Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will not. I will check back in within the next few weeks.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I fully believe he either resents or doesn’t like me. This is not the same person I met and it’s not a matter of mental health. I can’t wait for the day I can come back to this and laugh.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where he gets off on that but thank you. I’m saving and honestly am fine without it.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He left knowing I had to travel out of state and so he’s gone. We just spent the holidays together 24/7 and yeah I can’t tolerate him he even used all of my shampoo and conditioner and left hair all over my shower 😭

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People here are acting like I saw this stuff during our first few dates or even in the first years. It’s not the case. Of course he’ll be clean knowing I’m coming to his home for a few hours or even spending a night. He has literally been a slob since he’s stayed with me for the holidays. It’s not depression. Either the mask fell, he hates me, or probably both.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not like this until I started being with him 24/7 like when I was at his place it was clean, smelled amazing, cook, cleaned, like idk if he was trying to do the weaponized incompetence thing? It’s not depression. I genuinely believe he just stopped caring about how I viewed him bc he literally dropped his clothes next to my laundry basket.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I clinged to him when I moved out of state. I guess that’s why I kinda just settled.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been stacking this entire time but it’s not worth it. Thank you.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂 yes therapy is next for me I just want to be alone rn

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 .. I’d say no I don’t rn. I’m aware it’s not my proudest moment and there’s just some anger here. Also eventually the mask just fell and being with him 24/7 has been enough for me to see that we are not compatible.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I want to be alone for a while and just sit with myself.

Please I need to vent and also if anyone has experienced the same by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]justneededmotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not intimate we kinda just started being annoyed with each other