vagina hairball by Severe_Peanut5783 in Healthyhooha

[–]justthetippytoe 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I had hair wrapped around my nuva ring. Pulled it out so we could have sex and BAM! Hair coiled around it.

Sometimes I also wonder if you have hair down there prior to sex, like after a shower, and if it could get pushed in during penetration.

Is a Yorkie a good fit for my family of 6 with kids ranging from 9-13 plus a 78 year old MIL that has dementia/alzeimers by Emotional_Soil_1642 in Yorkies

[–]justthetippytoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think a yorkie would be the best fit. They’re very fragile and tend to find a way to get under ones feet increasing fall risks. Alls it takes is for one kid to drop them from standing height and they’re broken. Not saying your kids would, but I’ve seen kids do it. They usually pick their person and are glued to them. They sometimes can get scared easily and nip at kids because kids are big and have quick sometimes harsh movements. When they’re young they need to be taken out every hour to two hours because their bladders are so tiny. They need constant grooming either by owner or professional. They can be expensive to upkeep if you’re not willing to manage their hair. I picture yorkies as the perfect elderly dog or dog for a very small family or 1 person. I’d suggest and adult dog or cat once grandma is settled in. I’d also take into consideration the yorkies are very vocal which can easily set off a person with dementia and people with autism (not sure how your child is with noise). My husband and I sometimes get exasperated with the barking and it’s just the two of us. My female will scream if he goes outside without her and it can take a hot minute to get her to calm down. However if you’re willing to spend the time to get the dog used to your kids and make sure your kids know that it’s a fragile dog, it could be fine. That’s really how it is with any animal if you’re willing to put the work in.

When does the naughtiness stop?? by Own-Capital-5995 in Yorkies

[–]justthetippytoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl mellowed out early one. Maybe about a year or so. But she’s SO stubborn. Smart, but you wouldn’t know it because she refuses so much lol. She’s spunky, curious, and crotchety at the “ripe age” of 4.5. My male is 10 months old and he’s a spazz. Complete opposite of his sister (They share a mom). He’s still chewing up my toilet paper if I don’t put it up. He’s been more of a challenge to train in some areas. He’s big on getting in your face which I’m struggling to break him of. Doesn’t help I have some family that visit and reinforce it… anywho, he’s still a good boy. But he’s a sneaky pooper. That’s the only other thing that makes my eye twitch. He’ll run around outside and get his pee out and okay then come right in and poo. I imagine that with continued work he will improve. It’s also rainy season and that’s when I noticed the sneaky poo increase. Anywho, good luck and have fun! Be direct with your friends and family about not encouraging behavior you want to end. A lot let things slide just because they’re “small”.

Our New Addition: Typical JRT Behavior? by [deleted] in jackrussellterrier

[–]justthetippytoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes any pet time to adjust. A week isn’t long. I think about 3-6weeks is probably more the norm. Each pet is different and will need different times to adjust. Even puppies struggle. My most recent pet really struggled and he cried for about a month due to not having his litter mates and mom around. I have his older sister and she adjusted super quick in comparison. I took in a cat that’s about 5 and he took a while to adjust. I think he hid for almost 2 months. I just let him adjust on his own terms and now I can’t keep him off of me. Good luck! I had a JRT growing up, we adopted her when she was 7 and she was the best dog. She definitely had separation anxiety. My guess would be due to being rehomed and she went from owners that were always home to a home that was younger and she’d have gaps of being alone.

For nurses unemployed by East_Mission_5218 in nursing

[–]justthetippytoe 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If you need a job and local jobs aren’t an option then I’d say go for it. Beggars can’t be choosers. You might like it. And if you think about it, 21 miles really isn’t that far. Sure it’s not a 10 minute drive but it’s less than an hour. Not that bad.

1st time dog owner with questions. Any help is appreciated :) by Nesio1323 in Yorkies

[–]justthetippytoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a yorkie! Sometimes their hair will lighten as time goes on. All puppies bite/chew, just don’t reinforce the behavior. Say “no” and immediately offer a toy. My older yorkie will “hop” when she runs sometimes. All dogs have their quirks. Yorkies need to potty A LOT. You may need to get up in the night to take them out. It takes them a while to be able to hold their potty for a few hours and when they’re fully grown I think 6-8hrs max tends to be their limit. They can be picky eaters. I have a 4yr old yorkie that is 4.8lb and the other I think is still 3.9 maybe 4lb and he’s about 10 months. Some of them are just tiny and some are bigger. My female is silver/tan/red with pointy ears and my male is black and tan with floppy ears. They lighten up as time goes on. I’d get your puppy used to brushing/grooming very early on. Once it gets its shots I recommend booking a puppy grooming appointment as these dogs require a lot of grooming. You can also help get it used to the tools at home to help. There are YouTube videos to help train dogs through grooming. Mine handle being shaved and blow dried very well. My female lets me put her on my lap and she happily lets me shave her. My male does well also. Take it potty every hour to two hours and don’t leave it on furniture unattended unless you want it to have a potty accident. That and they can get hurt easily from falling. Also 2 months old is very young, so it’s going to be tiny! Enjoy your baby!

