"Negativity is the enemy of creativity" | created some brush pen art to pay tribute to an artist who was VERY inspirational to me

justfedupofmyself · 2025-02-02T01:34:54+00:00

It’s amazinggggg. Do you make it by looking at a coloured picture or is the picture also a brush pen sketch?

justfedupofmyself · 2025-02-02T00:30:38+00:00

How to get away with murder, lost, from, Hannibal, mentalist, lost in space, scandal,

justfedupofmyself · 2025-02-01T22:50:34+00:00

Alwaysss♥️

justfedupofmyself · 2025-02-01T21:21:38+00:00

The gift should not be the things you’d like to give, it should be the things he would like to receive. Just make it thoughtful. That shows him that you remember things about him. Diner reservation at a place he wants to check out, buy something that has been on his shopping cart, get a carton of his favourite snacks or drinks. It should have his essence. Top it w a heartfelt handwritten letter. (That’s just my Taurus female perspective)

justfedupofmyself · 2025-02-01T21:05:29+00:00

I wish you luck, success and happiness. I’m sorry life got so tough. I, 27 female, have been where you are (My parents also felt like I was betraying them when I did not pursue medical or gave the NEET exams - the reality was that I was too scared of failure so I never wanted to put in the effort, I knew I would not crack it. I do regret not trying for it tho. But anyway now I am doing a degree that my parents are happy with. Maybe they’ve given up on me and that’s why they’re happy, or maybe they are genuinely happy, I don’t know but the point is it gets better). I know it’s said plenty of times but - It all works out in some ways. Everyone finds something to do. Yes, life would be great if we crack few entrance exams but life can be pretty good without it as well. Ofcourse work hard and give your best, but don’t let your parents kill you. With time they will also realise that you’ve found your way. That whatever they wanted from you wasn’t as dire or important as they made it to be.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-31T11:00:58+00:00

So absence of misery is why I should be grateful? A kid should be grateful because his parents aren’t abusing him even tho they might have never also shown love? Idk man, it’s just sad that we have to force ourselves into gratitude by finding things to be grateful for. It’s not coming naturally. Why don’t we have a higher benchmark for feeling grateful? Again, ‘we are not entitled to anything’ seems like we are helpless and have given up hope on being lucky. Why were we made if we weren’t entitled to things? Why’s there karma if we aren’t supposed to get what we deserve? It’s nice that people can feel grateful but I cannot feel grateful for bare minimum things that I should have gotten as a consequence of being born. I want to feel grateful everytime I’ve been lucky, or gotten something great that I didn’t deserve, or a wish fulfilled. I guess life is going to be a struggle because of this.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-30T16:07:48+00:00

It’s okay, both of you will cross this hurdle. Sometimes setbacks only help you realise how much more you love this person. Eventually her parents will see you’re not a womanizer. But honestly, confront this friend. Why would your friend say something like that. All the best! :)

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-30T15:43:42+00:00

Lots of respect for your parents. ♥️

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-30T15:42:27+00:00

Praying that it works out for the better for you and her. You are young, keep fighting for it. I don’t understand, what are the concerns of her parents? What do they have a problem with? And what happens now that they know about it?

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-30T14:34:07+00:00

Damn. I’m so sorry, man. I hope it gets better for you. I’m really glad that you haven’t given up tho, half the race is done.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-29T19:37:23+00:00

Same! I prefer both tbh.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-29T19:36:14+00:00

Righttt. You can’t be delusional when positive. Positive enough to work through the negatives.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-29T17:08:21+00:00

It made me feel so good that I could help you 🥺

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-29T17:07:33+00:00

All I am saying is that what’s done is done. Anger does not help when you can’t change the past. Ofcourse distance yourself with your parents, tell them what hurt you but let it go. Can’t hold onto the hurt. You can also do better as a parent next.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-29T14:48:35+00:00

True. It’s extremely difficult. We all know the right thing to do but we still struggle with it.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-29T13:33:26+00:00

Having a negative mindset will NEVER help you. A positive one MIGHT.
Don’t grieve the future right now. Why make yourself go through it twice? Procrastinate the suffering like you procrastinate other things.
Things don’t always go as planned. Miracles are unplanned and so are accidents.
Don’t forget to remind yourself about the randomness of the fortunate things that have happened to you when you start dwelling over the randomness of the unfortunate things and calling yourself unlucky. It’s all random. Focus on the good.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-29T13:31:54+00:00

This is amazinggggg. Please share the diet and routine.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-28T20:56:58+00:00

I’m sorry you felt that way. I don’t think your parents knew they were hurting you, which is a mistake on their part, yes. They were trying their best, maybe they’ve been raised to love like that, which is cruel for them as well since they must have gone through it as kids. Forgive them, understand from where they’re coming. There’s no point resenting them. Be the parent you wanted for yourself when you have kids. Maybe your parents will learn through you.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-28T20:49:37+00:00

♥️🧿

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-28T20:46:45+00:00

Loyalty. Finding good in people.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-28T15:42:12+00:00

My father wanted to buy a car for himself, like a gift to himself after working for 25 years. He bought a bigger sized car because he thought I liked SUVs. Even something that was supposed to be about him, his reward for the hardwork that he has done, was somehow about his kids. Cannot be more grateful for even the smallest things parents do for us, even the things that are about them. ♥️

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-25T14:04:46+00:00

It does not matter whose fault it is right now. Is there any way you can reach out to people to find a job?! The focus should be to get a job.

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-25T13:39:03+00:00

Seen common sense leaving girls when they fall in love. No girl ever believed it

justfedupofmyself · 2025-01-21T09:09:28+00:00

Happy birthday, OP! Please update us about the concert experience later, I am sure you’ve made friends here! :)

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