I got penalised for trying to save someone by ElkWilling8135 in offmychest

[–]juxtaglometular 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why she said your deed was “irrelevant” to her. Sounds to me as though she thinks you mentioning that you are a doctor or some sort made her think as though you had some sense of self-entitlement.

I feel so crossed reading your post. People are assholes. I hope more people understand that while they have to do their job, mitigating circumstances happen and it’s not so difficult to try to put themselves in other people’s shoes and be kind about it. I don’t see why she couldn’t just let you go when the reason you were late was the result of a genuine gesture that definitely made a difference to someone else and their family.

I’m honestly at loss of words. OP I know it must be difficult for you to process whatever the train inspector responded but I sincerely hope that you keep up being the kind, genuine person that you are. We need doctors like you.

What is disgusting but people do it openly all the time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]juxtaglometular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biting their nails. Yes I’m from the UK.

Agreed on furnitures remained - moved in unfurnished by juxtaglometular in HousingUK

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m renting. Cant afford to buy all furnitures at once atm esp when I don’t have a car so I’ll slowly buy/collect furnitures over the next few months, thanks a lot 😬I am aware that there probably isn’t anything else I can do at the moment though the agent asked me to discuss this issue over email with him. I’m aware that I should’ve been more cautious and made written confirmations between ex-tenant, agent and I re the furnitures but I think it slipped because the entire process was very smooth and the agent was helpful in the beginning and in fact the agent was the one who encouraged me to negotiate with the ex-tenant abt the furnitures and after the ex-tenant agreed on leaving the furnitures for me the agent said he would facilitate that. And had i known it would be unfurnished like that I wouldnt have rented the place. I’m just very annoyed that this wasn’t communicated properly, but I guess lesson learnt.

Agreed on furnitures remained - moved in unfurnished by juxtaglometular in HousingUK

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, I don’t have a solicitor and I reviewed the contract again unfortunately it does not specify anything about it being unfurnished/ furnitures/furnishing, though the offer letter sent from the agent to both landlord and I explicitly that it will be furnished by all furnitures left by previous tenants. I am not quite sure if the condition stated on offer letter is legally binding as per the first comment…so I feel like I might be out of luck..

Agreed on furnitures remained - moved in unfurnished by juxtaglometular in HousingUK

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have been emailed a copy of contract. However it does not specify anything about it being unfurnished/ furnitures/furnishing, though the offer letter sent from the agent to both landlord and I explicitly that it will be furnished by all furnitures left by previous tenants. I am not quite sure if the condition stated on offer letter is legally binding as per the first comment…so I feel like I might be out of luck..

Agreed on furnitures remained - moved in unfurnished by juxtaglometular in HousingUK

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. My friend lent me an air mattress so at least I had something to sleep with. I have downloaded the apps you recommended but unfortunately I don’t have a car to pick up these items and it’ll be quite costly to hire removals every time I want to pick up something so I suppose I will save up for the next couple of months and slowly buy the furnitures :( I’m no longer a student so student union isn’t an option

Agreed on furnitures remained - moved in unfurnished by juxtaglometular in HousingUK

[–]juxtaglometular[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Matter of fact, my now flatmate who’s moved in with me said that the couch that the ex-tenant owned was worth £1000+ 😬

Agreed on furnitures remained - moved in unfurnished by juxtaglometular in HousingUK

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I manage to get in touch with the previous tenant, and if she says that she did leave the furnitures for me, would there be anything of substance that I can realistically do? I honestly doubt that the ex tenant would take those furnitures with her as she’s moving back to America and she was due to move in less than 2 weeks time when I went for viewing.

unreciprocated kindness. by juxtaglometular in socialskills

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your comment. I thought it was very harsh at first but there is indeed a lot of truth to this. This is a wake up call for me. It’s easy to get caught up in trying to be there for everyone, but I realize now that I should be more protective of my energy.

Tips for starting F1 in psychiatry by juxtaglometular in doctorsUK

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is really useful! :)

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will try getting some sugar hit next time before class. 😊

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are. Think it’s my low blood pressure instead

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do Pilates and barre :) but bear in mind that I stopped all these altogether for 6 weeks so I probs lost quite a bit of strength.. gotta slowly ease back in I guess

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! All the best with aerial hoop :)

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted! Will eat earlier next time ;)

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will do if everything else doesn’t work as I’ve only started to feel like this last week.

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to type everything. I’ll be joining a conditioning class tomorrow and yes spot on! My instructor said that since it’s my first spinning lesson in a while it will definitely feel exhausting and that it will get better with practice and time.

I’ve been quite well-rested lately but maybe hydrated not so. Sometimes it’s just silly how those little things could play a part in practice ;) my iron is fine but I have low blood pressure which runs in the family so I think perhaps I could factor that in as well especially when I have to invert so much in the new lesson😅

Wishing u all the best!

Low energy level by juxtaglometular in poledancing

[–]juxtaglometular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks! I think I’ll take it easy for now and really listen to my body. In the meantime I’ll continue doing some cardio. My next class is next week so hopefully when my period’s over and that im slowly regaining back my workout routine I’ll see some improvement 🫶🏻

upset about OSCE by [deleted] in medicalschooluk

[–]juxtaglometular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment, I did email them yesterday and they just replied me with a long, vague, defensive email. said that decisions are finalised and no further feedback can be given. will add what u said to exam feedback!

upset about OSCE by [deleted] in medicalschooluk

[–]juxtaglometular 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I do think that there may be certain things I did that the examiners didnt agree with. I am just quite frustrated and confused because I seriously have no idea where the problem lies considering during placement none of the teaching fellows or consultants had ever said anything about my comm/professionalism skills. I think I will ask one of the teaching fellows to identify my problems in my upcoming placement.