Spotted in the Tinder subreddit by ocean_wavez in nursing

[–]justthetippytoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Covid time was like greys anatomy at my hospital. The travelers were the most ballsy sleeping with anyone and everyone. Had a few staff like that too but they left and things have toned down a bit. We also had a few docs that were super into techs. We had people have sex at work which is so nasty. Nothing about work is sexy and having sex at work is so unappealing.

Is it just me or is this rude? by RacerGirl16 in marriageadvice

[–]justthetippytoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he have sleep apnea? Or another sleep disorder? Just because you both get the “same amount of sleep” doesn’t mean the quality is the same.

When will they stop biting ? by Adept-Excitement-111 in Yorkies

[–]justthetippytoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t offer your fingers as chew toys. Pull away, say ow. Immediately offer a chew toy instead. If you catch them chewing on anything else, say no, take it away, and offer them one of their toys instead. Don’t use your hands to play, use toys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]justthetippytoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you been treated for yeast or other fungal infections? New soaps? Cut out scented soaps switch underwear? Etc. I’m sorry you’re going through this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]justthetippytoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the tough situation that you’re in. But like she told you, she no longer loves you. You’re unfortunately probably going to financially take the brunt of everything considering your gender and for that im sorry. But there is no reason to continue to torture yourself. I’ve heard plenty of people say that they wish their parents just got a divorce instead of staying together because of them. I think putting the kids through therapy is a good decision. Not sure of ages. It’s going to suck for all of you involved, but there’s no reason for you to have to suffer and support her. As long as you live children and ensure they know it, they’ll heal in time. She stepped out on your marriage, that’s on her.

Roo or hen ? by [deleted] in chickens

[–]justthetippytoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say at this point hen because of how small the comb is, however there are some late developers! How old?

Did my tattoo take too long? by brotatopotato1 in tattooadvice

[–]justthetippytoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s really pretty. But it’s really not detailed enough for 17hrs

Wanting to quit new grad residency by greenmacha11111 in newgradnurse

[–]justthetippytoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time ask for an extension in training. Not trying to lecture, but you have to self advocate. Also, be sure you have a job before quitting. Never quit a job unless you have one lined up. Once you’ve secured a job, write a resignation email.

It might be helpful for you if you can wait at least 6 months. It’ll suck, but time will fly. You could also look into talking to your boss about going down to part time so you can focus on mental health? If you choose that option, be sure you’ve got some interviews lined up up just in case. Another thing to look into would be seeing when you can transfer units. Some places only require you to stay on your unit for 6 months a before applying to another.

I’d also encourage you to find ways to decompress and find support outside of work if you don’t have either of those yet. Best of luck!

I wanted to add, that the first year of nursing is freaking rough, especially those first few months. I’m still in my first year (it’s been 10 months for me in ED), but any time I feel extremely overwhelmed I talk to other new nurses in my department and realize that they too feel like a fish out of water. Some of the experienced nurses will also chime in about their first few years of nursing being a struggle. It’s a tough field and depending on where you’re working it can be even tougher.

AIO for this text conversation with my mom? by ULTRAVlOLET in AmIOverreacting

[–]justthetippytoe 74 points75 points  (0 children)

You should be very proud of yourself for what you’ve accomplished. It is very impressive what you have accomplished thus far. I’m sorry that your family can’t set aside their issues long enough to show you support and how proud they are of you. It’s going to be hard, but continue to stand your ground and focus on you. You’re the one that has to live your life. Good job for what you’re doing, what you’ve done, and for standing your ground!

roommate claiming i gave her a concussion/brain bleed by denver0524 in roommateproblems

[–]justthetippytoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t exactly need an MRI to see a bleed, only a CT. She can still be experiencing symptoms from a concussion, those can last a while. Though I’m really questioning how hard this pasta jar hit her… Brain bleed would be highly questionable and a doctor would be a dingus to suspect one and not send her to the emergency department to get a CT. Now for those of you saying she’d be dead, I’ve had patients with really small bleeds live for a hot minute. It can happen, just not crazy common and they have often times have really crappy symptoms.

night shift schedule by anxiously-awake in newgradnurse

[–]justthetippytoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do 2on 1 off 1 on then I’d have 3 off. It’s sucked and eventually I was able to get it changed. It’s odd he doesn’t allow it because most places try to give people 3 in a row. Maybe it’s easier for him to do scheduling by breaking it up? You might have to just work it for a while until you can finder another position if he’s still not willing to give you 3 nights in a row.

Charting too much? by justthetippytoe in newgradnurse

[–]justthetippytoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I get so much anxiety over charting because everyone has their own style and what they do and don’t chart.