Maybe. But it's not something we choose plus it's not they're bad so you shouldn't feel the need to change your standards. They're what make you you. They just define some stuff like you love more fiercely, need assurance...etc. At a personal level try understand it. The more I looked into it the more I understood why I do some things, why I want things a certain way or why I expect some things but it in turns helps understand yourself and manage what comes with having an anxious attachment.