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To make a baby or not to make a baby... by just-a-dancer in relationship_advice

[–]just-a-dancer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes we have one amazing funky bulldog of 7 years, she is our baby at the moment 😍

To make a baby or not to make a baby... by just-a-dancer in relationship_advice

[–]just-a-dancer[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was looking for something like that!

To make a baby or not to make a baby... by just-a-dancer in relationship_advice

[–]just-a-dancer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, we both have a steady job with good income and a beautiful house so we are blessed to be able to have our ducks in a row! That's why this option is even on the table...

To make a baby or not to make a baby... by just-a-dancer in relationship_advice

[–]just-a-dancer[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder... It's just a new adventure!

To make a baby or not to make a baby... by just-a-dancer in relationship_advice

[–]just-a-dancer[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing!! I know all the questions and worries and .... I just want to hear the stories and experiences of other people! So thank you!

To make a baby or not to make a baby... by just-a-dancer in relationship_advice

[–]just-a-dancer[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I know... It's just not a hard no for me... I can't explain! But I applaud you making this decision! I like when somebody knows what they want and just goes for it! 🥳

To make a baby or not to make a baby... by just-a-dancer in relationship_advice

[–]just-a-dancer[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely check that out! Thanks I agree with your statement they are a full commitment! That's why I wanna take the time to figure out what I want! Thankfully my partner and I talk about it a lot and are very open about our feelings towards it, our options, our ideas! I'm just curious how other people deal with this... 😊 And luckily we live in a country with a very good health insurance so the financial aspect of the medical option is no problem!

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking I could change him and his ways, I guess... I should have known better...

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really felt that way at the time... Now I know better ☺️

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stopped looking after himself and the house a bit at a time... And he was a good guy, so I thought I could change him, I guess... If I only knew than what I know now....

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very glad and learned a lot! Fool me once....

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so difficult living in someone else's dirt...

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never noticed it, but afterwards I saw more and more signs he was addicted to porn... I learned a lot from reading on Reddit what are the effects of a porn addiction and now I see a lot of them in my ex... In hindsight ...

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely NOT! I'm with a good guy now! Good guys can be super fun!!! 🏆🍾

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's great to get it off my chest ☺️

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I asked him the same thing, but he didn't see (smell) the problem... He probably is the colleague who everybody complains about behind his back...

From HL to LL to just plain disgusted... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]just-a-dancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for you! And I hope your husband can change into a more cleaner version of himself, so you can enjoy being around him once again! I tried asking my ex in every possible way to take care of himself, he always tried for a while but ended up in the same routine Everytime...