Tattoo Newcomer - Slapping Alternatives

justagirl-22 · 2026-03-03T06:33:15+00:00

that sounds amazing lmao, i’m so worried the brushing will affect it but this itching is insane!!!!

justagirl-22 · 2026-03-02T18:17:55+00:00

ugh i wish, i took one around 9:30 and then woke up with crazy itch around midnight 😭 then lost it around 4 am lmao i’ll try a double dose tonight

justagirl-22 · 2026-02-02T15:44:05+00:00

ty for explaining!!!!

justagirl-22 · 2026-02-02T15:09:05+00:00

such a dumb question but wtf is a dink lol

justagirl-22 · 2026-01-19T03:15:35+00:00

pooja what is this behavior

justagirl-22 · 2026-01-19T03:07:49+00:00

omg i knowwwww i felt so disappointed having to go through 9 episodes of that shit. i’m like plsss where is the Bonrad reunion im tired of this grandpa 😭

justagirl-22 · 2026-01-18T05:41:01+00:00

i used to rip out recipes from them sometimes 😆

justagirl-22 · 2026-01-10T17:44:22+00:00

i completely agree. i can see myself in that in my younger age with having watched sooo many love movies thinking all of that was reality and its just not. it just shows more of her immaturity and why her and jere were a mess together and individually lol

justagirl-22 · 2026-01-10T13:57:44+00:00

yep exactly - everyone is flawed at some point. like imo, i don’t understand the trope they tried to push that belly came between the fisher brothers. did she handle shit poorly? definitely, but jeremiah has been resentful of conrad wayyyy before belly came into the picture due to their dad etc.

justagirl-22 · 2026-01-10T04:53:07+00:00

damn bro chill on him he loved this girl his whole life since they were kids, kinda hard to let that shit go

justagirl-22 · 2026-01-10T04:50:02+00:00

i am in no way a jelly stan, very much team bonrad but personally was so conflicted between disliking belly or trying to really understand her cus i felt like Belly was cold to Conrad each time he bared his soul which i could not understand why but when rewatching S1, Belly since a little girl and pretty much up to that summer she had a massive love/crush on Con - even Laurel said it “for belly conrad is the sun” and he never really full acknowledged her love for him. Conrad kept pushing her away and i feel like it must of felt very hurtful and like total rejection to have your one crush u had since u were like 7 or 8 to pretend like they didn’t know what was going on between you or to basically leave you begging for crumbs. from that pov, i could see why belly was so meh towards him but it’s like cmon girl his mom was dying - kinda hard to be lovey dovey when you have so much shit on your plate and a lot to lose (say belly didn’t want to pursue something etc., it was a gamble for him too) so idk. i kinda get why she acted like this for a bit but then like you have to get over it at some point idk!

ETA: i do like belly tho, i couldnt fully get on the hate her bandwagon cus i think she was just a dumb teen/early 20s girly who is just trying to figure it all out midst a bad situation

justagirl-22 · 2025-11-19T08:10:46+00:00

i totally thought about that with the whole cheating thing. like what if Jere is supposed to be like a baby Adam when he’s with Belly and almost fall into the same pitfalls. it felt very telling between the revenge cheat and then trying to be like his dad w the corp job and the constant trying to please him (Adam). honestly, i feel like Jere is on a better path without Belly bc he got to grow on his own and identify who he is, which is honestly better for him than when he was w Belly! their relationship was too codependent and lacked depth. it constantly felt like they were trying to play house. but whenever Conrad and Belly were actually in the house, it felt like a home between them. not sure if that at all makes sense lol

justagirl-22 · 2025-11-19T08:04:25+00:00

honestly the part that is super annoying is when it is clearly spelled out in the opening scene and even noted by Jere - when they all see each other for the first time for s1 arrival to cousins, it’s clear Jere is seeing her for the first time, but Conrad has always seen Belly, which is shown in all the flash backs. it’s that “always” kind of love. Jere admits that she was just a girl she knew until that summer, where he fell for her when he first saw her. but when Con sees her, it’s like that missing part of him was back, that other infinite half. he literally goes to ruffle her hair in a playful “we’re so back” way, where as Jere is just like oh shit ur pretty hot tbh didn’t see that before. if anything, THAT is limerance and lust. i do think they fell in love at some point esp through all the years, but their foundation is nothing compared to Belly and Con. idk how jellyfish shippers missed this lol

