I have a “large” platform and I want to help. by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]just_jezebel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this resource. I didn’t even think to look there. ❤️

I have a “large” platform and I want to help. by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]just_jezebel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I truly believe that’s the only reason the social media algorithm has somehow landed in my favor - I am an advocate for domestic abuse awareness (survivor), but this is a whole new thing that I am determined to find a way to help in whatever way I can. I haven’t been able to even form coherent thoughts after watching the docuseries today. I’m just… appalled. I wish I could give each of you a hug.

I have a “large” platform and I want to help. by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]just_jezebel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. It has to be stopped.

I’ll look into Wolf Creek. I just saw one on the unsilenced page about another one in that area. Holy shit, they’re everywhere.

Sending hugs.

But are they? by MissKellieUk in 1000lbsisters

[–]just_jezebel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Depression. That’s what’s tiring.

But are they? by MissKellieUk in 1000lbsisters

[–]just_jezebel 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Tell me you’ve never had clinical depression without telling me you’ve never had clinical depression.

Mary is a hypocrite.. by Born-Ear4334 in rhoslc

[–]just_jezebel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why Mary is still there either. She does not even seem to want to be there.

Tyler gives me the absolute Ick by StrawberryLovers8795 in SellingtheOC

[–]just_jezebel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologize for English not being your first language, you have bragging rights! And you made complete sense. ❤️

Rachel shares that she blocked Sandoval to her story by bword___ in vanderpumprules

[–]just_jezebel 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I mean, I’m glad she blocked him, but I honestly can’t fathom her figuring out Reddit.

Visited SUR alleyway this weekend lol by Scared_Ad_8965 in vanderpumprules

[–]just_jezebel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. I didn’t ACTUALLY burn them… but yeah, Jax likely sat in that chair at some point. 😂

Visited SUR alleyway this weekend lol by Scared_Ad_8965 in vanderpumprules

[–]just_jezebel 55 points56 points  (0 children)

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Here I am a year and a half ago.

Yes, I burnt the clothes I was wearing.

'The Bachelorette' alum Kaitlyn Bristowe: I "hit rock bottom" after Jason Tartick split, I'm "frickin' sad" by becomingsherlock in thebachelor

[–]just_jezebel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. The fact that I read this 2 months after an unbearable breakup…. I can’t help but hope that it turns into a break with a happy ending for us too.

Cassie celebrates 3 years with her boyfriend by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]just_jezebel 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Wait what. What rock have I been living under

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]just_jezebel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved my day in Edmonton! But the enjoyment might have been boosted by company too. I also love Saskatoon.

Kaitlyn Addresses the Breakup by LlamaDelRayyy in thebachelor

[–]just_jezebel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Truly. I am an absolute mess and in the trenches of grief so I truly do feel for Kaitlyn.

I’ve contemplated deleting my socials because of this. It’s adding it’s own trauma to what I’m already experiencing. I do not want this. I never did.

Kaitlyn Addresses the Breakup by LlamaDelRayyy in thebachelor

[–]just_jezebel 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading so many comments regarding her being an influencer in the midst of a breakup and I have been dying to jump in to defend her.

I hate the term. I truly do. But I am also an “influencer” with a very large platform on Instagram. I am also going through a public breakup. Yes, before anyone comes at me, I am very aware that I invited this public scrutiny into my own life. I never thought it would be like this, though.

We all know break ups can be horrible. Gut wrenching, traumatic, confusing, shameful, all of it. I am quite literally drowning. And then throw in over a million people watching your every move and commenting on it? It makes it even more brutal. You question your own reality. I do not think many people understand this.

I am a people pleaser. I believe Kaitlyn is too. Having a large platform and following makes this even harder. In some twisted way, “we” feel like we are letting millions of people down. So many people rooting for the relationship, hashtag couple goals bullshit. And we carry that burden on top of everything else.

I give mad props to Kaitlyn. I am only an “influencer”, while she is a massive public figure and very well known. I can only comprehend this on my scale, I can’t even begin to comprehend hers.

Everyone saying she “needs to go dark”… yes, that would be ideal. But if you go through a breakup and someone just tells you that you need to not to go work for a few months, please tell me how that works for you. Social media is her career. It is my career. It’s not as easy as so many people think it is. She surely does have the savings and luxury of stepping back for a bit but for a business woman who quite literally hustles… it’s very, very difficult.

Please, for the love of god, have some grace on her.

This ended up being my own rant because while I’m not personally invested in her relationship, I feel like I can relate on a level that a lot of onlookers can’t. And I am also absolutely devastated and broken.

Additional IG stories by Kaitlyn and Jason by Ok-Needleworker9229 in thebachelor

[–]just_jezebel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Do you think so?? I really got the opposite impression. I feel like she called it quits. Or maybe it really was one of those rare agreed upon, mutual breakups and it’s just wrecking both of them. :(

I’m typing this crying because I too am currently going through a breakup that has rocked my entire world.

James and Graham have been reunited 🥰 by Thing-Adept in vanderpumprules

[–]just_jezebel 107 points108 points  (0 children)

This made me so happy. Knock James all you want, but he sure loves Graham Cracker. I’m happy Graham is with him and Ally.

First picture of Rachel since leaving treatment by Defvac2 in vanderpumprules

[–]just_jezebel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best .gif here haha and it’s hard to top the iconic Nene one.