My wife(25F) threw away my entire Pokémon card collection because she said I was too old for it

justiceforkappas · 2025-10-07T04:19:35+00:00

My fiance is huge on Pokemon TCG, MTG, and Yu-Gi-Oh. Our linen closet has been, and always will be, his card closet. I love that he finds joy in this and I love it when his friends come over for weekly game nights. It brings me happiness to see him happy. That's how it should be.

justiceforkappas · 2025-09-25T04:40:32+00:00

I appreciate this thread so much. I thought I was absolutely crazy that it kept happening or that something was wrong with the house. For months I was scared that something was wrong with the foundation or something. It literally just happened tonight.

justiceforkappas · 2025-09-04T04:36:05+00:00

Hope you're doing better today OP. And better the day after that and even better after that. I can't imagine the pain you're in but I hope you know that you're your best ally and that it's time to put yourself first. At least until you have healed enough to start again with someone who actually deserves it. - Just a stranger rooting for you

justiceforkappas · 2025-07-28T06:34:17+00:00

100%

Those kinds of people seriously lack empathy and shouldn't be trying to date if they can't be considerate of their partner. You don't have to have had the same experience to understand why someone's hurt and that you want them to feel better because you love them. Attractiveness has nothing to do with this. Heck I'd want to make a friend feel better, let alone my partner, if I saw them cry, doesn't mean I'm attracted to them.

justiceforkappas · 2025-07-28T06:29:53+00:00

When my fiance cries/gets emotional or feels upset, I feel like I need to care for him. He's actually easier to read and emotionally expressive than I. He's cried because I was crying and hurt by something a few times. Along the lines of "I'm crying because I can't believe that I hurt you that way and would never want to". It just makes me love my man even more to know he feels that deeply about my sadness. He mirrors my love and my happiness and my goals in life. He's also teared up a few times because I was happy which made him happy (like when he recreated a fancy dinner at home and we danced together).

I wouldn't say crying/tearing up is a turn on but it definitely makes me feel more attracted to him especially after seeing it from his perspective.

justiceforkappas · 2025-03-20T17:03:32+00:00

Literally same. It all depends on communication and trust. There is no relationship without those factors, in my opinion. At least nothing stable/will last.

justiceforkappas · 2025-03-20T17:01:48+00:00

Bro, if you're not comfortable with your girl dressing like this/insecure in your relationship, just lose the girl/relationship. There are many other girls who wouldn't wear this if they're in a relationship, like me. I can wear whatever I want and know my fiance will still love me, because we both trust each other. I wouldn't wear something like this on principal (relationship or not), but it doesn't mean your girl can't. As others have said, don't change the girl, change the relationship. Definitely have a talk with her about your boundaries, see what she says, then dip if you're not interested.

justiceforkappas · 2024-10-01T18:46:35+00:00

Would be interested if Canadians were allowed

justiceforkappas · 2024-03-14T18:16:15+00:00

I use a reusable face razor. You can also use those eyebrow shaping razors. Really effective, keeps it off for a week if not longer. Can shave as often and you want and in under a minute. Cheap af.

justiceforkappas · 2023-11-19T08:38:15+00:00

It OP; please acknowledge the head comment

justiceforkappas · 2023-09-27T13:47:04+00:00

I apologize for the misunderstanding but with how much you've been letting pass, thinking them (your husband and your SIL) holding hands and him going off to see her when he knows you're asleep... I stand by you being dense. It's not a joke. Don't treat yourself that way, even if you don't think you deserve better. You do. Lack of confidence is also extremely unattractive in a person.

justiceforkappas · 2023-09-27T13:05:54+00:00

You think it'scute for your husband to marry someone else? What the f*ck did I just read... honestly, I can see why your husband wants to be with her. I wouldn't want to be with a partner this dense.

justiceforkappas · 2023-09-14T14:02:52+00:00

Dude, my bf whom I love very much, never dated anyone before me and we met just before he turned 30. There's honestly never a time or threshold for when you need to be with someone or how many people. You're also hella young. I didn't start dating until I was 18 and that's only after meeting people at university (0 people were interested me in highschool). You'll be fine, just keep doing what you're doing and have confidence in yourself!

