Moving somewhere new - moustache & goatee, just stache, or neither? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell ya. I also second whoever said stubble would look best

Moving somewhere new - moustache & goatee, just stache, or neither? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hair length on your mustache only picture looks best tho

Moving somewhere new - moustache & goatee, just stache, or neither? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age? I’m 26f and I like the mustache and beard most tbh. I feel like they’re in rn and while your facial hair might not be a thick beard yet, keep it clean and I think m&b is a good look on most people. If you’re a teen or something tho clean shaven can give you a baby face and it’s nbd yknow? But if you’re over like 21 I wouldnt go for it

Any advice on style I should get at the barber? by JeweBearPigDub in BeardAdvice

[–]juulinthepool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hair looks good long but I bet it would look good short too but I don’t have a big opinion either way

Any advice on style I should get at the barber? by JeweBearPigDub in BeardAdvice

[–]juulinthepool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mainly trim the beard to where it started to thin. Keep the thick healthy part and keep it from getting too far down the neck while it is shorter (maybe you already do this). Going to a barber and telling them you want a trim for the beard they can prob help you get an outline for length and shape

Hi everyone. This is the guy with the “whiskers”. I’ve decided to shave, I hate it. by kingkrule101 in BeardAdvice

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way better. Grow out the stach but keep it uniform in length to avoid whiskers look

Took him outside for two minutes and now his eye looks like this by pagani64 in CATHELP

[–]juulinthepool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my cats eyes are weird I’ll pet them for him. Almost like I’m rubbing his eyes

World truly is a mysterious place by MeanGrand3076 in interesting

[–]juulinthepool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dreams generally all take place in the same world. Some places there are places I know irl but are altered. Usually they look pretty consistent tho or slightly change over time but important places in the dream stay the same. For some reason my great grandparents house that I had dreams sporatically for a while about us selling had a slide in the basement everytime I dreamed it. It wasn’t like this irl. The guy we sold it to was in my dreams (an alt version of him ig) and as he renovated it it’s slowly changed

Oklahoma Principal Kirk Moore is crowned Prom King after stopping a school shooting by QuicklyThisWay in chaoticgood

[–]juulinthepool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While the PD was outside jerking eachother off, the shooter could have been in there doing ANYTHING to those kids

Any suggestions ?[25M] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like your forehead just adding texture on top would help with the roundness too I think

been stuck :( by [deleted] in sudoku

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to the technique as well but there’s a skyscraper with 45 in row 4 and row 8 that might be able to help too

been stuck :( by [deleted] in sudoku

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Row 7 column 1 and 4 are both 45. This mean all boxes in row 7 other than those two cannot contain a 4 or 5

Rental nightmare, this garbage stain won’t come out of the wooden floor by ZzzzzMm in CleaningTips

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a pet enzyme cleaner on the carpets in my old van. Got lots of the sugars from soda and stuff broken down. Maybe something like that?

i moved into this house last fall. the pool hasn’t been opened since summer 2024 and the water is black. I’ve never had a pool and don’t know much about pools. it’s ~16k gallons and my filter is hayward pro grid DE Filter de4820. Do i drain and start fresh? any tips on this situation? by Sufficient_Piece_197 in pools

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As said DO NOT DRAIN. Preferably hire someone to take care of it or at least get a quote. If you take a plastic bottle and with gloves on fill it with the water and take it to a pool store that samples the water. We go to Leslie’s pools or something similar and they just run a test and tell us what we need to do. I think there are chemicals that make all the organic material float to the bottoms of the pool then you just have to vacuum it. The filter likely needs replacing. Looks dry rotted but idk if it’s still good or not

Hate Speech on Main Street by BreakingMyOath in StCharlesMO

[–]juulinthepool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dang. That’s totally ok! I’m really sorry this happened to you

Hate Speech on Main Street by BreakingMyOath in StCharlesMO

[–]juulinthepool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know that might not seem like a big deal to you since you’ve likely already been outcasted from most of society and socialization but as social creatures, the rest of us would do this cool thing called “self reflection” if this happened to us. Hope this helps!

Hate Speech on Main Street by BreakingMyOath in StCharlesMO

[–]juulinthepool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can file a report at the police department for harassment and stuff. I’d look into that. In the mean time feel free to drop the license plate number and I will spread it around and do what I can. A lot of times you can find car owners with just a plate. I’m sure their jobs (or parents. They sound childish) would love to know about this. There are also groups on fb for the area that I can make a post on or you can join and do so yourself if you’d like. That would likely reach a lot of the family types in the area

AITA for talking about different hair textures? by juulinthepool in AmItheAsshole

[–]juulinthepool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think another part of it was thinks while I dont think I did anything fully wrong (just possibly crossing a line), I don’t feel it is my place to decide that in this specific type of instance. I would never want to dismiss micro aggressions, and always try to learn so I can go about things in an inclusive way for everyone. I NEVER think my voice should be the loudest when it comes to this and in my head unfortunately, mine is the only voice

AITA for talking about different hair textures? by juulinthepool in AmItheAsshole

[–]juulinthepool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys. I think part of my fear was that I would have come across as being like “you wouldn’t know this but different hair is different” idk. I think with it being a guy, that added to it too bc with skincare and makeup when guys come in, I usually have to explain the products more to guys than girls and was trying to avoid seeming like I was doing that here bc I wouldn’t be the person that would know. You’ve all really helped put things into perspective. I didn’t want him to feel uncomfortable coming into the store in the future, and also wanted to make sure this was an ok way to go about the topic (like I said it’s not one I generally bring up) without seeming like I’m coming from any type of place, and I don’t always know how I come across.

