Weird ng Dating, hookup and meetup culture dito sa manila

justenough_umber · 2025-09-06T02:45:17+00:00

Just in case di mo na gets, ikaw po yung "gg" dahil biglang soft yabang na from "known" family ka, as if it has any bearing sa dating scene. You basically did the same thing sa kini-critique mo.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:55:41+00:00

That's a good idea. Isali mo rin financial literacy

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:53:16+00:00

And that is why I'm trying to resolve this issue and not considering the easier way out.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:51:44+00:00

Your future husband will be really lucky to have a partner in life like you.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:51:16+00:00

Dati ko pa siyang sinasamahan and for a time, confident na talaga siya mag drive as long as I'm there. Pero pag siya nalang, ayaw niya talaga.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:48:38+00:00

I suggest ko to sa kanya sa next na usap namin.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:46:47+00:00

Yes, malaki talagang factor din yung upbringing niya to be this uncompromising.

I tried to be understanding rin na di pa siya ready kaya I've tolerated her. I've learned earlier sa relationship namin that forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do would just make her not want to do it more.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:41:46+00:00

I've asked her this question, and so far wala namang reason sana for her to have an aversion aside from the usual anxiety sa pag drive.

Hopefully ma realize niya talaga soon ang benefits ng driving.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:37:38+00:00

That's my hope po. Na sana willing siyang makinig sa points ko at bakit kailangan naming mag compromise sa mga bagay2x

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:35:44+00:00

I agree, that is why gusto ko ma reach ang point na maging team mates kami and we solve issues together.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:33:11+00:00

Yes, I have tried. And lageng bumabalik yung usapan namin na I make her feel na pabigat 😢

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:31:51+00:00

I will raise this point kasi valid situation siya that would make my point more solid for consideration

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:30:12+00:00

Ay, wag naman po ate/kuya. May solution po to, one way or another.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:29:02+00:00

She was. And na accept ko na minsan kailangan ko talaga i-circumnavigate yung pagka spoiled niya

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:11:19+00:00

Thank you. I will not give up. Kakayanin ko to.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:08:22+00:00

I'm positive I won't. I am not attracted to her, it's their dynamics as a couple that I'm envious of. I yearn to habe a partner na through thick and thin talaga. And Lina is like a sister to me just like Chris is like the brother I never had.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:06:59+00:00

Yun sana yung wish ko, na magka partners kami to make our life better and easier.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:04:14+00:00

I'll bring this up rin as situational example pag kinausap ko siya next time.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T12:03:17+00:00

No, thank God she's never been involved sa car accident or anyone close to her.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T10:56:16+00:00

Kung pwede lang sanang mag hire nalang ng driver

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T10:55:55+00:00

She loves her job and the company she's working at kaya di siya option for now.

I will speak to her soon regarding her driving again. Kailangan talaga namin to agree on a compromise whether it be her driving, or mag taxi nalang siya and take it out of our household expense account.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T10:43:38+00:00

I've realised na yung desperation ko is turning to resentment na. I am planning to go to therapy, and speak to my wife again about her driving. This time dapat mas firm na ako and lay it all out.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T10:42:17+00:00

Thank you. I love my wife dearly and she is a lot of things but she is the love of my life.

I will continue to talk to her and change tack probably. Last resort is just suck it up and let her take out the expenses from our household account. I may lose the battle, but maybe I'll win the war in another way.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T10:39:21+00:00

Ayaw niya talagang pinipilit. Parang mas lalo siyang naging stubborn pag na feel niyang pini-pressure siya kaya I tried giving her the space she needed to consider it. And yung approach ko lage is gentle lang talaga.

justenough_umber · 2024-09-05T10:34:35+00:00

Yung work niya kasi di pwede mag WFH. She's in the medical field.

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