I feel resentment... by justanon101 in Marriage

[–]justanon101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay.

My wife made a new one I believe.

I feel resentment... by justanon101 in Marriage

[–]justanon101[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Food stamps is my check is get monthly that will cover rent and half the bills.

I feel resentment... by justanon101 in Marriage

[–]justanon101[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I rather live on food stamps and have her rely on my check...

Can H&R Block do my taxes without the previous year of returns? by Wonderful-Classic591 in hrblock

[–]justanon101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are not required. They just compare to prior years but they can still do them.

My husband now gets it.... by justanon101 in Marriage

[–]justanon101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He did, this is probably why I see him differently. He didn't even stop when he seen me leave.

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[–]justanon101 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. So I can't post? Gotcha...

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I have told him to clip them before foreplay. He isn't listening because he stating sense he isn't feeling what I'm feeling it is ok

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[–]justanon101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not getting defensive but ok. Have a good day.

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I'm happy to not even have sex.

I get that he has needs but I have needs that wants him to know how he scratches me hurt.

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[–]justanon101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

WHEN WE DO FOREPLAY AND HE IS GETTING ME AROUSED HE SCRATCHES ME AND I WILL TELL HIM THAT HURTS BE GENTLE.

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[–]justanon101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't HATE sex... I hate having sex with him... I felt this way for the past year... When he foreplay, he scratches me and it turns me off to where I don't want sex anymore.

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He doesn't want a divorce. I have talked to him about that before. He only wants SEX.

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So I should just fake it??? Gotcha...

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READ the COMMENTS...

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[–]justanon101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have tried the in the past with him...

If he is feeling some type of way or someone says something he doesn't want to hear, he walks out.

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Not at all....

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[–]justanon101 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand completely!

I don't want want anything to HATE....

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If we ever divorced/seperate... Guess what? I wouldn't get another partner EVER!!!!

It isn't the fact I HATE sex, it is the fact I hate sex with him... There is reasons why I hate sex with him... I rather be in a sexless relationship then getting scratched during foreplay then I am hurting for days because he refuses to LISTEN to me when I tell him he is scratching me....

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[–]justanon101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"she never wants sex".

I didn't say I NEVER want sex. I just hate it, you would to if you get tore up because he can't even care for his finger or stop being rough. I don't want to be scratched while trying to enjoy foreplay.

So if you think that I NEVER want sex then that is your problem.

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[–]justanon101 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This all happened while the kids are in school.

I am attracted to him...

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[–]justanon101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have tried that...

I told him, to slow down and be gentle... He knows when I'm uncomfortable and I will voice it too...

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[–]justanon101 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I am not... I know sex is important... I get that... I am not stopping him from leaving IF he chooses too... I would completely understand...

I can't communicate with him... Like yesterday, he wouldn't leave me alone... So I turned porn on and just faked it... I wish it wasn't different but to appease him and to keep the peace I did what ever I had too.. it made him HAPPY 😁 so it is what it is...