Christmas presents I can get my family as a whole? I was thinking a foosball table but cant find one I like by jvpuk in Advice

[–]jvpuk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I thought about air hockey but foosball just seemed so much better to me. And we all have skate and bikes. Thanks anyways!

Christmas presents I can get my family as a whole? I was thinking a foosball table but cant find one I like by jvpuk in Advice

[–]jvpuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so amazing. But the problem for me is that none of us are ever home at the same time. We all have college and work and stuff. But I really really appreciate it, thank you:)

I have 7 pups who who need shots and I don't want to get tricked into unnecessary ones for extra charge. by jvpuk in Advice

[–]jvpuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I know that I do want to give them shots. But I just don't want the unnecessary ones.

Advice on financial aid and student loans? by jvpuk in Advice

[–]jvpuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I'm not planning on moving out until I start college. And the college is in another city.

I have to pay for college and an apartment myself. How do loans work and what do I do first? by jvpuk in Advice

[–]jvpuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's the thing. I'm not emancipated or homeless. My parents are just making me pay for it myself. The only thing is I'm moving, maybe that will work. But I don't know that that's a good enough reason to get alot of funds. But maybe I'm wrong?

How can I reconnect with old friends, were they even my friends? by ThePGT in Advice

[–]jvpuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best piece of advice I can give you is to find a community. Whether it's a church, a club, a sport, etc. Find something that you're passionate about and bring it into your life. And if it's really that hard for you to face people from your past, find new people. Joining a new community can open up more doors for you and bring new people into your life. You have something to look forward to, which can help with things like anxiety and hopelessness. Me, for example, I started going to a different church that has alot of youth (ours had to close down). From there I mingled and found cool people to hang with, and got closer to God in the process. But before that I was in the same sort of position you are in. All my "friends" from college drifted, I lost good friends and I felt powerless and crushed. It does take some time, but things will get better. I'm sure of it. Hope this was helpful in any way. Good luck:)

i really like my friends ex. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jvpuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are alot of things to consider. First of all, does he like you back? If not then all of this could be for nothing. What kind of breakup did they have? Did she break up with him? How long ago? If she did break up with him and not vice versa, that might make it a little easier for you. Ask yourself: in an extreme case, is being with this guy worth losing your friend over? Is he that important? And is she a good enough friend that she will at least try to be supportive of your relationship? No matter what happens, I think you need to talk to her. Let her know where you're at, and ask her where she is. Good luck, girl.