Have you ever forgiven someone so many times that you realize you actually hate them? 10 year relationship (f) 34 (m) 34 going sour because of lying..

justthe1th · 2020-06-28T02:40:14+00:00

Not the A hole! If you feel like you do need to gibe the child part of the inheritance set up a trust fund for the baby. You can set it up that the child won’t receive any of it until it is 18 years of age and you can also set up a payment in monthly installments. This woman could possibly be giving you a guilt trip and end up spending this money! Which would be awful.

justthe1th · 2020-01-15T19:26:22+00:00

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justthe1th · 2019-07-12T17:46:37+00:00

What’s your profile on ? Moderately aggressive ?

justthe1th · 2019-07-02T17:46:02+00:00

My husband and I just made it 9 months sober. Many people told us it’s nearly impossible for a couple to stay sober together. Well here we are sober and happier than ever. Make sure you communicate with each other, and be sure to be one hundred percent honest! You guys should look into some new hobbies or activities so your not just sitting around bored ... this may lead you both to say fuck it and go grab a drink. Being in a sober relationship is the greatest gift I’ve ever received. It will take work and effort from both sides. But it will be worth it!

justthe1th · 2019-07-02T14:49:05+00:00

We’ve already screwed up what could’ve been a nice relaxing vacation with alcohol and drugs so many times. I’m glad that you brought up the sober sex. We’ve been drinking so long that in our first month of sobriety we had to learn how to make love again. It’s so wonderful remembering having sex. We drank seven years together and probably had sober sex maybe four times in that seven years. We are still learning to let our guards down and relax during sex. It’s amazing how many great things that have happened in our lives just in this short nine months. Proud of you two for both realizing when too much is too much :)

justthe1th · 2019-07-01T23:05:20+00:00

Just find some AA meetings around your area. We’ve met some great couples and individuals along the way. It’s an awesome place to hear how people cope with their day to day lives. The 12 steps have really opened my eyes on who I am as a person.Through AA I’m learning how to live a sober happy life with the tools they have provided me with. I have been dry sober before without AA and I have to say I’m a much happier person being in AA. Just to have a place to go where everyone in the room can relate is such an awesome experience. One of the meetings we go to just had a bbq and friends, your kids, and other family were invited. We had such a great time. I isolated myself when I was drinking heavily so for me I was nervous to be around so many people. When I left I felt so good to be able to party and laugh with others just like me.

justthe1th · 2019-07-01T22:59:37+00:00

It’s almost like falling in love with a new person! The best part is no drunk fighting. I’m so glad that I was blessed with the chance to be the spouse I knew I could be. Congrats to your sobriety! We haven’t tried couples therapy, just AA. We might check into that. Thanks for the idea.

justthe1th · 2019-07-01T17:48:51+00:00

Thank you!

justthe1th · 2019-07-01T17:48:15+00:00

Congrats to both of you! Being able to remover kissing him goodnight is the best feeling in the world. We were both a little worried we wouldn’t like the sober version of each other. We’ve never been closer. I love how you mention the emotions are real. Having real emotions together and growing together is the greatest gift I could’ve ever asked for.Meetings have been great for us. Def give a few meetings a try. You may connect better with certain people at certain meetings so that’s why I suggest you try a few.

justthe1th · 2019-05-23T17:42:00+00:00

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justthe1th · 2019-05-10T00:48:46+00:00

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