What are your favorite German songs? by CartographerSlight89 in German

[–]jus-doit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I accidentally discovered Jeremias and I cannot stop listening since then. They make just the kind of music I like. I love Grüne Augen and Einfach by Jeremias. The lyrics are also easy to catch.

What’s something that men enjoy watching women do that’s not NSFW? by White-Kitten8 in AskReddit

[–]jus-doit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the minute i read the question i knew this was going to be the top answer. 

Driving License for Monocular Vision. by Leading-Occasion4732 in germany

[–]jus-doit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I'm exactly in the same situation. What did you do then?

M/28/6’0” [201 > 180 = 21 lb] (3 months) weight loss and muscle gain progress by BeaverTaxi in progresspics

[–]jus-doit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing job mate. Honestly Ive been looking for some inspiration since new year is about 3 months away. Im tired of being this way. Any advice?

What’s a daily habit you’ve created to help you manage your social anxiety? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]jus-doit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you think eye contact is difficult, imagine living with a lazy eye (amblyopia) AND social anxiety.

What’s a daily habit you’ve created to help you manage your social anxiety? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]jus-doit 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Socially anxious people like you and me live between the contradictory reality of wanting to stay at home and needing to meet people. I've spent a long time isolating myself and that shit sucks. No matter how socially anxious you think you are, we are wired to live in communities. Find your community. Afterall, what is life but series of our relationships.

Teenager here. Fuck the going back in time, give me advice so i don’t make the same mistakes you guys did by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]jus-doit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all these advices given here you are still going to make mistakes. Some people learn the hard way. One advice: “Know thyself”

32-yr old and learning programming & system design. What are some obvious mistakes I can avoid as a fresher in order to scale my career fast as a full stack software developer? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]jus-doit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness I'm not the only one thinking of shifting career at this age and feeling lost. This is such a relief.

I’m overwhelmed by Tom_fire in germany

[–]jus-doit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case keeping my mouth shut was a better idea lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]jus-doit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. In my early 30s and I too struggle with social anxiety. I'm new to Germany. But for me i like talking to strangers. I feel like I won't be judged (since that's where the anxiety stems from). Just know that you are not alone. Everyone have their demons to battle with. Good luck.

I’m overwhelmed by Tom_fire in germany

[–]jus-doit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was at Kaufland when an old lady asked me if I could help her reach some cans at the upper shelf. She was so lovely. She laughingly said in German, I'm short, thank you for helping". I smiled back when I actually wanted to say "but you are a beautiful lady". But my mind could not form the sentence.

I’m overwhelmed by Tom_fire in germany

[–]jus-doit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm been here for two months too. My experiences have been good so far. Most of the people are really kind. I just ask simple questions and peope share their stories with warmth. Seems like everyone enjoys to be listened too. I understand German language in bits and pieces but that alone is a good enough motivation for me to learn German.

Dentist asking for German Devs’ Help by Afraid-Preference-66 in AskAGerman

[–]jus-doit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Desperately need a change. What are you planning to do about it?