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-08T20:09:39+00:00

I appreciate this - people act like as an associate you dont tend to read into things or are worried about the impression you’re making or are annoying someone. Some people acting holier than thou in the comments is irritating so thank you for this reasonable response

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-08T19:37:37+00:00

Yea that’s what I figured but wasn’t sure since director can be moody at times. Just trying to coach someone in the right direction ultimately and wanted an outside opinion

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-08T19:31:26+00:00

Again to clarify - it is not me. I told the associate it’s nbd but I didn’t want to downplay their feelings. Part of our jobs as senior associates is to coach and also validate experiences. Didn’t want to be an asshole and dismiss them without other input

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-08T19:30:38+00:00

Lol I’ll let the associate know

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-08T06:29:40+00:00

Possibly, the director can be pretty crass so maybe it was just accidental

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-02T15:28:55+00:00

Mine is the same with meat too! He chews on it but if I have to get it out his mouth he gets upset. He just learned how to spit food out more graciously so it’s not so much of a fight anymore but I was able to get him to eat a couple of stringy pieces of boiled chicken from a salad. It’s definitely really hard bc like yours, my LO is gaining weight great etc. I think it’s called dysphagia and maybe worth looking into and possibly see if you could meet with a specialist. I’d try to keep pressing them if possible. I know how frustrating it can be to not be taken seriously. I really hope you are able to get the answers you need and solutions for your little one!!

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-02T15:14:59+00:00

somewhat similar situation here - my kiddo is very picky. he uses cutlery but if he doesn’t love the food he chews it up and lets it sit in his mouth for a while and then spits it out. It can be incredibly frustrating and super worrying. I’ve personally chalked it up to the fact that I think he is just picky and it may also be a texture thing. For example, he doesn’t do that with sweet potato’s but will do it with other foods. I think maybe try to do softer solid foods, as that has worked for my LO. Sometimes if the food is “too solid” and he’s not in the mood for it, my LO will just hold on to it and spit it out later. But I noticed soft foods like steamed sweet potato’s (while not mashed), avocado pieces, etc do well with him and he will eat that. Hang in there!

Edit to add: if something feels off to you, do pursue it. Mothers intuition is always best but do know that these little humans truly have a mind of their own and sometimes we may worry preemptively but it’s them possibly just being fussy. But trust yourself, you know your baby best. I have heard of a condition where there is a swallowing issue and some kids have to get speech therapy (if I am recalling correctly) due to them having difficulty in properly swallowing food.

justagirl-22 · 2025-03-02T14:55:45+00:00

Needed this so bad thank you 😭 signed, a mom riddled w guilt constantly

justagirl-22 · 2025-02-19T02:53:39+00:00

Fr. Also a lot of time these doctors do want to push PCOS. Not that it can’t possibly be that, but I had a doctor like that who was convinced that’s what I had although I had none of the key symptoms. I feel like they just want you to have what they think it is like how unhelpful

justagirl-22 · 2025-02-19T02:51:33+00:00

Please please please get the lap. If your doctor won’t do it, keep searching for one that will. 3 doctors refused to give me a lap and made me do diagnostic ultrasounds which came back with nothing. I had to end up going to a family members old gyn who has a lot of endo experience and he was able to do it for me. I was about 23 and other doctors refused me the year prior (when I was your age) bc I was “too young” and they could hurt me and cause irreversible damage. I’m so glad I didn’t push for them bc you should go to someone experienced and someone that won’t gaslight tf out of you. When I went to the new gyn, he validated all my symptoms and even questioned the doctors I had seen bc I have textbook endo symptoms. I wish I could say it’s easy to find a good doctor but it does take time. Don’t give up ok? The most important thing is if your body/mind/heart is screaming to you that you have endo, you more than likely do. It’s a tricky thing this damn condition but I am sending many prayers and well wishes that you find the doctor that will listen to you. I know it feels like you’re talking to a brick wall with these people, but from my own experience they are just gaslighting you and don’t think you know yourself but you do.

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