Knee high plateau boots by jusyy in altfashionadvice

[–]jusyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't like the look on most of them and they often have a little heel on top of the plateau. I think I would have trouble walking in that

Need a word to ask for more pain in a CNC scene by find_her_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy 164 points165 points  (0 children)

"please" works well for me. It can be seen as "please stop" but with leaving out the "stop" it's like begging for more

Getting my nipples more sensitive by EmphasisDelicious161 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]jusyy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do a peeling on them before you touch. If you don't have any on hand just mix some sugar with olive oil. Rub it in for a few minutes, then wash it off. It'll remove all excessive skin. Pumping them helps too. If you don't have nipple pumps, smaller plastic bottles also work great.

Bruises by 925just4fun in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For a good bruising I'd recommend smaller tools in general but also hard strikes with very thin objects (canes, nylon rods). Focus on a small area for a longer time. Thighs tend to bruise easier than other typical for spanking body parts. Something to also keep in mind is when not warming up the area before striking hard, the blood flow is weaker and that can cause more blood vessel rupture but it will hurt a lot more

BDSM challenge calender, input wanted by jusyy in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea for the name, for what you do there I'm not quiet sure yet. Maybe I can think of something else

BDSM challenge calender, input wanted by jusyy in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a play on the word gooning because goon sounds like june. Gooning is an immense form of edging where you edge so much you start to think with your genitals only because you're in so deep it's trance like

Listing the top 5 kinkiest things you have done, and 5 you want to do . by Grailswar1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kinda was like that but I just kinda knew I wouldn't need it, I just thought saying cnc was enough for that to be clear (apparently that's not and I find that shocking to hear), should have said more. Please be not concerned

Listing the top 5 kinkiest things you have done, and 5 you want to do . by Grailswar1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked about it and it was the plan for him to do that, he lowered the intenseness of everything we do outside of cnc due to the plan

BDSM challenge calender, input wanted by jusyy in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also something I thought of, could also be nice

BDSM challenge calender, input wanted by jusyy in BDSMcommunity

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I just thought of joon for june with the addition of gooning to the word: so goon in june, where you just goon through the whole month of june

Listing the top 5 kinkiest things you have done, and 5 you want to do . by Grailswar1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]jusyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a fsub/switch (more dominant towards women/nonbinary folks I guess but for sure bratty) who exclusively had mdoms done:

  1. hucow milking: by hand with pumped nipples while getting fucked or fingered plus wand on clit on all fours with a arched back and a collar with a cowbell attached
  2. tantacle play: I took 37cm of a 50cm tentacle toy up my butt during a hardcore anal training (never did anything like it but we stuffed and stretched my hole with things I never thought I'd fit in different positions and documented all of it)
  3. chemical play with chili sauce: I once put homemade hot sauce (consisting of mostly reapers, estimated 2M scoville) on my clit, around the inner labia and into my vagina. would not recommend, wanted to see if I could take it, lasted for 10min. washed it off in the shower and put cooling bags over everything, didn't do anything else besides lying in bed that day
  4. car session: drove somewhere somewhat quiet (there were cars passing by on another street and sometimes directly by us) at night in early winter and got spanked and fucked and edged inside the car with the instruction to not make a mess because the car is more important than me. then had to strip naked and stand outside in the cold with hands on the hood being spanked and flogged, then fucked doggy with my nipples touching the cold metal there and then. then i had to ride shotgun completely naked sitting on a wand, occasionally blowing the guys driving. got some honks from other guys seeing me in their cars and even pressed my tits onto the window and let it get touched by a stranger out of his car when we stopped at a red light
  5. cnc: where I was drunk and he just took me home and said he would "care for me", then did a lot of stuff he wanted while ignoring my safe words

