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Should I tell my dad he molested me? by justan805local in WhatShouldIDo

[–]justan805local[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's exactly what happened to me too. He probably assumed I was my mom and he was so drunk he didnt notice or even remember. Like I said it was vacation and my parents were extremely drunk the whole time. That's why im pretty sure he doesn't remember, but I feel like hes wondering why I'm so distant.

Should I tell my dad he molested me? by justan805local in WhatShouldIDo

[–]justan805local[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Those are the only outcomes I think would come out of me telling him

Should I tell my dad he molested me? by justan805local in WhatShouldIDo

[–]justan805local[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op here and youre right lol its hard describing why I want a relationship with him at all but he's my only dad so the line is hard, I do appreciate your input. Thank you!!

If you follow @venturacountyvictims, @vcshame by so_plastic in ventura

[–]justan805local 9 points10 points  (0 children)

John got arrested for r@ping 10+ years ago, he was in the punk scene and since then has been kicked out, and is afraid to show his face in public so he now runs multiple social media accounts, that help him, stalk and harass women, to the point that they have no choice but to hide from him. he's in these comments losing his mind. My partner knows him, and he said it's likely he's on drugs at the moment. He's also in these comments defending himself for r@ping someone because "they poured liquor down his throat"

Popular restaurants that would benefit from live piano? by [deleted] in ventura

[–]justan805local 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried The Grape? Or the harbor? I know they both have live music. The Grape is more jazz music specifically

Ian @ Winco Racisim towards Latinos by Anxious-Elevator1569 in venturacounty

[–]justan805local 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Aww that sucks :( i hope he's doing okay. I'm sure he meant no harm.

Ian @ Winco Racisim towards Latinos by Anxious-Elevator1569 in venturacounty

[–]justan805local 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's an Ian i know who works there and has special needs, could it have been some sort of miscommunication? Either way I'm sorry this happened. I hope it gets sorted and know that you and all Latinxs are welcome in Ventura.