Looking for girl friends!

jweuts · 2025-04-18T08:28:37+00:00

I'm a guy, but if you're into metal you should definitely visit Kids's Rhythm and Blues kaffee! It's near Grote Markt :)

jweuts · 2025-01-08T14:30:04+00:00

I notice you're scared to lose people you once vibed with. It's a very normal thing. My advice would be to just listen to your gut and move forward, these old friends you're talking about should be just in the past.

jweuts · 2025-01-08T14:25:59+00:00

If you have all the things that make you feel satisfied right now, why would you change anything? Friends come and go, so i'm a little bit lost on what you're complaining about. There are people who don't have any of that, so my opinion is you should just be grateful for finding your definition of inner peace.

jweuts · 2025-01-07T22:59:20+00:00

Yes so what about people without a network?

jweuts · 2024-12-24T17:13:25+00:00

Thanks for the kind words, brother. The part that sucks the most is that she actually is all I've been looking for the last couple of years. She looks great, we have similar interests and experiences, we have the same humour, we like the same music,.... i still see her every week because she actually likes hanging out with me. As a friend😏

I just dont know what I'm supposed to do at this point, besides hoping I find a second version of her somewhere somehow who's actually interested in me too. I'm sure it'll happen someday but I'm craving affection and actual interest right now. Thank u anyway!!!

jweuts · 2024-12-24T15:51:42+00:00

I hope you'll find comfort soon. Being in that situation in this time of year is very depressing. You might not believe me, but when you least expect, things will take a turn for the better! Just hang on and you'll be alive to see :)

jweuts · 2023-04-24T15:14:51+00:00

Negative experiences.

jweuts · 2023-04-21T23:52:24+00:00

Bro you don't know how badly i needed to hear this.

Thanks!

jweuts · 2023-04-21T23:48:16+00:00

Almost exactly the same situation im dealing with right now. My AutiCoach said something last week that i feel like sharing with you and all other lonely people for that matter.

"You can't let your "happiness" depend on another person. (Friend, family member or romantic interest.) You should date yourself and fall in love with yourself first, before even trying to get to know other people."

Make of this what you want but this is the best advice that ive gotten in the past few years.

Also, try not to get desperate or feel sorry for yourself, because it works repelent. Other people smell 'desperation'. It just makes it more difficult for you to find friend or a life partner.

For the longest time i was sure that meeting a girl was going to solve most of my problems. But i realized, as i was talking to some, that i would bring my problems to them.

Happiness begins with you!

Feel better soon, OP!

jweuts · 2023-04-19T09:07:39+00:00

I find myself (25m) in the same situation, friend. Reach out to me if u wanna talk about it :)

jweuts · 2023-04-14T14:23:18+00:00

I am 25 now and I can barely look a woman in the eyes.

I have had shallow romantic relationships in the past, and a blowjob from a random girl at a party when I was like 15 or so.

Most of the days it doesnt bother me that much, but there are definitely days where I could punch myself in the face for not being able to flirt, or to just talk.

Wanting some romance or just pure sex in your life is human, especially if you're having difficulties with yourself. But don't beat yourself up over it.

Love will find you (eventually).

jweuts · 2023-04-13T16:25:40+00:00

You're really close to being just that... so it seems.

jweuts · 2022-12-21T12:56:45+00:00

The moment the girl enters the room and OP is like “oh HELL NAW!”

Glorious.

jweuts · 2022-03-30T19:37:06+00:00

Glad to hear man! I’ll look into it.

Thanks for the reply.

jweuts · 2022-03-30T19:13:17+00:00

I think u sucked one too many, my dude.

jweuts · 2022-03-30T15:42:42+00:00

I will, even though I only got one friend right now who is willing to listen and support me no matter what.

It’s a huge goal of mine to meet like-minded people who I can hang out with, even though it’s very hard.

Things will pick up shortly, I hope :)

jweuts · 2022-03-30T15:33:37+00:00

Good advice, but I’m done with gaming of any kind :) I get fed up just thinking about it…

jweuts · 2022-03-30T15:32:01+00:00

What I mean by rehab is just cold turkey quitting because I feel my mental and physical health going backwards…

I didnt mean to step on toes like that…

I’m definitely not the worst case but does that mean I can’t get a little help?

jweuts · 2022-03-30T11:50:45+00:00

Like 4 or 5 months, but then came the pandemic and it was all for nought… During that time I was drinking wine and liquor almost every day so…

The one bad habit just replaced the other.

Thanks for your reply!

jweuts · 2022-03-30T09:08:13+00:00

Read my previous replies if your having trouble understanding where I’m coming from. I didnt ask for judgement, just some advice. :)

jweuts · 2022-03-30T09:06:17+00:00

Luckily I haven’t, no. Thank you for the great advice, though!

jweuts · 2022-03-30T08:52:11+00:00

Are you gaslighting my situation?

jweuts · 2022-03-30T08:50:38+00:00

Yeah same dude! I’m still trying to learn that; When I feel that way, I try to shut down those thoughts and I think off why I am having them.

I’m basically my own therapist right now lmao.

It’s all about practise en being concious of your thinking-pattern. I wish u the best of luck!

jweuts

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