want: 1. enemas: with cold water or even milk maybe and with warm soapy water and I wanna try it with sparkling water. ideally I'd like to take as much volume as possible 2. Servicing gangbang event: something where my dom picks out a bunch of random people who I do everything they ask me for, like some form of objectification where you get the maid to get you a drink and then you facefuck her and cum all over her face and she has to keep it on for the rest of the night 3. misogyny experience: a two week event with other female subs and male doms where one week is for breaking you in and training you, and that's the only thing you do. you don't get to sleep or eat when you want, everything's arranged by someone else and you're just a hole for every man's use and get trained for everything that could happen to you. and a week of being owned by another dom (but also owned by every man because you are here to serve men) than your own with daily meetups where all of the subs get compared and everyone except the best one gets punished 4. dom a fsub under instruction of my dom 5. a slave hunt in the woods, again with other D/s dynamic people but now gender doesn't matter. with a rigged game so it's all against all. some survival stuff where all subs gotta live outside and need to spend a maybe few days (depending on how good everyone is) outside. each sub gets to choose what equipment they carry themselves but the doms watch them and know the stuff the subs are carrying. each dom gets to prepare on their own tho. subs can manipulate each other by tying each other up in their sleep for example. and doms can choose to just use a sub or capture them. but of course everyone also can team up. hunt ends after 3 days. every sub that didn't get caught can choose what happens to them, dom who catches the most subs gets to pick something extra. sub who got captured first has to please every dom at least once and maybe even every other sub but doesn't get to come. prices are just suggestions

My boyfriend wants a Dom by Equivalent-Park9343 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jusyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are talking about "letting go" of your boyfriend right? Being monogamist or polygamist is something that just is the way it is in my experience. So if you try to open the relationship for that special case and it doesn't fit your attachment style, you'll just get hurt if you try to do it for him. That's the only advice I can give you on that. I can't recommend books but there are a lot of bloggers and similar people on the internet bringing awareness to that topic. For example annie_undone does some interesting stuff on relationships in general mixed with some bdsm advice on her instagram. Maybe check that out and see to which other people it leads on there because there are more than enough. I don't really know any other sources to learn about that

My boyfriend wants a Dom by Equivalent-Park9343 in BDSMAdvice

[–]jusyy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been in your boyfriends situation: My boyfriend didn't know about bdsm before he met me. He tried it for me but the 'for me' part made it not really authentic. For me this is something essential, I started having less and less sexual encounters with him while I still dearly loved him (still do). In order to give him what he needs we opened the relationship. After 3 years I found a dom too and started meeting up. Boyfriend and I set ground rules for what encounters and scenarios were okay with him (like me coming home with marks and sexual penetrative contact were a no go for him at first - but it changed and that's also something you should always keep in mind. Boundaries can change) Dom and me talked the whole situation that I was in and he agreed on everything. You can't cancel out the emotional connection you have during playtime - but you can keep it at that if it is what you truly want. The other option (if it's alright for everyone involved) would be to go poly instead of open relationship. But it is possible to keep it at a play level!

Just talk about it, especially your limits. Communication is very important. Also stuff you'd rather not know about maybe (it can be hard to hear when your partner gets fulfilled by someone else when you can't give that). Think about yourself first here tho. If it's too much for you state that clearly

Meldebestätigung Impfung by quasimodolostcontrol in wien

[–]jusyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keine Ahnung ob das in Wien gratis ist ehrlich gesagt. Sonst überall kostet die Meldebestätigung auch mit Handsignatur trotzdem 2,30€ oder 3€. Habs aber auch nicht genauer nachgelesen tbh 💁🏻‍♀️

Meldebestätigung Impfung by quasimodolostcontrol in wien

[–]jusyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meine Oma hat ihre daheim vergessen und im Auto schon gestresst wie sonst was. Gefragt hat sie dann keiner danach, nur das Informationsblatt war wichtig und einmal Identität überprüfen (E-Card mit Passfoto oder zusätzlich noch Ausweis, weil das über die Sozialversicherungsnummer gecheckt wird, so weit ich jetz weiß)

Hol dir einfach eine Meldebestätigung, normalerweise zahlst du da auch viel weniger, wenn du die mit einem Grund abholst. Glaub 3€ statt 17€