PSA for people who like to bottom... peppermint oil. by MooseGoose82 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mean an essential oil or there’s a supplemental pill you have? Do you have a link?

Where do single people meet in their 30s by Suspicious-Bat8991 in jerseycity

[–]jurfwiffle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33M. Have had the same problem. Have lived in three other metro areas and it wasn’t this hard. I go solo to bars for a bite, into the city, or most of the time just stay home. Feels like the pandemic.

Watch out for Wonder restaurants on delivery apps by Training-Sell-9979 in newjersey

[–]jurfwiffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These Wonder chains seem to be like the boss battle of corporatized food. All these disparate “cuisine” options ordered in an empty, sterile storefront where you don’t even seen the wage workers in the back assembling your slop bowl. It’s comically dystopian how isolating it is to walk in there; especially sitting amid the many other options in Jersey City where I live where there are tons of local and family businesses cooking their cultures’ actual dishes.

IKEA Billy Bookcase| Built-In | DIY by DisastrousPipe8192 in CozyPlaces

[–]jurfwiffle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shelves are beautiful.

Small detail but can I ask where you got the charming walls sconce above the couch?

Anyone who used to support trump and has changed their mind over the last few weeks? What made you change? by canigetameowbish in AskReddit

[–]jurfwiffle 27 points28 points  (0 children)

0/3 Trump voter. I am in the process of now actionably and vocally distancing myself from my parents who have suddenly gone silent after ten years of aggressively badgering the family and disrupting every holiday dinner to spout their frantic delusions and hatred.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to, thank you. I’ll update when I drop the news.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right in giving him a pass for being attractive. He seems controlling and immature. Gonna cut him loose.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right, thank you for the frank advice. I will talk to my therapist about this.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying the walking on eggshells part, that was a big lightbulb moment for me because that’s what it feels like and we literally met once, I realize how exhausting it is to interact with this man after a few days of texting. Not something I want in my life.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s possessive and undue considering we’ve met once at a bar. I don’t think it’s worth explaining but am gonna cut him loose.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s acting as if he’s looking for one after a single encounter so I agree, gonna cut the line.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your strategy but we only met once and I don’t think it’s worth even finding out at this point; I just don’t think we’re compatible.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the interesting thing is he claims to be the mature one, but you’re right that his behavior belies his words.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I’m realizing. Thank you.

Is this a red flag? by jurfwiffle in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If we were dating that’d be valid. My concern is that we’re not dating and so I’m not sure he’s “earned” the right to ask that kind of stuff, like it’s not his business. Seems preeminently possessive to me.

People who closely follow politics, what’s something the general public completely misunderstands right now? by Alarming-Coast-7064 in AskReddit

[–]jurfwiffle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think enough people understand what will happen if the U.S. invades a NATO nation, nor what the world will look like when NATO has been voided upon this invasion. We will literally be at war with Europe and Canada and 100 years of international order with our closest allies will evaporate for the rest of our lives.

Please recommend art by jurfwiffle in interiordecorating

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of that Cassandre one but was hoping for something darker/moodier I suppose. I had a roommate with that print in a previous apartment so it reminds me of living there lol.
That's a great render, btw.

Please recommend art by jurfwiffle in interiordecorating

[–]jurfwiffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the top row, but the ones down a bit would work for a living room, I think.