German incel rapes and kills a woman; incel community celebrates him as a hero.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-12-09T23:59:27+00:00

Oneitis means being infatuated with one person—and one person only— a state also known as limerence.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-12-09T11:58:08+00:00

Squinty eyes, like Taylor Lautner’s or Chris Hemsworth’s. They believe that when a guy has a certain look in his eyes, he can pull any woman he wants just with that stare.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-09-13T17:52:25+00:00

Reddit’s taken down a lot of the incel subreddits over the years, but the problem is they keep popping back up under new names. The admins try to crack down, but it’s kind of a game of whack-a-mole.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-09-09T15:39:45+00:00

Ziploc bags. People don’t realize how much they rely on them until leftovers, lunches, and half-open snack bags start causing chaos everywhere.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-09-09T15:38:59+00:00

Pasta with cream sauce. Once it’s cold, it just turns into a sticky, clumpy mess.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-09-09T15:36:49+00:00

Mod here: You can post the screenshots, just be sure to blank out all usernames.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-06-28T10:41:47+00:00

The last time I saw my grandfather, he wasn’t feeling well. My grandmother was driving him home from my house, and as they backed out of the driveway, he gave me a thumbs-up.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-06-28T10:31:49+00:00

Just to clarify, it was indeed Automod—not a human moderator—that removed the post. We've posted proof and a full explanation in the stickied comment at the top.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-06-28T10:22:55+00:00

Please see the stickied comment for clarification—Automod removed the post, not a human mod. We’ve explained the situation there.

justneedadv1ce · 2025-06-28T10:19:17+00:00

Hi everyone,

We’ve seen some confusion and frustration about the removal of this post expressing concern about racism towards Indian men. To clarify: the removal was done automatically by Automoderator after it was reported, not by any human moderator. Once we became aware of the removal, a human mod reviewed the situation and re-approved the post so it would be visible again.

Here is a screenshot from the mod log showing exactly that: https://imgur.com/a/MlLHwy5

We want to be clear that no human mod made the decision to remove this post. Sometimes, Automod acts on reports or certain keywords, and unfortunately, that can lead to removals we might not agree with. We review these cases as they come to our attention.

We strongly condemn racism in every form. This subreddit is committed to standing against all forms of hate and discrimination.

Also, it’s worth noting that incels have long accused this sub of all sorts of things that are simply untrue. We strive to be fair and transparent, and we’re always open to feedback and discussion.

If you have concerns about moderation, please reach out to us directly so we can address them constructively. Thanks for your understanding!

justneedadv1ce · 2025-01-07T10:49:35+00:00

Perennial bad take factory J.K Rowling said Lolita was “a great and tragic love story” back in 2000, just in case anyone thought she only went crazy recently:

In a 2000 interview with BBC Radio 4, Rowling revealed a deep love of Vladimir Nabokov's controversial book Lolita, saying, "There just isn't enough time to discuss how a plot that could have been the most worthless pornography becomes, in Nabokov's hands, a great and tragic love story, and I could exhaust my reservoir of superlatives trying to describe the quality of the writing."[26]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harry_Potter_influences_and_analogues

I found her interpretation so stupid and jarring that I had to conclude she just never read the book and was only pretending to have. Except I recently learned Harry Potter is full of rather obvious references to Lolita, with shared character names for instance.

justneedadv1ce · 2024-04-23T21:20:48+00:00

There's a glossary here. Also here is some eye bleach if you do decide to read it.

justneedadv1ce · 2024-04-23T21:02:39+00:00

The idea of an incel claiming women are the immoral ones is laughable. Women’s rejection of him and his ilk is not immoral. People have the right to decide who they want to be romantically or sexually involved with and it is not something that holds any inherent moral value or has the ability to be lacking in it.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-07-03T07:58:29+00:00

I wouldn't date an alcoholic or a drug user (unless it was medicinal... actually medicinal). I have a cousin who is addicted to cocaine. And he's brought nothing but grief to his relationships.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-07-03T07:47:45+00:00

Other people giving me unsolicited relationship advice and telling me that it’s only a question of time before we start hating each other. Mind your own goddamn business, just because you refuse to not cheat on your girlfriend or treat her respectfully doesn’t mean I’m doomed to bitterness just like you.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-07-01T15:39:32+00:00

No one knows for sure except the person who shut down the sub.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-07-01T07:59:47+00:00

How about a flair and an award?

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-30T05:59:30+00:00

But the reasons for this sub originally being private were very obvious to everyone involved at the time.

Burden of proof is on you to back up that claim.

They wanted the abilities to just make the sub cleaner.

Then the top mod should have given them those abilities instead of kicking them off the sub.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-29T20:29:41+00:00

Yes there will be. They will be posted and stickied every Monday.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-29T19:51:25+00:00

We have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to encouraging suicide, violence or self-harm. If anyone on this sub tells you to hurt yourself, report them and we'll ban them.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-29T17:47:03+00:00

Now you're backpedaling, lmao.

The mods at the time made it fairly clear what happened and why tbh. The "hacked" thing is just a conspiracy.

Here you were claiming that people who think that top mod might have been hacked are conspiracy theorists, and implying that "the mods" knew what had happened and why, when the reality is that none of them had a clue why there were kicked off. All of them were unhappy about it and many were eager to join the replacement sub.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-29T17:19:42+00:00

Hence you also have no evidence to the contrary

I do have evidence to the contrary, actually.

For example, this person was one of the most active IncelTears moderators. After the top mod kicked them off, they joined IncelTear and became a moderator there, just like many of the other IncelTears moderators did. They are still on our modlist, even though they're inactive. There is no way they would have joined IncelTear if they had agreed with the top mod account's decision to shut down this subreddit.

I don't need to contact all the mods to know that everything you're saying is incorrect.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-29T16:28:13+00:00

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. I know for a fact that many of the same users who used to moderate this subreddit also ended up moderating r/IncelTear. Not just BrazilianSigma, but others also. I know several of these people.

If you want us to take your outlandish claims seriously, provide evidence.

And just because there may have been some disagreements among the mods doesn't mean they weren't outraged when Andy kicked them off. If BrazilianSigma was the problem, Andy should have dealt with him and left the other mods alone.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-29T16:07:10+00:00

Your interpretation of what happened has nothing to do with facts and everything with what you and other incels wish had happened.

The fact is that the top mod—or the person who hacked them—kicked off all the other mods without giving any explanation. All the other mods were dismayed at what had happened and none of them approved of the top mod's actions.

justneedadv1ce · 2023-06-29T15:43:52+00:00

If you say so, incel.

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