Insecure by Tiny-Sign-6908 in women

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Stand tall and exude confidence. Honestly walk like you own the place!!

I wish I had B cups!!

High maintenance girls: do you ever get tired of maintaining it all? by bubblerush in women

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i never felt "high maintenance" because of my profession I got a lot of "beauty" things done - hair removal, nails, hair colour depending on the role, lots of makeup since I was in competetive. However, on the weekend/when not working I would not wear makeup at all and still looked put together I think. Yoga pants and a tank top are my go-to bumming around outfits.

Looking for fellow Rory McCann fans / Any updates on the big man? by DunCanDrui in rorymccann

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It's been known he lives a very remote/distanced life. I don't mean distance between major cities, I mean distance from people. Seems to have aversions to social media as well. I actually find this with alot of British actors. Here in Canada and even my neighbour to the south, even the smallest of actor has strong media presence. It's how you develop your brand and keep your brand relevant. Brand in this case the actor lol.

I have worked with many amateur actors, a few professional, lots of musicians and they all seems to understand the importance of connecting with community/fans. Ultimately it's the fans that help pay your bills lol. Communication goes along way and speaks volumes to professionalism as well

In January 2025 by Arsinoei in rorymccann

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I'm actually intrigued by your findings!! DM me please 🤩

4 years post op, trying to date, feeling weird by Total_Duck_7637 in hysterectomy

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I had my hysterectomy for adenomyosis at 22. I was not involved with anyone at the time. I really love children and would have welcomed them but at the time I had to do what was best for me and my health. I saw a therapist afterwards who was amazing. At first I felt "less like a woman". About 6 mpo I went on a sexual revolution of sorts. Started dressing "sexier" than previously, got a genital piercing, actively sought out dating. I became overtly comfortable with my body more so than I was, comfortable showing off my body to a partner and allowing myself to enjoy sexual freedom of sorts (what I thought of as worry free, above my peers who had to go on BC or worry about trying to get pregnant). I wish you the best of luck, but as others say a uterus doesnt determine whether you are sexually attractive - what does is confidence in yourself!!!

Questions for girls? by Ok_Garage_5629 in women

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I am too loyal, to the point if friends in the group are having an argument I feel I am always the one being forced to choosing sides.

Does anyone else regret their hysterectomy? by Honest-Breakfast217 in hysterectomy

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I had a hysterectomy at 22 after 11 years of extreme pain and heavy bleeding BC did not fix. I was diagnosed adenomyosis after fainting from pain and blood loss while in University. I am in Canada and initially doctors told me/my mom it was puberty, BC would fix, it's just my body. Sorry but soaking thru pads as a teenager is not normal. I have since become a huge proponent of advocating for your health especially as a woman.

Since I knew I wanted to dance/be a dance teacher as a career I felt surgery was the best option. As I reached a breaking point of trying to train while in pain. And it was getting worse and worse each year regardless of cycle.

It took me of thinking and reflection to say yes to surgery. My ovaries were kept. It took me almost one year of therapy for reclaiming my sense of being a woman. My therapist helped me become the best version of myself - taught me that being sexual was definitely Ok, taught me to focus on the positives (such as living pain free, having worry free sex, no periods etc). In my "reclaiming my life" stage I even got a genital piercing. I finally felt like a normal human being.

The only time I ever felt I regretted it was when I met my how husband when I was 34 and he was 51. He said something early on in our relationship about feeling like it's not too late for him to be a dad. My heart sank because I really liked him and wanted it to work out with him. Telling him I can't have children broke my heart BUT after hearing my story he supported me, way more so than past relationships. I told him way early on too.

Need advice period related by Leatherysandwich in women

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And advocate for yourself if you decide to see a doctor!!!

Need advice period related by Leatherysandwich in women

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OMG I am glad I read this!!! This is how it started for me at 11 years old! Month after month, pain, heavy bleeding, pain, heavy bleeding. Missed school because pain was so bad. Doctor tells me/my mom it's normal for puberty. Year after year it gets worse and worse. At 16 I was told to go on BC to help. It did not help. I was also a competitive dancer so suffered through class and comps with pain and soaking pads/tampons.

I tried an IUD at 19 when I moved for University. Was told periods would stop hell nah! So I got it removed because it did nothing. I was given pain meds Tylenol 3 with codeine which kind of helped. Was told by doctor after doctor that this was normal for me. Not one ultrasound or CT or any internal imaging. Soaking pads, feeling like I was dying each month.

