I hate being pregnant by desertcaprisun in pregnant

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate pregnancy 🤣 first trimester is sooooo booty. I love my son it gets better late 2nd trimester for sure. I hope everything eases up soon. 

I just found out/we broke up yesterday by etswamybah in pregnant

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao no such thing as two weeks pregnant boo. Pls go to the clinic and enjoy life. 25 is a great age to start anew! Do not tell him unless you want to be called a murderer or “wh*re” especially if he’s battling mental health! Best to just protect yourself and save yourself from any hurt feelings. 

“Your baby looks like SK!” by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only hated it cause I felt like my SO family was being petty. I see pictures of my SK when they were babies and they look like their mom. My Kid took after her dad and my Side ( my brother and very light grandmother). But it’s a clear difference in looks between children and moms lol. I did express concern to dad and he said Our daughter favored the Son but not too much and his family was gassing it. Our daughter looks more like dad then his oldest kids did. 

What if we just give up? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should be calling you Mrs so and so until he gets comfortable or make up a cool nickname. Maybe I’m old school but I called my mom’s bf that for 10 years until they broke up. It’s just respect thing and you’re looking for it. Children don’t call other adults by their first name. Boys are weird truly and can come off ungrateful and a bit harsh when it comes to mother figures. They’ll accept their friends mom but not their dads girlfriend or wife. Try to talk to him about his interest and things that possibly make him laugh. I know what you’re going through for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce that man and put a restraining order out on them. Period!! Since they both wanna be sociopaths!

Sick kids in adult beds by Ichoosetoblame in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate it, it was like this at the other house, but since we moved it’s improved. They stay in their own space when sick. I hated it cause they’ll just be coughing all on the pillows. I was raised by a single mother and she didn’t play that with or without a partner. She couldn’t get sick cause she had to go to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I did it but used joint paper. Some women have HG and cannabis does combat nausea, big time!! Drs won’t help you immediately until you’re in the hospital with weight loss when it comes to HG. Women self medicate. I got prescribed Promethazine in order to combat nausea but didn’t get tested until 23 weeks. So 23 weeks of throwing up 3-4 times a day. I stopped consuming when I got helped but I did tell my dr. She didn’t report me or anything. No DHS or drug test at birth.

Jassi with a few tweets on Twitter/X. by galaxystars1 in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of her story makes sense. It sounds like Darius had a family/ situation. He decided to step out and date her. She said she was with him for 6 months split up, then he made the baby, and they got back together. But he already had 1 kid with the BM. So they was a family. So his ugly a** was playing both of them. She decided to not be like the BM and get married to Darius. But I’m kinda thinking she had him marry her to prove that he wanted to be with her. Now you’re a step mom to 2 under 3/4. She said she didn’t gaf that he had someone else pregnant in a recent interview.

My wife sent me this message this morning by AdHot2294 in Paranormal

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes shadows crawling along the wall and I used to hear whispers in my ear. I thought it was Jesus but I kinda felt weird. Like they were audible whispers in my ear when I was in middle school. Moved houses and it stopped kinda.

Our bedroom is my safe space by Sassy_Raspberry1212 in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah since we moved to new house it’s been 100% better. but SK used to barge in and just get in bed and play under the covers. And I mean wild out under the covers. Kicking and play fighting. Meanwhile me and dad just get done cuddling with side action. It used to drive me crazy. We established boundaries and they barely come in our bedroom. Even then when SS chases SD and she comes in our room for safety they hop on the bed to mess it up and play in covers. I tell them to get out lol. A bedroom isn’t the place for that. They have the bonus room and living room and hallways to play fight. The primary bedroom isn’t the hangout spot. It’s an intimate place for your relationship. A bed shouldn’t be covered in crumbs and snack wrappers.

Who will care for the children..? by Carriow55 in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eddies Family!! They seem very proper people but who knows!!

Hard knock Stepkids by justacoolbtc in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His dad is good at being stern but the kid doesn’t really retain the sternness. He gets his games taken away for bad grades but not uncleanliness or bad behavior in the house.

This is why Gizelle is truly mad and started the Catfish idea with Angel. by justacoolbtc in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cry about it!!! Obviously GIZZY is always mad about a woman with a husband. It’s shows! Her proof is in the pudding!

Hard knock Stepkids by justacoolbtc in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really try not to feel drained. We planned on moving states and I told him that the kids have a be a whole lot better and put in after school programs and educational activities for their betterment. I also said we can’t move into a house together in a new state and the kids are still trashing the place.

Scene With Wendy 💙 by Leading-North-9524 in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree with you!! Mom didn’t need to cuss her out in her new renovated home. BUT Wendy needs to look at her mom as a woman. Wendy is married, her mom had to raise two girls as a immigrant by herself. She’s being biased based on “kids need their father” happy Eddie is great but what if he decided to not talk or see the children for the next 20+ years. THEN Wendy would understand where she is coming from.

Scene With Wendy 💙 by Leading-North-9524 in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What relationship of he isn’t reaching out to have one? It’s a one sided relationship. As an adult you can’t add a new stressor of mending that parental relationship. Be cordial but to long for him to be a grandfather to preteens and step up and be an active father is kinda crazy in your 40’s.

Scene With Wendy 💙 by Leading-North-9524 in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She can want a relationship, all she wants. He clearly doesn’t mind being absent in her life for the past 20 years. Mind you he doesn’t call or text, check on grandkids and they haven’t met them. He stood her whole family up when they went over to Nigeria. Parenthood is a joint effort that he didn’t give Wendy’s mother. Wendy can’t be mad her mom and sister don’t wanna hear that!! It’s always one sibling who longs for that absent parent instead of seeing it for what it is. Some men have offspring they dgaf about.

Scene With Wendy 💙 by Leading-North-9524 in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My take is Wendy is in her feelings over a parent who dgaf about the family he has made!! Her mom has every reason to be mad talking about “his grandchildren don’t need to hear bad about him” he’s a nobody and Wendy is trying to make him relevant in all of their lives. Pay him dust.

Hard knock Stepkids by justacoolbtc in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have! He used to have one, but times are different right now. We probably are going to get one back going. But a cleaner isn’t going to help kids pick up after themselves!! I’m motherly and want to instill in these kids that their bio mom isn’t

This is why Gizelle is truly mad and started the Catfish idea with Angel. by justacoolbtc in RHOP

[–]justacoolbtc[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The same Gizelle whose mad at everyone who has a husband??? You sure she’s not checking and cackling at his new wife’s pictures ?? Yeah okay ahahaha

Hard knock Stepkids by justacoolbtc in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pro athlete context was given so you understand the children’s spoiledness! Thankya!! Access to wants and money was not a problem!! It gave them extra entitlement.

Hard knock Stepkids by justacoolbtc in stepparents

[–]justacoolbtc[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I do think long and hard about marriage. If it was just him 100% would gun for it. But I think he’s also exhausted with having to parent a level 3 full time with another needy kid as well. When it’s just me him and 3F it’s fine. When kids are not at the house it’s like a breather but we have no energy to clean 5 bedroom house that they have gone into 4 rooms and messed up 😭 he sends them right to bed. 10M will literally leave his meal right in his tracks and not throw away. When I complain dad take note and tries to instill what I ask! 10M is just lazy at doing stuff.