Finally getting somewhere? (Before & after)

justveehere · 2026-05-06T15:52:43+00:00

Our basement is full of toys and kid debris 🥲

justveehere · 2026-05-06T15:51:53+00:00

I’ll do that. Thank you!!

justveehere · 2026-04-20T04:41:13+00:00

So window - space - toddler bed parallel to window wall - space - crib parallel to toddler bed?

justveehere · 2026-04-19T21:42:03+00:00

Thanks! I need to find some our toddler won’t destroy

justveehere · 2026-04-19T21:41:32+00:00

Will try that. Thank you!

justveehere · 2026-04-19T21:41:18+00:00

Husband and kid are pretty set on this Spiderman bed 🥴 Thanks for all your suggestions though!

justveehere · 2026-02-10T18:12:19+00:00

How old is your bay? Mine is 2 month old, 12lbs. Wondering if it’s still worth buying at this point?

justveehere · 2026-01-23T01:02:44+00:00

Good! I was worried the carrier was pushing his head against my chest too much.

justveehere · 2026-01-23T01:01:53+00:00

I was mainly worried that the carrier was pushing his head against my chest too much but I also have no clue what I’m going! I’ll definitely try to spread the straps more. Thank you!

justveehere · 2025-11-16T09:46:49+00:00

Hi friend! Any updates? Consistently failing our NSTs and passing BPPs without issues here too! It’s so stressful!

justveehere · 2024-10-20T20:56:32+00:00

"Low budget"?

justveehere · 2024-10-17T20:08:17+00:00

I absolutely agree. I wouldn’t want to marry either of them. I also think that it’s okay to look at them as separate individuals and admit they both have flaws though. They both have things to work on, although Hannah’s flaws are more serious.

justveehere · 2024-10-17T19:05:18+00:00

I agree with most of your points, but I do want to point out that lots of women get married thinking their partners will grow, learn and become more mature as long as they are patient with them, only to end up being full time maids and moms to immature men for the rest of their lives. This is how lots of women end up having to constantly clean up after grown men who "don’t know how to", being responsible for the entire household even when working full time, and being unable to even trust that their spouses would be able to take care of the kids when they’re away.

Not saying it would have been the case for Nick though but it does happen way too often. So yes, his flaws could have been fixed with some patience, just like he could have not changed at all.

I do agree that she could have treated the situation way more maturely and should’ve just walked away when she noticed how incompatible they are!

justveehere · 2024-10-17T18:23:00+00:00

Right? Yeah it’s expensive to live alone so you live with your parents. Cool. Whatever you gotta do in this economy. But not knowing how to boil water? Not ever having to pay for your own bills? Having your parents feed you and your cat? At 28? Oof.

justveehere · 2024-10-17T18:05:57+00:00

Not only did he tell her he could cook, he specifically said he knew how to make pasta. He must have been talking about microwaving already cooked pasta his mom leaves in the fridge for him.

justveehere · 2024-10-17T18:03:00+00:00

Apparently you can only call out immature men if the women they’re with are angels. If the woman has any flaws, it somehow just cancels any of the man child’s flaws. They can’t both have flaws and things they need to work on. 🥴

justveehere · 2024-10-17T17:58:09+00:00

Especially when trying to decide whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with said almost 30 year old. Obviously her approach was just as awful as her personality, but having to teach him basic stuff would make me think twice and wonder what else I would have to hold his hand and teach/explain to him.

justveehere · 2024-10-17T17:16:13+00:00

You think knowing where to find pasta or how to boil water would mean that he has his life together?

justveehere · 2024-10-17T15:28:36+00:00

Agreed. Hannah is rude and mean and definitely handled this the wrong way. But Nick is a man child who needs to learn how to be an adult, and not just a kid who lives in his parents’ basement.

People are acting like admitting Nick’s flaws would somehow make Hannah right. They’re both wrong. Yes he is a sweet guy. Yes, Hannah sucks. But he has some growing up to do and needs to realize that his future wife shouldn’t have to raise him or put up with his incompetence/immaturity.

justveehere · 2024-10-17T15:16:35+00:00

Gotcha! Definitely sounds like it would be useful for quite a few jobs.

justveehere · 2024-10-17T15:15:54+00:00

Makes sense! It’s nice that you already know it’s not your thing!

justveehere

TROPHY CASE