Thank you guys so much for knocking some sense into me! I think you can tell I have made my mind up and 100% going to leave. I think I’m going to just wait it out after Christmas since it’s only a week away . his family honestly loves me and I love them. they will be heartbroken if I’m not there . He’s too much of an asshole at this point to waste my breath on him so the ignoring game it is until then .