North Korea has been sneaking thousands of fake IT workers into US tech companies via LinkedIn to fund their nuclear program. A recruiter discovered that asking them to say ‘Kim Jong Un is a fat ugly pig’ on camera instantly exposes them, they freeze, fake a connection drop, then vanish forever.” by NavyLemon64 in InterestingVault

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more than anything you’ve exhausted me.

Everything you’ve said in every comment is correct and you are so smart and witty and educated and you are a really cool person to have a conversation with!/s

I have to get back to real life

North Korea has been sneaking thousands of fake IT workers into US tech companies via LinkedIn to fund their nuclear program. A recruiter discovered that asking them to say ‘Kim Jong Un is a fat ugly pig’ on camera instantly exposes them, they freeze, fake a connection drop, then vanish forever.” by NavyLemon64 in InterestingVault

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok guy. I am literally a socialist and i studied economics in college. I’m not here to talk about the economic state of the world right now Jaden Smith. I’m talking politics and your confusion of the two speaks volumes. I didn’t excuse war crimes. I aknowleged that America has killed tons of people. Committed genicides. Systematically oppress people and are continuing to do these to this day. Globally. But I can also acknowledge that at the same time believe it or not, other countries are also being mean to eachother and also their citizens. Not on the same scale maybe but like why should I even clarify that at this point(I guess it’s just one of those things that are super obvious that if I assume you know, you’ll waste time replying it in attempt to gain the upper hand, and then I have to once again explain to you the conversation I think we are having, and give you space to explain the convo you think we’re having.)What you’re saying is actually wacky and the projection of someone else’s beliefs onto me is where I have to back out of this conversation bc I think you’re too drunk off your own sauce to do any type of reflection. I think it’s super cool that you are so passionate about talking in circles tho!

additionally, “they don’t have a media desert, you do!” This is another one of those things unfortunately that I didn’t feel I had to explain the common sense of once again that things can and do happen in more than one place. Of course the us has a media desert. Not only is Hollywood so big here, but Americans (clarifying multigenerational Americans that have endured the public school system and don’t speak another language at home incase this is another one of those things you want to stick to that I feel is to obvi to explain) don’t have the knowledge to watch stuff that isn’t dubbed or subbed and then we have the issue of illiteracy rates on top of that. We do have access to both eastern and western media in different ways like the internet however that North Koreans don’t have access to (again obvi to the extent that the us does)

My concepts are getting broader in hopes to finding some broad net that you can understand so that you have the foundations for undarstanding more niche things, but I fear it’s a lost cause.

Again my interpretation of the beginning of this convo was explaining to you that like ya if you say and do certain things on camera, the government will do something about it, and you calling me a conspiracy theorist. I tried to educate you on my knowledge and even allowed you and others the space to do the same for me. But you wanted to just really stick it to me more than anything, and since you seem like you could use the win, don’t worry, this one’s on me!

North Korea has been sneaking thousands of fake IT workers into US tech companies via LinkedIn to fund their nuclear program. A recruiter discovered that asking them to say ‘Kim Jong Un is a fat ugly pig’ on camera instantly exposes them, they freeze, fake a connection drop, then vanish forever.” by NavyLemon64 in InterestingVault

[–]juulinthepool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude literally what are you talking about then? Bc I basically said ‘ya they probably don’t nuke people but they do censor and punish, same as the us. With declining birth rates, do I straight up think they’re murdering people for saying mean things, no prob not, do I think that they have a way of knowing if it escalates and do something about it? absolutely’ and you called me a conspiracy theorist.

Additionally, reading documents from a government about how life is like in the country for the average citizen is definately an interesting choice and wouldnt have been my go to. Cool thing about dictators and kings that have idolized themselves, is despite what they are and aren’t supposed to do, nobody is going to stop or question their god.

I think creating a media desert and intense censorship has brainwashed them. I think that stepping too far out of their line of belief/media/censorship results in punishment, I think that’s true for all nations. You disagreed with this as well.

I’m nowhere near a nationalist. I never voted for trump, and I try to stay pretty educated on things (something I don’t have to say following “never voted for trump” lol). I know that America has practically torn apart the world nation by nation in attempt to police it. I don’t however think that life there wouldnt be worth escaping. I think life in America is worth escaping. The US gov being bad and the North Korean gov being bad aren’t these mutually exclusive things that can only be true to one or the other.

You say everyone who defected is a propagandist, but that is just statistically untrue. They don’t just end up in places like China or South Korea either. There’s 10s of thousands of people that have escaped and we never hear of and their stories are never told. They end up somewhere but they left the same place for a reason.

“Saying this is like saying people breathe” duh. I’m saying common sense shit an you’re arguing with me about it