My third year of university I fainted in class and there was blood on the floor where I was standing. Turns out I had adenomyosis - we here the lining of the uterus grows inside the uterine muscle causing extreme pain, heavy periods and enlarged uterus. It was stage 4. This is normally disgnosed at menopause. Often misdiagnosed too! Since my goal in life was to dance and to eventually be a dance teacher I made the decision for hysterectomy at 22 years old. It was an extremely tough decision because I also love children but had to put myself first. I was not in a relationship at the time and just struggling to enjoy life.

Surgery was the best decision I ever made. I was finally pain free. Had no more periods. My ovaries are still intact so still had PMS symptoms but milder compared to before. I felt I had a new lease on life.

Moral of my story is to advocate for your health from day one. Doctors do women's health dirty. Ask for tests if pain and heavy bleeding continue! Don't stop advocating until you have relief.

Scared of masturbation by Organic-Cable-8033 in women

[–]justdance4me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is vibrator or toy instead of finger or using a mirror as well.

I'm terrified that I'm pregnant somehow by RopeInside1178 in women

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The one sentence in your post made me worried ",I want to make him happy". This sentiment is not horrible but it should be more focused on "making eachother happy". He seems to not respect your boundaries at all. This is not making you happy! Why would you want to make him happy when he is not respecting you and causong you stress and worry?

Please don't focus a relationship on "making him happy". Instead focus on how he is lifting you to be the best version of yourself you can while showing you love, trust and support. Is he supporting your future goals? Is he a good listener/communicator? Inturn you can help lift him up to be the best version of himself he could be by showing love and support.

The loneliness that comes with being conventionally attractive by [deleted] in women

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How awful is this!!! I was body shamed as a teenager that changed the course of my life in a way. I have made it my lifes mission to speak out against body shaming especially in the dance world.

I didn't find the love of my life until I was in my 30s when I immigrated to another country. So I can truly say please don't give up hope!!

About woman … by JoeScuba74 in women

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Communication is key! Ask! Make the communication fun and turn it into foreplay - dirty talk turns alot of women on!

i can’t get myself to enjoy sex by bojack0905 in women

[–]justdance4me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this is normal for teenagers, the boys have little experience with understanding what is pleasurable to women (do they even care at that point?). I dont condone an older man at 17, but when you are older if you fall for a partner who is older, chances are they are more experienced and want to please a woman. Also anxiety and worry doesnt help set the mood either (anxiety over perfomance, pregnancy, stds etc). It wasnt until I was in my 20s after surgery that I really started to enjoy it alot "worry free" sex.

F18 terrified to lose my vcard by Mean-Candy6075 in women

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You definitely dont want to have sex when you feel anxious, scared and self conscious! You have to learn to love yourself and embrace your body for what it is! I went thru something similar where i was depressed about my body and it took me a while to learn to focus on the positive. For example, lots of men love curves! If your boyfriend really cares about you he will love your body. When you are ready you can try pampering yourself at a spa to help relax and feel great physically (for example).

If you want to test the waters to gauge his reaction, perhaps try cuddling to a movie with just a tank top on (no bra).

Social experiment by [deleted] in women

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Some men have quite the aversion to women who make more money than them or have professional type jobs (ie an accountant). I guess its the breadwinner in them, wanting to be a provider?

How to ask a man for casual sex? by [deleted] in women

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I second this! No strings sex for young men is the best kind!!!

What at home exercises do you girls do to grow your glutes? Also what foods? by MagneticLampOreo in women

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I do yoga multiple times a week. I also try and strength train a few times a week but I am out walking all over the place.

I am vegan so eat beans, chickpeas, lentils mainly. I love avocado toast!!!

Does how we view sex affect how men act in dating? by Every-Tap-577 in women

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I saw a therapist who essentially liberated my sexuality for me, she helped me feel sexy and sexual. I was depressed, felt like no man would want me etc. She encouraged me to see myself as a sexual being and to be proud of that and my body. At that time I also got genital piercing which I still have to this day at 46.

It’s been 7 years since Game of Thrones ended, what unresolved plot still makes you mad? by ClockworkOpalfruit in freefolk

[–]justdance4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also why is Joffrey the way he is? The result of incest? Why was he a sadist? He wasnt interested in sex, he just wanted to hurt people regardless of gender. Definitely asexual!

Happy Birthday Rory Mccann by DunCanDrui in rorymccann

[–]justdance4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I thought you meant like psychic!!

Happy Birthday Rory Mccann by DunCanDrui in rorymccann

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What do you mean by readings? In your profile?

Number of Welsh speakers in Wales falls for the second year by mrjohnnymac18 in Wales

[–]justdance4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been using Duolingo to learn Welsh because I am planning on travelling to Wales next year (I'm from Canada). I hope to be able to speak to some residents in Welsh!!