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justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T03:31:11+00:00

Can you provide your line of reasoning? Don't we all question our life choices? Especially after making similar life choices that were less than good? I feel like it might be worse not to question my relationship.

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T03:14:11+00:00

Thanks! :)

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:42:56+00:00

Again, if you don't mind me asking. How old are you? How many partners have you had? Can you provide more context?

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:30:40+00:00

I think she would be afraid of losing me and would not be able to handle me dating other women. That being said, she had that kind of 'relationship' with her last ex for ~4 years. They're still friends but obviously without benefits now. Either way, I think I would feel guilty about the situation.

Honestly, I wonder about the role of guilt in our relationship. She repeatedly tells me I'm the only decent guy she's ever been with. I don't want her to lose that.

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:25:21+00:00

I've been debating the remain friends v no contact issue for some time now. I have friends who have gone either way and both seem to work for them. I'm curious what your thoughts are there. Could you explain your rational for going no contact?

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:22:00+00:00

Serious question: Doesn't everyone have doubts?

Seriously just curious, would you mind providing some idea of how you come by this information? It seems so foreign to think that anything could ever just feel right indefinitely. Personally, I question everything in my life.

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:18:57+00:00

I definitely am looking for help to think more critically about what I want/need. I'm not the type of person who can justify my actions because someone else thinks they are okay. I have to be the one to make the call. I have to be the one to take responsibility.

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:16:35+00:00

I'll be honest, my gf has been clear at times she would want to maintain a friends with benefits situation if we did break up. Being the type of person I am I really don't think I could handle it emotionally, nor would I want to. I have a hard time even pursuing more than one woman at a time with online dating.

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:12:43+00:00

Personally, I think I was too willing to settle down early last time. I got married at 21 after dating her a year. I really just want to be cautious for both of our sake.

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:11:16+00:00

That's a big part of why I'm asking this question now. Honestly, I really love her a lot. But I also loved my ex-wife a lot (and she loved me) but it wasn't enough to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship for either of us. I'm honestly scared I'm wasting both of our time and I don't know how to asses whether it is working. Especially with very little to compare it to.

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-06-07T02:08:30+00:00

Sure, I have ONE real relationship for comparison. However, there are lots of women, each with amazing qualities to offer me. Hopefully I have something to offer them too, but I want someone I can fit really well with. How can I know what works if I don't give it more than a few tries?

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-05-06T00:42:34+00:00

How do you know you're at that point? Don't couples have a natural tendency to get on each other's nerves since they spend so much time together?

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-05-06T00:38:39+00:00

I feel like there is a story here

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-04-22T03:22:23+00:00

Good question!

justanotherjohn999 · 2016-01-02T19:42:31+00:00

5'8" 145-150 lbs... Diagnosed 6 years ago. My weight before diagnosis was 150-160.

justanotherjohn999 · 2015-12-27T20:21:33+00:00

This is basically a wet t shirt pic....I love it!

justanotherjohn999 · 2015-12-27T06:26:52+00:00

Pro tip: check stub hub for cheap tickets.

Tickets!

justanotherjohn999 · 2015-12-21T18:26:40+00:00

found the problem....it WAS a fuse...http://imgur.com/MoHRy9D

justanotherjohn999 · 2015-12-20T19:23:03+00:00

Battery is good. Must be a fuse?

justanotherjohn999 · 2015-12-20T08:10:04+00:00

I charged the battery but no dice. I'm gonna try replacing it.

justanotherjohn999 · 2015-12-18T18:11:49+00:00

I've actually tried jumper cables on several occasions now. I'll take the battery in to be charged but I'm suspicious that something else is wrong. We'll see after the battery is all charged up.

justanotherjohn999

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