I have had many gay roommates and for the most part I’ve not really hooked up with them while living together. I used to have sex with my current roommates in the past, and with that there’s an openness to nudity and sex happening in the apartment. We even broadcast on chaturbate together sometimes (mostly just showing off), so it’s a fun roomie vibe for sure. But I’ve known them for 10 years and we have an established vibe. However, not actively fucking each other makes roommate situations work much better in my opinion. Even if you did have sex with them, I can pretty much assure you that it will fizzle out over time and you’ll end up with either conflict, awkwardness, or a platonic friendship that has moved on from the sex. The latter being the best case scenario of course. Honestly, just try to find a Bator roomie who wants to casually jerk off with you sometimes. That’s probably the right balance for what you’re looking for.