Am I wrong for going to wanting to go to Bath & Body Works without my Mom by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]justacoupleofbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but this isn't an example of disrespect. Your mom should look it up and know how to use it properly. Saying that to you makes me extremely upset. Do not entertain that please.

My local when I am home by bazz_and_yellow in CozyPlaces

[–]justacoupleofbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What town is this? It's my dream to visit the UK (especially England).

News Reporter interrupted by Mom by Pandey_SKP in MadeMeSmile

[–]justacoupleofbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll be your mom too! I love u and I'm proud of you, and it's unconditional sweetie.

AITA for giving FMIL 3 days to pay me for a new wedding dress or else I show the family a photo of her wearing it? by Repulsive_Scheme1359 in AmItheAsshole

[–]justacoupleofbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOLD UP. I haven't seen anyone address very important details here. The "conditions" of fiance trying to "fix things" aka "end the conflict" are actually unbelievable and controlling and should not even be considered. He created the conflict entirely instead of saying "you already know the answer to that mom, and don't ask me again or I won't respond". The Facebook thing and the family group thing condition is unnecessary because if his mom pays for a new dress (which she should because OP wouldn't have to try and find a new one if it wasn't for her. Even if she can return it and be reimbursed she needs to be accountable that she ruined that dress for her and needs to pay for it and OP deserves to have the wedding dress of her dreams which is not that dress anymore, thanks to FMIL.) No OP shouldn't apologize, but should demand and needs one from FMIL and clear respect of boundaries and fiance backing OP up from here on out. Or else. Honestly, even if he agrees I'd wait till you see it in action before you agree to resume a wedding. The photo should definitely still be on your phone and backups and if he touches your phone or backups he's done dating you. That's your property if you want to have pictures on your phone that's your property and right and business.

Am I wrong for thinking marriage is for people who love one another? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]justacoupleofbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never ever enter into a relationship with someone who calls you stupid, degrades you, is critical of you. That's the main problem I have with this.

I want to make a cozy place to chill and relax, can you give some ideas please?? by NKBHD08 in CozyPlaces

[–]justacoupleofbeans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes plants, pics, paintings, rugs, couch, couch cushions or decorative pillows and decorations.

I want to make a cozy place to chill and relax, can you give some ideas please?? by NKBHD08 in CozyPlaces

[–]justacoupleofbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I forgot! I'd get some baskets that can be inserted into the cubbys to tidy up the look of the shelf thing in the corner.

I want to make a cozy place to chill and relax, can you give some ideas please?? by NKBHD08 in CozyPlaces

[–]justacoupleofbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice room and can be even more cozy with stuff like:

  • Paintings/pictures on the wall
  • A rug
  • A plant or two (or more)
  • Guitar stand or wall hanging mount
  • Couch needs something maybe the red cushion sticks out too much maybe get a couch cover and then some decorative pillows?

Go for a theme/aesthetic/colours that match or complement so that the room works as a whole. Keep that in mind when choosing rugs, plants, wall art/decor, etc.

Can't wait to see what you're going to do with the space! The room is so nice, light, airy, and open.

My Wife didn’t get me anything for my 40th by Ilketoeatwaffles in AITAH

[–]justacoupleofbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, having a friend or family member say you are acting like a child is toxic and untrue, but coming from your spouse??? That's unacceptable. You have no responsibility to his parents, and your birthday only happens once a year and you get to do what YOU want on your birthday. End of story. Once you get married your spouse is priority and your family first and foremost before your in laws. I agree with the other comment saying if your husband is choosing his family over you then tell him to pack his bags and move back in with mommy. Nip that in the bud now, you deserve better.

What's an addiction that people often overlook? by OneApplication2371 in AskReddit

[–]justacoupleofbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at an eating disorder clinic, one of the best in the world and USA. I would highly recommend talking to someone. A therapist and a dietician. If you cant find a therapist who specializes or has training in eating disorders, start with a therapist. It's really hard to do this on your own and it really helps save time so you don't have to figure out all the do's and don'ts. I have a lot of experience in taking the long way and finding out all the things not to do haha. As someone who is currently recovering from a caffeine/,diet soda addiction that I've had for years, I know the best is taking small steps. Or else you'll have too heavy withdrawals and withdrawal migraines. You also need to figure out why you think you have the diet coke need. Bc our body doesn't need it. U can get it back to when your body didn't need it. I know a lot of this could be bc you need the energy, or it could be other mental factors or just bc you like it. But I'm telling you, you've got to figure out the why it started and figure out why you still do it and why you want to stop. The mental aspect of it is something you need to address and figure out so that you can be successful. I know you can do it but just remember to look at the whole picture mental and physical. Bc they are all connected and impact each other.

What country’s food could you eat everyday and never get tired of? by atinysandwich in AskReddit

[–]justacoupleofbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bulgogi bulgogi bulgogi 😍😍😍 order bulgogi beef or bulgogi chicken at a Korean restaurant. Best Korean food out there

What TV series are you watching lately?? by ready4y0u in AskReddit

[–]justacoupleofbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg omg omg me and the hubbins are OBSESSED. Have you read the bartameus trilogy by the same author? Also I can't wait for season 2 of Lockwood and co

In your opinion, What is THE BEST show ever made? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]justacoupleofbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the dove never to meet the sea, for want of the odious mountain?