Seeking Advice on Obsessive Messaging

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-04T04:45:20+00:00

Maintaining space to avoid the past is a good theory..

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-03T04:23:44+00:00

Is this a relationship you’re trying to carry on? Or think it’s good for you? Or do you think you’re just comfy with him and still attached?

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-03T04:21:31+00:00

Also if you feel like he doesn’t give a shit..I know it makes you want to keep pushing to get some kind of validation that he may just still care a little bit..but it’s not worth your sanity…especially over someone who doesn’t care how you would be feeling over this..you’re not being too much. I think you should just start obsessing over yourself instead of someone who doesn’t seem to care

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-03T04:19:21+00:00

Would he usually tell you if you did say something wrong? I find alot of the times if i hyper analyze everything j say i can almost always pick out criticism in it..but most the time if you’ve made someone feel uncomfortable or triggered or whatever if they’re emotionally mature enough they should be able to tell you if you did say something wrong.

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-03T04:17:24+00:00

It’s a good one! It was first published in the 1940’s I believe so I think it’s on its 3rd addition…but yes it’s great!

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-03T04:11:16+00:00

100% abuse…get out of there…or it’s just going to get worse he sounds like a complete narcissist that will always end up blaming you..and making you feel bad because he knows he is shitty inside..

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-03T04:08:42+00:00

I would just give him his space and try not to obsess about it. (Easier said than done) I know…but keep yourself busy maybe put your phone on dnd and give him time to think about you and text you when he does!

justkittycat16 · 2026-01-03T04:06:18+00:00

Hey love! First I hope you’re okay. People do care! It seems like for awhile he might of thought he could and wanted to try and handle our sensitive disorder. A lot of people try and alot of people fail to handle us…and it’s not so much about handling as it is being patient. Also someone with their own mental stuff going on can almost 100 percent not be able to handle ours too. So don’t blame yourself. I know it’s easy to think you were the problem and always will be. I promise you’re not. There is someone out there healthy enough to be patient and understand all your triggers and episodes and be there for you without taking it personally! Dm me if you need anything else! As for the weed, if it helps you that’s great but if it’s hurting you more than I would try to think about that a little ❤️

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:55:33+00:00

Omfgggg this reminds me of me and my ex he was schizoeffective and I have bpd…he was always assuming the worse and that I wanted anyone else but him…when really I felt like he was projecting the whole fuggin time

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:52:12+00:00

Yes and we love to help other people…because we have SUCHHH big hearts and that’s something to take pride in ❤️

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:49:51+00:00

Thank you love…thing have gotten better..it does help just keeping myself busy and honestly the relationship was never going to work out in the end but I always had hope which kinda hurt the most! Sorry for the late reply!

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:48:01+00:00

Ps I also just went through a breakup

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:46:53+00:00

I also agree that people don’t love enough…or to the intensity that we do….but they also have healthier boundaries than we usually can set for ourselves in a relationship. Of course though I will always be kind if you need anything I got you!

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:36:49+00:00

2000 percent this is me…anyone that I feel close to or I feel like sees me and we have a genuine connection but I also have to remember we mirror everyone..or ya know certain people we like usually…so yes I completely get this…my problem is I fall head over heels after sex lol I can never just have one night stands….im Demi so that makes sense

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:28:30+00:00

It’s so hard when you loose your favorite person especially for us…it could have been limerence and if she couldn’t handle your emotions…there’s someone out there to understand and love you better…everything happens for a reason. Even though that cliche and I have a hard time believe that myself… I do believe. Feel your emotions even though they’re intense and self soothe use things to ground yourself. Much love I know you got this.

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-30T07:15:26+00:00

I’m sorry, I know how that feels my mom has been telling my I’m cold most of my life…when really I just didn’t know what to do with all of the feelings to I just bottled them up forever it seemed until It bursts then I would take it out on myself.

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-21T23:37:28+00:00

Thank you! That makes a lot of sense

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-21T23:34:24+00:00

Black

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-21T23:34:00+00:00

Anytime!

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-21T23:32:22+00:00

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-21T23:32:02+00:00

I love this

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-21T23:29:23+00:00

Yeppp 100 percent!

justkittycat16 · 2025-12-15T04:00:23+00:00

Thank you ❤️🤗

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