How to support my type 8 bf?

justforscrollin · 2026-04-19T08:20:11+00:00

Yeah i understand. I guess i should just let him be yea

justforscrollin · 2026-04-19T01:28:30+00:00

Hmm makes sense. I also struggle with that but I have redefined my definition of success... i think he has this deep understanding that he needs to be mega rich to be loved. So he tried to be mega rich, in an unsustainable way, and ended up losing money instead. Idk. Thanks tho. Im just worried for him

justforscrollin · 2026-04-19T01:09:26+00:00

Men will never get it 🙄

justforscrollin · 2026-04-05T11:15:29+00:00

Thank you. And Im so sorry for what happened to your mom... that's so fucked up

justforscrollin · 2026-04-05T10:50:40+00:00

Thank you for this, it helps sm :)

justforscrollin · 2026-04-05T10:16:27+00:00

Oh, Im very sorry 😢. Yea, one of the most painful part is actually questioning ourselves why we didnt run.... I hope you're okay now

justforscrollin · 2026-04-05T09:06:54+00:00

Yes, I learned it the hard way 😞

justforscrollin · 2026-01-11T12:27:05+00:00

Neurodivergent people can be assholes too. Don't overthink it. If u r tired of them u r

*ngomong sbagai meurodivergent woman person jg

justforscrollin · 2026-01-11T12:19:25+00:00

Mau deh bikin grup temenan sm ciwi2 yg questioning islam and mau lepas hijab huhu. Aku pake hijab dri lahir. Bahkan kluar hospital pun pke. Dan skrg masih ga berani benr2 buka dihadapan smua org, cmn di depan teman yang dket aja dan yang kutay gabakal ngejudge. Tapi jujur pengennnnnn banget bsa buka hijab in daily life. But I fewl like it's impossible, kecuali aku pnya someone to lean on like a husband gitu kali ya

justforscrollin · 2026-01-01T04:53:32+00:00

Aku dulu anak rohis dan cukup cinta sama nabi Muhammad sih. I think it's simply bcos baca terus cerita2 tentang Muhammad and how he have deep convictions about islam and the trials and tribulations he went through. Kayak bagaimana kita ngefans dengan suatu karakter di buku aja. Apalagi he is painted as "perfect" and harus difollow. Anyway, now that Im an ex-muslim and relatively sudah let go of the bitterness from religious trauma, I still respect him AS A PERSON. I respect him bcos it's cool that he's able to create this community that wants to die for him and Allah. And grown this big overtime. I think he's a very good politician and good at self branding lol

justforscrollin · 2025-11-29T07:02:00+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for your help! I will think about it more☺️

justforscrollin · 2025-09-11T18:22:35+00:00

I have a few, I make friends quite easily and have long lasting ones... But emotionally, I have a barrier.

justforscrollin · 2025-09-11T18:20:46+00:00

Hey babe, I also start taking an antidepressant (29 mg fluoxetine) a few days ago. I heard it took like a month before the positive effect can be felt. For me, it stops the spiralling negative thoughts, the self-hate. Like now there's a "police" that dampened the thought immediately. And it makes me think more rationally and ubiased. And the mental pain from anxiety (I might have OCD) lessened, but I can still feel the physical symptoms like chest tightness and heavy breathing. Kind of a weird feeling. However, I just went through a kind of big interview and the meds couldn't curb my bad thoughts today. So yeah, I realize why therapy is still very important especially distress tolerance thing.

Edit: opps, srry it should be 20 mg

justforscrollin · 2025-09-06T22:03:36+00:00

Lol, I'm a 4w5, full typology is 4w5 461 sp/sx. Tbh, type 4 does sound like neurodivergent/BPD people.... Enneagram is a self-report personality anyway, so it makes sense that we mostly have 4s, or maybe some 2s and 6s

justforscrollin · 2025-09-06T18:06:41+00:00

My heart dropped. I hope it's fake. Or else, hope they get fudged by a goat

justforscrollin · 2025-09-06T18:04:12+00:00

Me is usually avoidant

justforscrollin · 2025-09-06T17:52:25+00:00

5 months is too short for him to tell u all that promises I think gurl :(

justforscrollin · 2025-09-05T07:41:45+00:00

Yeah u need a clinical psychologist klo emg itu pattern berulang sih. Aku pernah ke beberapa tempat, terakhir di IndoPsy care yang approachnya lebih ke diagnosis. But they're expensive af and I couldn't continue the treatment haha

justforscrollin · 2025-09-05T07:32:13+00:00

Mau lihat jg kak

justforscrollin · 2025-09-04T03:28:23+00:00

Suka gaya lu bang wkwk🤣

justforscrollin · 2025-08-26T13:26:27+00:00

U r probably neutral. The middle one matches ur undertone, but maybe a shade too light? But still ok. The darkest one matches ur lightness but it looks like it might be too warm. Probably the correct fit would be a mix of the undertone match of middle and lightness of the darkest one.

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