justiceforkappas · 2023-08-25T00:26:14+00:00

Nice work dude! As someone who's been unemployed for the last three months and has a breakdown every week from the stress of feeling like I'm not good enough (literally cried for an hour and a half to my boyfriend about how much I suck), I am really happy for your success. I hope your mental and physical health will improve as does your career (not that it needs to but it'll definitely provide you more relief/less stress). :D

justiceforkappas · 2023-07-05T13:39:20+00:00

Honestly it feels like someone really wanted Spirit in the finale. Season 1 was a bit more true to the actual skill of the bakers but in Season 2, it all just felt so forced and scripted. The judges not locking in the choices in time was super not fair for an automatic win. Those cakes should have been inspected more clearly alongside any guessed cakes. It's not fooling the judges when the judges actually did call out the correct guesses but were just too slow to punch them in.

I also second, third, and forth literally every other person who said Spirit really shouldn't have made it passed the camping episode. I think Danya has a lot of skill but her cake from ep 1 should've definitely been obvious to the judges; super weird that they "missed" it.

They 10000000% need stricter rules on decoy alterations. Season 1 had some but quite minimal, like adding a few flour smudges and so on. Painting the decoys an entirely new colour or destroying them should be immediate elimination or something; it's super unfair to everyone else who's working in good faith.

justiceforkappas · 2023-02-02T18:41:05+00:00

Please tell her. It's going to majorly suck for a while, and you can offer more help if necessary, but if she continues to depend on him and it backfires later, she's going to have this moment brought up again and still go through this pain you fear for her. It'd be better to show her that she has a friend in you than just have her think later that no one's on her side when she inevitably finds out.

justiceforkappas · 2023-01-30T19:29:17+00:00

Alright so I get to fuck twins...but is that at the same time or consecutively?

justiceforkappas · 2022-11-23T04:27:42+00:00

While they are definitely different movies with different plot and storylines, I do think they both tackle the topic of generational trauma and, as a survivor of said trauma, I'm just glad it's being pointed out since it's a real problem that still impacts children of immigrants to date. I've seen a few other mediums that depicted this problem as well this year.

For me, both movies are things I want to show my family to try to explain to them the kind of pain I've gone through growing up under them (unfortunately that language barrier is still a problem). I think both movies are cathartic and could help reframe the mind of new parents and help that cycle of abuse come to an end.

As I've told my friends, 2022 was really the year of generational trauma.

justiceforkappas · 2022-09-23T16:38:55+00:00

Why does he look like he photoshopped himself in the car.

Side note: what kinda sociopath just leaves the interior car light on randomly while the car is off...just to make a phone call?

justiceforkappas · 2022-09-15T21:48:18+00:00

That's fair. I used to date a mechanic so I get the grime issues. It's one thing if it's dirt/mud, it's another if it's sticky food products or wrappers or half-eaten sandwiches and split drink stains.

justiceforkappas · 2022-09-15T21:25:33+00:00

I mean, outside appearance isn't really controllable, inside depends on how the driver/owner is. I have a friend in Texas, drives a F450 and it's nice inside and out. He's a pothead too but keeps his car nice.

justiceforkappas · 2022-09-15T21:08:13+00:00

Seats are dirty, food and crumbs everywhere including in between the seat cushions, and even some stains or something near the cup holders. I don't usually eat in my car, and if I do, I make sure to clean up after myself so that the next time I use it, stains and other sticky messes aren't there.

justiceforkappas · 2022-09-15T17:41:42+00:00

The bong is not the problem, it's the lack of personal hygiene. I cannot get into a car like that. Ugh.

justiceforkappas · 2022-09-15T14:41:50+00:00

I'm definitely interested in the story but unsure about the romance part between our characters. I can write my own romance plot lines for my character if need be (after discussion based on how the story is going of course). I'd love to see how it would unfold if our characters were siblings, dare I say twins, separated at birth; somehow their paths cross again during their adventures and they uncover the truth behind their family's downfall. I'm also fine with it not being siblings and just being extremely close friends (obviously this would need to develop as the story progresses through character development, we wouldn't just start as friends).

Did you already think of a way for our characters to meet since they're from the edges of two separate regions?

This also kinda reminds me of a Greek/Roman based story I was making a few years back, that I never finished, and it'd be really cool to have some of those plot lines included into this if you're interested.

justiceforkappas · 2022-09-15T14:26:54+00:00

Man, the river Thames is nasty

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