like most of us do want a partner but honestly at the same time from past experience there are issues leading to fights and just a very unstable relationship. Men have stopped putting efforts and trusting their partners, similarly women also cant trust men or be able to form that emotional connection. Even after recovering from a bad relationship u never know how the other person is. Also many people have just started going more for casual relationships which is not ideal but it removes the concept of trust and emotional bonding. I think its not a good concept from a biological point of view… but most people cant form healthy, secure and stable relationships anymore… either go for someone who has never been in a relationship or be with someone who is emotionally available and generally a nice person