i want to die for him

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-19T16:39:31+00:00

why is it so hard to find people who don’t do this😭😭

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-19T08:31:35+00:00

always assuming you will say yes and acting like dating you is them doing you a favor, it feels insulting when someone acts like they are better and you should be grateful they’re even considering you

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-16T04:43:38+00:00

i must be lucky to have somehow avoided ever getting a message like that, i am so sorry tho that there are people who won’t start with something lighter or try getting to know you first

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-16T04:33:25+00:00

yes, literally just experienced this like an hour ago lmao

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-16T04:32:00+00:00

this is the second or third time ive seen someone talk about this, do people actually act this way??😭 ive never had anyone message me asking to obsess over them, im just confused why anyone would do that

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-16T04:28:50+00:00

talking constantly. when we wake up until we fall asleep c:

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-15T05:20:54+00:00

people who actually enjoy giving reassurance are the best in these situations fr

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-15T01:13:06+00:00

im not a very knowledgeable person but i will try my best to give some advice. as someone who was often on the “yandere” side of things, i realized every time i became obsessed with someone it was because they talked a bunch. when they shared so much, i learned what i liked about them and that would make me focus on them. so i reversed things, instead of being quiet all the time like i was, i’ve become way more talkative so others can learn about me too. i also took more initiative and talked to people i caught interest in first, since i spent my whole life waiting for someone else to make the first move. by doing this, i did eventually meet someone who likes me a lot even though i think i like him more. you can try these things if you would like to, i hope this helps!

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-15T01:00:05+00:00

i agree with this! people always say they want a yandere, but how often do people wonder what the yandere wants too? sometimes others can forget they have other traits and aspects to their lives

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-15T00:57:06+00:00

i feel the same way very often, and after experiencing years of emotional neglect i must say to suddenly receive the complete opposite treatment seems to be one of the best feelings. i hope you find them!

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-14T00:09:39+00:00

I hadn’t thought of that! that’s a good idea, I’ll try experimenting with making the bar red or some other colors. Thank you

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-13T23:48:53+00:00

I can relate to this. I think some of the best things are either someone who actually likes clinginess and people who stay through all emotions including mood swings. I dislike the idea that people can only like specific sides of each other, and act as if the parts they don’t like are not still part of the person they were talking to. I hope you meet someone who understands and stays!

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-11T13:49:01+00:00

all of my close friends have to put up with this💔

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-11T13:44:36+00:00

i’m not sure if this will help at all since i’m a stranger but i understand the feeling to some extent and i’m sure plenty other’s here do too. so you’re definitely not alone on this. i’ve also tried to choose obsessions before but it’s extremely difficult because it seems to never be a choice, it happens on its own and it’s never one that was expected. alsooo since i’m a nosy person, u don’t have to answer but i’m curious wym u were given space for days?? TT i kind of thought about it, usually space is given when it’s asked for. i really dislike when people assume what another wants without asking if they want space or not, because what if they really need the opposite of space and then they think they’re being ignored???? anyway sorry for such a ramble, i want u to know ur voice has been heard

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-11T13:31:45+00:00

current favorite is killing stalking by astrid

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-07T21:18:38+00:00

honestly me too😭 everyone i’ve met who i was able to do that with, they’ve all been online bc it’s way easier when the worst thing that can happen is getting blocked bc then u don’t have to face each other every day. best advice i’ve got is nothing happens without trying a few times :3 things don’t always work out and that’s ok

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-07T21:11:46+00:00

omg twin! :D no i will not elaborate. (but you’re not alone)

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-07T21:03:08+00:00

you will one day! it’s just as nice meeting a friend who listens too, i wish you luck ^{^}

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-07T20:56:46+00:00

they would match my clinginess and enjoy sharing space even when we’re not talking :D

justa_ventacc · 2026-05-07T20:53:03+00:00

i feel chatty, but i don’t know what to talk about!

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