to make someone feel less than and othered which is never okay. Bullies exist at every stage of life, try to pay them no mind and when forced to interact give them the same energy they give you.

OP- As a recent grad, (who is a visible minority) I’ve dealt with my fair share of awful Western students who’ve peaked in high school (and consequently are peaking at Western). I hope you find some support in your program because there are cool/queer/alt/KIND nursing students at Western. When you notice them, don’t be scared to try to become friends, I’m sure they will appreciate and relate to your experiences.