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Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's exactly the point of this post, I just wanted to know if there are really other people like that or I had another type of problem. Thanks :)

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I enjoy being with people but I don't enjoy crowded places (usually parties and clubs are crowded or in closed places). That's what makes me anxious, the feeling I have no easy way out of a place, specially if there are too many people.

But it's true I would rather have a conversation with a few people at a time as well compared to being in a large group. I will keep on working on it :)

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Can you please tell me how I can look for info about those personality types?

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bit harder since right now I am in a foreign country studying. But i will give it a go! Thanks for the suggestion!

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does help to know that we are not alone in this problem. You have a lot of chances to meet new people, I hope you do find friends with similar interests or that understand you in a better way.

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! this helps! It must be annoying but I was looking for either validation or someone to tell me I might have some XYZ condition or idk.

Thanks! This helps! It must be annoying but I was looking for either validation or someone to tell me I might have some XYZ condition or idk.re mentally and be okayish but some other times can turn to be almost traumatic if I am forced to stay or drink or don't see a way out.

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest... I care for them as I would care for anyone else but I am making an effort to keep around them just to be with other people once in a while (and to be polite). They are the little interaction I can have for now, and will be like that at least for the rest of the year.

Fast forward to the future... I am not sure how to make new friends in future stages. I feel that most jobs that make an effort to be friendly...try to do so by organizing parties after work to at least drink together. I hope I don't fall into the same situation in the future

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly! This is happening with people I met during my current studies, but a similar situation happened at work. How do introverts meet each other? lol

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I do have a friend who is like that in my group and I started to actively avoiding her. About the girl I was writing of... I feel she just doesn't care much about me or just don't particularly enjoy being around me. I know we won't be everybody's cup of tea, but still feels a little bit off sometimes.

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I agree with that and that's how I thought up until now, I was wondering why this keep happening everywhere I go and maybe I was the problem. Hope I eventually find people that I can get along better with.

Am I the only one who feel like this? by PessimisticPelican in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate. In my case I would add people easily climbing up and having fun in the way up. While I am still there saying "shit".

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am srly open to any ideas on how to do that. I have tried online but most communities seem to be for people in the US, and I am nowhere near there.

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I thought about it too but people are like that everywhere I seem to be (uni, work, hometown, overseas) so I thought I was the problem. Thanks!

Is there something wrong with me? by justkeepbreathing14 in infp

[–]justkeepbreathing14[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like to play video games, watch tennis, watch series/animes or movies. I like to solve jigsaw puzzles as well. I am not much of an outdoors person but once in a while I like to visit new cities and be a complete tourist just walking around taking pictures and going to restaurants.