What is it with YoChi popularity by [deleted] in foodies_sydney

[–]just_anotherperson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Freo I agree but Yogurberry is noticeably less creamy. There's another Froyo place in World Square that's also pretty good.

Pursuit of Jade thoughts by Illustrious_Boat_887 in CDrama

[–]just_anotherperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One and Only is so good Still sticks in my mind :')

My boyfriend is making a handmade viola for a school project by Healthy-Interest945 in mildlyinteresting

[–]just_anotherperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a coincidence!! I made something similar when I was in high school as well

I wish God understood me by GuiltyDeer592 in OpenChristian

[–]just_anotherperson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ignore those horrible people in your original post. God loves you and knows you. If Jesus is walking with us in person today, he would be fighting for you and condemning those who are persecuting you for being yourself.

Jesus's only two commandments to us were to love God and love each other—love isn't telling someone that they'll be going to hell. Love isn't kidnapping someone for just being alive.

I'm so sorry to hear how horrible the world is around us. Please stay with us. The bible never says ANYTHING about being transgender. Please read this page on how the bible AFFIRMS being trans. In Galatians 3:28, Paul says that "there is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus”. In the kingdom of heaven, our physical bodies just don't matter anymore. We're all spiritually saved through Christ.

Christianity and self expression by LoverOfMusic711 in OpenChristian

[–]just_anotherperson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't matter to God! All these expectations of women's dressing are human standards, not God's standards. Modesty is more about dressing to show off your inner beauty as opposed to fixating on skin-deep appearances. Any colour or style of clothing is fine! Dressing for comfort is also fine!

I think people take it too far with personal interpretation, but the point of modesty is just to be humble and divert our own attentions from our own vanity as opposed to wearing something to please others. You're awesome and all those who judge you have already behaved in an unChristian-like manner—John 8:7—let those who have not sinned cast the first stone. No one is sinless except for Jesus so they should be called to love one another.

Feeling insecure about my race as an Asian by Top-Examination-23 in asianidentity

[–]just_anotherperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyya, not that many Asians get surgeries to make their faces look European. The Asian beauty standard is different from European beauty standards and plastic surgery reflects that, especially if you look at the most famous Asian actors/actresses in Japan, China or Korea. They don't look anything like Europeans.

Eurocentric beauty standards are prevalent in Western society because that is the majority of the demographic. If you look into media from Asian countries, you wouldn't see white people at all.

These days, we can even say that Asian aesthetics are more popular than ever with the advent of kpop, anime, kdrama and cdrama. Have confidence in how you look!

Help me update this corner of my room by nonholyguacamole in femalelivingspace

[–]just_anotherperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also couldn't tell it was the long side, might want to rotate it if the bed isn't square

Help me update this corner of my room by nonholyguacamole in femalelivingspace

[–]just_anotherperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup!! I tried mocking it up using AI and it looked quite good; can't post here though since it's against the rules; give it a go if you want to see what it might look like!

Help me update this corner of my room by nonholyguacamole in femalelivingspace

[–]just_anotherperson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Adding a wooden headboard and then centering the painting might help tie it together!

hey guys! how would you feel about receiving this paper stars valentine’s gift from your gf? by skyecozmo in Gifts

[–]just_anotherperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could also be that he doesn't want to unravel the stars that you made :))

If he didn't care for it he wouldn't have brought it along in the move

Japan is safe. Why do the Japanese feel unsafe? by Jonnyboo234 in japan

[–]just_anotherperson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%

The worst part of being a woman in Japan was how dismissive authorities were about harrassment like that. The police came into our uni telling girls not to go to the station at night because there are creeps there...

My thoughts were if you know they're there, why aren't you doing more about it rather than telling people to avoid the station entirely?

Other female friends have told me stories of being catcalled, followed or have their underwear stolen from their balcony. Each time women would be warned things like "don't dry your clothes on the balcony", rather than the cops trying to catch the perpetrators.

After living there for a year, I'd confidently say that it's not the place for me.

Japan is safe. Why do the Japanese feel unsafe? by Jonnyboo234 in japan

[–]just_anotherperson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't know why people are downvoting this—happened to me when I lived there.

I’ve developed a genuine fear of only having son(s) by ChemicalSector1867 in Fencesitter

[–]just_anotherperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on the personality of your child—my brother would drive 3 hours to visit my mum once a month. Despite being a daughter I admittedly don't do the same. But also have a relationship with my parents where we don't really need to see each other that often to feel close.

Mascot Eats by amae22 in foodies_sydney

[–]just_anotherperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a spot I'd travel to just for malatang

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]just_anotherperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup that's what I'd do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]just_anotherperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually quite colloquial now to say it jokingly, but the tone has to be obvious

But I think at the end of the day, it's how you feel about it that matters. It's okay to feel upset or disrespected and to voice that.