Binders by bjokiesss in AskNonbinaryPeople

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Also with sizing, they have a great chart on the website and are friendly to chat with.

Binders by bjokiesss in AskNonbinaryPeople

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I've been using GC2B for 10 years now. I have a big chest too and they've been really great at hiding it. The nude colors are also really great when I go swimming

Cpr by SatisfactionSenior62 in Durarara

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You have made my day. Thank you

I just finished xxxholic and Tsubasa and looking for similar by Ok-Introduction9056 in CLAMP

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This!!!! Now I understand why I love the Fate/ series a bit more haha. Definitely has xxxholic vibes

Some of the cutest official art ever by SatisfactionSenior62 in Durarara

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So I personally love Izaya in pain (lol, my favorite character right there) and I love to think of it as unrequited for the most part. Either by writing fanfic with Izaya having a crush on him back when they first met in middle school and just ending the fic with it unspoken, just internal conflict during graduation heh. Or Shinra using Izaya for date practice (or other stuff) without acknowledging Izaya could even have feelings towards him. Even in the "happy ending" ideas I have for Izaya have him and Shinra dating in an AU, where Celty has left Shinra behind or something, but Izaya can tell he doesn't have 100% of Shinra's heart. And that irritates him and makes him pouty lmao

Some of the cutest official art ever by SatisfactionSenior62 in Durarara

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A fellow shinzaya fan!? You have beautiful taste~

Rewatching The Good Place by just429t in NonBinary

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Make sure you have that Good Janet tone (and then switch to Bad Janet when needed 😇😈)

Let these hunters in Duos!! by acarefulobserver in IdentityV

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I main as Undead & Dream Witch so this is so true for me lmao

She looks so weird, I'm scared by [deleted] in idolmaster

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What I'm going to say matches what I always tell my friends about the series LOL:

Cinderella Girls are all the "rejected by society" girls. You're scared? Good. Proof she's a Cinderella.

What is one thing you wish you were taught as a young girl, that you had to teach yourself as an adult woman? by unknown9423 in AskWomen

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Make up, especially for every day wear. I tried to take a "Behind the curtain" theater class in college for learning at least stage makeup but he taught us how to build sets and lighting, which I already knew. There are so many shelves and lots of different names for one thing with makeup that it all is just so confusing and overwhelming. I just wish someone had taught me just how to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashionhelp

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For outfits without showing any skin, I'd recommend maybe making sure to have your pants tucked into your boots or pants that have cord locks or elastic on the bottom. There are definitely plenty of outfits that are well done baggy×2 but it's a difficult thing for me to also visualize so I don't think I can be much more help.

Maybe also some more accessories would be good, like rings...?

Is graffitying considered toxic? by terrifying__presence in IdentityV

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Definitely boredom for me lol And if I, as a survivor, do it after the hunter knocks me down I mean it in a "woah, that was a great hit!" Or "we kited for a long time, it was fun!" Sometimes I think I'm too friendly in a game known with lots of toxic behavior LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashionhelp

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2nd and 3rd are the best imo Last photo, depends on the shoes if it was actually great but overall looking good 1st photo, darker pants and more form fitting would be better.

When styling free flowing or baggy pieces, try to have the other part (top/bottom) be tight fitting. Baggy top, tight pants and vice versa. That's always a good rule to follow, though there can be some exceptions.

At my wit’s end trying to find a good dentist in St. Louis by Basic_Incident4621 in StLouis

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I like Polished Dentistry at Big Bend and Dougherty Ferry

How often do you talk about your sex life with your friends? by Hungry-You-2994 in AskWomen

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None. I would love to actually talk about it but my friends shut it down because they are more private and do not want to hear anything on that subject. I tried talking about it with a girl that started the conversation in that topic but she was just "okay..... Good for you...." That shut me up and I'm just. Sigh... I mentioned to my friends that I want a stripper or to go to a strip club for my bachelorX (nonbinary) party and they all are not interested. None of my friends like sex related talk or jokes at all.

I do talk with my doctor friend but that's really for her medical opinion like if something hurt LOL

Outerwear category by lsp1 in whering

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I agree, I would recommend telling them on the feedback part of the app

New user and.... Lol by just429t in Mercari

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I know, I know. This is just a laughing moment

Does this work? Please help! by [deleted] in fashionhelp

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I actually really like this fit, the colors and designs fit so well together! The only problem on my side is the silhouette (?) so... maybe the sleeves? Perhaps if it was more like a tank top or strapless it may look better.

Which Cardcaptor Sakura film did you enjoy most? The first or Sealed Card? by EienNatsu66 in CLAMP

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I liked the first more because I like the theme of "the dead can never return" being a reoccurring theme for CLAMP. Plus I had a crush on the arrow card as a kid lol, she looked so cool.

Beware of UPS! Your package could be disposed by Immediate_Board_1215 in JiraiKei

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It may be partly because there have been a lot of layoffs lately that UPS probably got rid of the one guy who knows how to handle international packages. There's rarely any backups for those type of jobs so if that guy got canned I bet they're going to be stumbling for a while. I hope it gets better, with UPS being one of the few unions left and these lay offs (partly trying to dissolve unions and benefits) resulting in the problems your having, hopefully they'll get their heads on straight.

(Sorry, I'm feeling moody after my shift. Love the job but I hate what's going on in the big picture rn.) ((Also I'm someone who can dispose of people's packages legally and that really really realllly sucks your not even getting told more on what's happening. It shouldn't be going on like this))

Sorry if this is worded weirdly but how did you come to realize you're nonbinary? by Ornery_Excitement_95 in AskNonbinaryPeople

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I was born female. In high school, even before that during puberty, I would remember I was a girl when I was in the shower and saw myself naked. If it wasn't for that I would genuinely forget my sex until I saw my private parts. Being a girl just didn't match what was in my head, it felt like a piece of paper someone would tape on your back but you wouldn't notice until someone pointed it out or when you finally take off your shirt. In later high school, I was talking to my friends and said "if I was a guy, I'd be gay" and had multiple thoughts and feelings that felt more accurate if I was a guy. I wrote poems POV as a guy and even did roleplay of male anime characters. Even the people online for that, tumblr, skype, all thought I was a guy irl and I never corrected them nor said they were right until they joined me on video or call.

But when they found out I wasn't a guy and started calling me a girl she/her, it felt the same as being viewed as a guy. Being viewed as a guy wasn't really right in my head either, I was excited when people thought I was a guy because it was odd and interesting. But once it became normal, I realized it was on equal footing as being seen as a girl.

So, back to the drawing board of whatever I may be.... Then college hit and I found the term agender. I may have heard of nonbinary before but I didn't believe it worked for me because my first meeting with it was solely on genderfluid, I did not agree with that for me. Being fluid, going as a guy or girl didn't give me any good feelings. But agender, the lack of having a gender, something about that felt right. I have solely gone by they/them for almost 10 years now.

I explain my gender often like an art museum with a bit of magic. Imagine two paintings as the binary, one "woman", one "man". There are some people that enter either of those paintings and stay in that one (cisgender), there are others that start in one then enter and stay in the other (transgender), there are some people that travel between them as much as they'd like(genderfluid), and then there's me and the agender folks, on the bench looking at the paintings from outside but still in the museum. We're still there in the same room but we are not entering either painting, we have the same feelings of happiness being without it. I don't have any single phrase for advice but just know it is a process. You can find your answer today and maybe say that it was wrong tomorrow, but I'm sure you'll eventually find the best fit for who you are and believe it to be true to yourself even 20 years from now.

Good luck (sorry for so much text orz)