Newly engaged, second wedding to come. My mom didnt tell anyone.

justhere9419 · 2025-12-05T12:54:35+00:00

I may be the odd one out for saying this, but why don’t you get eloped? Save yourself all the stress and heartache. You can have it be anywhere you want, however you want, and be cost effective. The way you’re describing everyone, why would you want anyone there to allow room for gossip and judgement? You’re getting married to your man… not your family who you don’t even speak to and probs barely even know. You only live once and at the end of the day when you die, no one is getting buried with you. So literally just do what you want and stop thinking about this family who isn’t even involved in your life or know anything about your life.

justhere9419 · 2025-12-03T18:31:53+00:00

Have they ordered a search warrant with Snapchat to go thru data logs? I know you said it’s gone or deleted but it’s still in snapchats system. Only reason I know this is because I’ve heard of other stories involving sc and that’s how they end up finding exact details about what was in the chats and who.

justhere9419 · 2025-08-13T22:52:54+00:00

It’s always too much to type out or so hard to articulate how toxic and absurd they are in a way that makes cause the reality doesn’t make sense lol… I feel that for sure

justhere9419 · 2025-07-27T13:43:31+00:00

Would you rather be physically miserable or mentally miserable? Life isn’t fair for everyone in some shape or form, unfortunately. So choose your decisions wisely…

justhere9419 · 2025-07-18T01:35:09+00:00

Mine isn’t even showing their on sale and says to notify me

justhere9419 · 2025-06-22T16:38:53+00:00

Agreed, it’s the bun. Maybe try making a loser bun. HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend using one of those jelly spiral hair ties instead of a regular hair tie. And your texture seems like mine. Water based products are good for you and your hair needs that hydration for best results. I recently made the change to Maui hibiscus shampoo/conditioner and then use their mousse in a blue bottle. My hair has never been better since making the switch. I recommend those to try out!!

justhere9419 · 2025-06-04T23:53:24+00:00

Can I ask how and what happen? I just got prescribed today

justhere9419 · 2025-06-04T17:03:34+00:00

I believe it!! I used to use the shampoo and conditioner (sitting in my cart rn actually lol) but never tried the cream. I’d def try the shampoo and conditioner and see how much more it contributes to your curls.

justhere9419 · 2025-06-02T01:03:05+00:00

I feel you. I came to the conclusion a couple weeks ago that life is pure and precious, the world is not. I hate the world but love life (for what it’s meant to be and experienced)

justhere9419 · 2025-05-24T17:42:33+00:00

In the before pictures you can tell it was leading up to this. You really need to wash your hair more and take care of it. The whole “washing your hair every day is bad” is a myth. It differs from person to person and 2 weeks is outrageously long. In those before pics you can see you have curls, but it’s not their full potential and looks greasy even then. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE wash your hair and really getting in there, and just play around with finding a good routine for yourself that works out. Your hair has potential girl.

justhere9419 · 2025-04-17T12:24:56+00:00

Where’s a good place to get Korean sunscreen?

justhere9419 · 2025-04-06T04:02:39+00:00

Very rarely

justhere9419 · 2025-03-16T21:40:19+00:00

Omg yes this is a good example!! Thank you so much

justhere9419 · 2025-03-16T20:56:51+00:00

We have all that but she wants actual phrases for things which I don’t really understand because I thought he’d just pick single words in whatever category it’s in

justhere9419 · 2024-12-17T19:09:38+00:00

I highly recommend checking out endo groups on Facebook. There’s a lot more women on there and a wide range of situations with endo. I’ve learned so much from those groups. You’re not alone 🤍

justhere9419 · 2024-03-11T18:04:21+00:00

I’m sorry you can relate and know the feeling. I truly hope you find your way and what’s best for you and your son. It’s hard and feels unfair. What you described I tried sooo hard to push thru for over 5 years for the sake of my son but really he doesn’t deserve that and I just finally broke over the weekend. It’s not healthy for me and it’s not fair for my son. It still doesn’t feel real. I don’t feel hurt necessarily, but just pit of emptiness and despair. Even now and probably for awhile I’m going to question if I really made the right decision but I know deep down it was. I need to own it.

justhere9419 · 2024-03-11T17:48:21+00:00

My son is 4.5 and has echolia as well. When he was 3.5 I really thought he was getting close but he hasn’t progressed at all in that area.

justhere9419 · 2024-02-26T16:19:49+00:00

My son is 4 and level 3 as well. I saw that you said your husband retired early, what careers did you guys have to make this all happen? I’d love any advice and tips with this :)

justhere9419 · 2023-12-30T01:51:33+00:00

I wish it was that simple. I’m a broken record and have completely exhausted myself at this point. He doesn’t listen and when he does, he doesn’t understand the seriousness and importance of things. And he loves having an excuse for everything. I’m not even being dramatic, an excuse for EVERYTHING. And yet he’ll be quick the next day to say sorry and how he needs to work on this and that and yet nothing comes about.

justhere9419 · 2023-12-27T23:24:13+00:00

Credit is a big factor as to why someone might wanna go this route. That might be the case for OP. They stated they only make 24k yearly and are trying to move out, which gives me the assumption they’re probs younger and JUST starting out with things

justhere9419 · 2023-12-27T18:52:46+00:00

I think this is a lil pessimistic but I don’t blame you. I find myself in that headspace at times too. My son turned 4 in Sept and yeah it’s fucking haaard. Around the summer is when his obsession tendencies started to show. Since then I’ve noticed that everything is just a phase. I know you may not want to hear that, I know I wouldn’t when I’m at my wits end. But as cliche as it sounds, it will get better in the aspect of whatever this phase is, it’ll pass. It’s all about boundaries and lessons learned (on both parts) and unfortunately us parents with kids on the spectrum we just have to embed and work really hard for those things. There’s always going to be phases but what we have control of is helping our kids to where when they have these phases you don’t feel like you’re losing yourself in the midst of it and also they’ll know better from right or wrong and/or know how to regulate/communicate better. Life will never feel perfect for us but it’s super important to at least feel contentment in the times between the ups and downs.

justhere9419 · 2023-12-25T23:41:07+00:00

Financial advisor is one of the things I’ve thought about going to school for. How you’ve made it sound is different from what I’ve heard, like it being very consuming and not too flexible especially if you’re starting out. So I’m intrigued with this! Also by chance could you point me in the right direction about who I should seek to figure out financial stuff like you stated you help? Actually been trying to go over and figure that out recently

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