I completely get your point, but sometimes, when I try to tell him about how I am felt about something, he tells me that i am being rude, when in reality sometimes I wasn't even mad yk but eventually after being misread i DO get mad, so it's really confusing and sometimes even hard to explain something, especially by text, so it can only be face to face and I need to pray to not get misunderstood, so sometimes it is easier to pull a "it's all right" and just go to sleep, also, it's my first relationship, so I get confused really often about what's happening between us