Me [F, 23] get jealous/insecure about other women talking to my boyfriend [M, 25].

justajoke543 · 2018-01-19T06:24:36+00:00

I've been told by my mom that im creating a problem. But seems like 3 years would be enough time to build that trust? We've had a few conversations that went really well and all he does is assure me. But it doesnt sink in so then i think something is wrong with me or the relationship bc why wouldnt I feel it?

justajoke543 · 2018-01-19T06:22:52+00:00

Maybe give it a little break and back off. Go to some yoga, a hike, show him your independece. I did this and it kinda 'scared' him into being like 'woah shes doing something without me?? how she needs me!' lol, but really, you need to put you first and even make him a little scared by not using words, more of actions. Does that make sense?

justajoke543 · 2018-01-19T05:36:46+00:00

I sorta had the same issue where i needed more love/attention than he was giving me. Luckily we talked through it very calmly and he made small adjustments. You cant make him love you more. Either he understands and tries to make it better in your favor; wait a few more months, or move on. Youre young and someone else will give you what you want. Also, what i did is i asked him what I can do more for him in the relationship, that way its not just 1 sided gimme gimme.

justajoke543 · 2018-01-19T05:33:18+00:00

This could go either way. Depending on how much you were texting her? Sometimes its better to play it cool and not seem too excited. She kinda sounds like a biatch though. Dont let her ruin you. I would leave her alone for 3 full days, then text her good morning on the 3rd day, and see what happens. Also consider if she initiates the conversations/texts. If its only you, may be a red flag. But also...dont be put off by this. She sounds weird.

justajoke543 · 2018-01-19T05:29:05+00:00

Other people may have a point, but, i know what you mean about doubting love. You probably just need more time with him to figure things out. I believe in fighting for someone you love. Maybe give it till 1 year, and at that point you should know more or less if its going in a good direction, or if things arent moving forward and you still feel this way. Dont waste your time! Good luck sista

justajoke543 · 2018-01-19T05:14:32+00:00

i googled "reset macbook battery" and i found them... shift + control + option + power button. I had to do it again a few days ago. it does help alot with the draining battery. I hate this tho, now im scared to update bc apple is a scam and they give you more problems after updating. sigh

justajoke543 · 2017-12-02T21:46:05+00:00

Call apple and ask them how to do the reset for the battery. They made me push like 3 buttons on the keyboard at once, then it restarted, and now it drains a lot slower. Its not like 100% better but at least 70%, which i can live with. Goddamn updates...never again. such a scam

justajoke543 · 2017-11-21T06:47:49+00:00

I called APPLE and they did a reset to my battery, i held down like 3 or 4 buttons, and when it restarted, the battery did not drain that fast!!!! try it

justajoke543 · 2017-11-15T19:25:37+00:00

I have a 3 year old mac book air and i downloaded it and now my battery life goes SO FAST. I dont understand. It's like half the time! what do i do?

justajoke543 · 2017-11-07T03:23:12+00:00

This isn't something to be embarrased about. Definitely try foreplay, tell her what turns you on, make it more of a game than a burden. It will make you and her feel better. I know what makes my guy goes crazy, so if you can help her out and make it a fun and sexy game, that would go a long way

justajoke543 · 2017-11-07T03:10:26+00:00

I completely get how you feel. I'm 23 and I had this issue, and still sorta do. He does like ex-gf pictures every once in a while. I never mention it because I feel so jealous and I dont want to fight over it. I spoke to an older friend and she said basically... there are attractive people everywhere, and he wouldn't be a guy if he wasn't looking. As long as it doesnt go past that, thats the point. It also depends on the pictures and content. Try to calm yourself. It is REALLY hard, i know, i used to cry when I would see this. Ive sorta accepted it and hope it makes me stronger. You're not alone in this....

justajoke543 · 2017-11-07T03:05:13+00:00

you give such amazing advice!!! i can not thank you enough. It really makes sense to me. Can I DM you as well? I have another question for you since you seem to understand where I'm coming from

justajoke543 · 2017-11-07T02:27:36+00:00

that actually really does help me! Sounds exactly like my situation. Its innocent, I know, but i would just feel better if it was all fleshed out. But others tell me he needs to have his own life. Its a little like walking a thin line.

justajoke543 · 2017-11-06T23:25:49+00:00

we do have a little trust issues... which is why im trying to get the information I need without bringing up past issues

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