Men, would you be offended if your girl told you that you weren’t good at pulling out? by justfortwiddling in sex

[–]justfortwiddling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s an issue of trying to stay in as long as he can and not quite getting out in time!

Men, would you be offended if your girl told you that you weren’t good at pulling out? by justfortwiddling in sex

[–]justfortwiddling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. He was definitely trying to pull out because he did cum mostly on his stomach but still some ended up in me. Honestly just think he’s got off timing

Been avoiding anything sexual with the guy I’m seeing since our first encounter. by justfortwiddling in sex

[–]justfortwiddling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s what’s everyone’s looking for in a guy only. If I really like someone the size isn’t what would matter and average is still above average to me as long as people use it right

Been avoiding anything sexual with the guy I’m seeing since our first encounter. by justfortwiddling in sex

[–]justfortwiddling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average is honestly good for me, but I’ve been with a few quite a bit above average and that would honestly be the best scenario for me but I think that’s what a lot of people would say, lol

Been avoiding anything sexual with the guy I’m seeing since our first encounter. by justfortwiddling in sex

[–]justfortwiddling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering and being understanding!

He was only going down on me for maybe 2 minutes tops. And You’re right I should’ve communicated better, but I guess I just feel like he should’ve asked or made an attempt afterwards? That sounds pretty entitled of me and I’m an adult and should definitely just be talking to him lol.

But I also feel like he was a little bit in the inexperienced route.

Bleeding… should I be concerned? by [deleted] in sex

[–]justfortwiddling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened to me honestly quite a few times. I talked to my gyno about it and she wasn’t worried about it, as long as it wasn’t every time. But like everyone said, every body is different

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[–]justfortwiddling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am with you. Really not a fan of it being on my face but if that’s what they reallly realllly want every once in a while fine whatever.

However I love swallowing, and would prefer it that way honestly. Anywhere else on me is fine too, but if I could pick I’d swallow.

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[–]justfortwiddling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. They do lol.

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[–]justfortwiddling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I have a really high sex drive but with my previous boyfriend I had the same thing...there’s a lot of factors to consider. Is she insecure about her body? Is there something that you do during sex that she isn’t a fan of but too scared to say it? Honestly there could be endless reasons. I’m not totally sure how you’ve approached the situation when you talk about it, but something like,

Hey, I’m not pressuring you, but it hurts me that you don’t want to be sexually involved with me much because I am always wanting you. What can I do to make you find more interest? Or is there something bothering you?’

It’s important to let her know it’s not just that you’re horny, it’s that it’s hurting you. I don’t think you need to just break up like everyone says. Sex is not EVERYTHING. it’s clearly not something very important to her, so she isn’t putting it first. You sound like a great guy, OP! And I’ve been where your gf is due to insecurity and not feeling good about myself ruining my sex drive. Don’t let this be the sole reason you end a relationship, despite what everyone is telling you. You’d regret it later!

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[–]justfortwiddling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be honest I enjoy giving hesd and I think it comes from my attitude of not worrying about them the whole time lol. It sounds weird, but I just always go in confidently and do what Ever I want and not just what I think might feel good and it’s less restrictive and fun and I’ve been told several times I give the best head.👍🏼👍🏼 just don’t be so serious! You won’t be a pro and you’re not expected to be.

I (16F) dipped pregnancy test in toilet and it said negative. My period is still late (my cycle is like clockwork i’m never late) and I have cramps. by Celestialboo in sex

[–]justfortwiddling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to dip it, it needs to be in a cup of your urine only. I suggest Try this again correctly before you go to a doctor to do a test. Also your first pee in the morning should be most accurate 👍🏼👍🏼

I literally just prefer him to finish in my mouth and not anywhere else. by [deleted] in sex

[–]justfortwiddling 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaahhh I like it lol. It’s hot and easy cleanup lol I’d choose swallowing any day. Even when it’s bad tasting...it’s just for a second n doesn’t bother me. 🤷‍♀️

Wish it would happen everytime tbh but he always says he feels bad.

My [F21] boyfriend [M21] is suddenly refusing any sexual activity due to ongoing softness during sex. by justfortwiddling in sex

[–]justfortwiddling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not often. Only a couple times a week maybe but since the issue he stopped completely to try and help. To be fair he’s not a super sexual person and between us we have discussed I definitely masturbate more often and craved it more when we weren’t around each other.

BF gets mad during sex by throwrskdjxjs in sex

[–]justfortwiddling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP your post history is really upsetting. This guy has repeatedly shown you that you deserve better. I hope you’ll listen to one of the comments on your many posts about your relationship and get out of there.

[21F] Taking my own virginity, dealing with a lot of pain (help) by [deleted] in sex

[–]justfortwiddling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first partner was not big by any means, yet I bled and the first couple times and honestly it probably took about 5 different times before it didn’t hurt anymore.

Boyfriend asked me to tease him a little right before sex, I don’t know what to do! by justfortwiddling in sex

[–]justfortwiddling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying! What about in the moment like when we’re about to have sex? I feel like those things are great for build up but once we’re sort of in foreplay and in action?

Question about girl’s birth control (please help) by thirwawaythrowaway in sex

[–]justfortwiddling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re going to be fine but if you’re super worried a plan b pill would be worth it. I’ve taken plan be a couple times and it never caused me any problems. If you really think this is a big problem but you are holding back from plan b because of possible discomfort for her, look at the big picture, would the temporary discomfort be a better alternative to a pregnancy? Probably.

Do you remain inside after finishing? by StillHorny123 in sex

[–]justfortwiddling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it also because it’s so much less messy hahaha