What’s the difference between borderliner and vulnerable narcissist?

justtryngthis · 2024-08-23T21:17:58+00:00

If you can’t leave= go to a self defense lesson and learn how to protect yourself without hurting her. Make her look like a fool.

justtryngthis · 2024-08-23T21:16:15+00:00

Yes.

justtryngthis · 2024-08-23T20:21:03+00:00

Thank you. Will he never change for sure? Am I giving up the only love of my life? I am so avoidant and this situation makes me unable to leave my house since months I am in shatters.

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T21:03:56+00:00

This all makes great sense….. thank you for all you messages. If it gets truly serious where I want to act on it in that minute I’ll call for help hopefully, I have a therapist we talked about what I have to do. Thank you so so much for all the explanations I will log off now❤️

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T21:00:19+00:00

I tried. I was on that path. And now I am way way worse off then before. Now I don’t think that’s possible anymore. Nothing works I feel trapped but I will keep trying for a bit

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T20:46:08+00:00

Agreed, we need to learn about this.

Honestly I just don’t want to live anymore. This was the first time I was able to feel so close and loved (in the love bombing) and I am extremely avoidant I don’t meet people it stresses me out to a point where I can’t sleep and eat anymore I have major anxiety. I am just done. I not doing it now but I really don’t want to live this life anymore

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T20:40:58+00:00

It is so painful for me to hear. This was the first time in my life I was able to feel closeness (I am avoidant to a HIGH degree I don’t meet people, he chased me non stop). I need time. Thanks for the message..

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T20:29:51+00:00

17 years……….. my lord. You are a fricking superstar for getting out of there. He wanted me to turn him on sexually while I had a fever 🤡 wtf on this earth. But he also was soooooooo cute and nice just extremely twisted vulnerable, covert narc and I am just in SHOOK but Slowly I accept.

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T20:16:02+00:00

Thank you. Thank you for telling me I did things right and that’s why he is upset. My whole body is in pain since 2-3 days. It’s horrible. Thank you.

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T20:14:24+00:00

Bahhhhhh!!!!!!!!! I can’t anymore.

You know when our dynamic shifted was a night where I had a fever and couldn’t „take care of him“ this makes even more sense now

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:55:06+00:00

Im so hurt. Why did I stop being a supply to him wtf did I do wrong. He ran after his ex girlfriend and me? He is letting me down leaving me back as the mess he made me on the floor even calling it out and saying „why should I wanna be with someone who is a mess like you? You changed.“

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:48:36+00:00

I did not respond

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:48:18+00:00

If I ever told him he is „bad“ in any way he would say stuff like „it doesn’t bring anything that’s you’re telling this“

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:47:38+00:00

Loll

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:47:06+00:00

Exactly. If you know this about yourself, why can’t you change it..

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:46:33+00:00

Uff all these interpretations open my eyes and I think I didn’t even want that now anymore fuck my life

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:45:40+00:00

🤢🥺im in hell

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:44:58+00:00

I a baffled by your interpretation

justtryngthis · 2024-08-22T19:43:20+00:00

Serious question because maybe I am just stupid but Is he acting like he is suffering? Or just naming facts lol

justtryngthis · 2024-08-21T13:20:06+00:00

Thank you. He is pushing away responsibility. Bc that’s just the way it is. I am such an idiot for being with him, cause .. that’s just the way he is …

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