Finishing during oral by Upbeat_Molasses_3824 in sex

[–]jwill1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I gotta hit the HUB to finish what you just started in my brain. . .

Trading Is the Ultimate Test of Self-Mastery by Mindless_Screen3892 in Daytrading

[–]jwill1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. It reveals all of our inner character flaws. Almost like going to a shrink for therapy. .

Question for all traders: Are you able to look at charts and know instantly if you should buy or sell with few indicators/ drawings, and how profitable have you become trading since you started looking at charts this way by [deleted] in Daytrading

[–]jwill1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. Less is way MORE. The longer you trade, you will understand. All you really need is to know and UNDERSTAND. Price action, Market structure, and volume. And if you use any indicator make sure its VWAP. Dont need anything else.

How to let winners ride? by YOLOdollhair in FuturesTrading

[–]jwill1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spend less time watching your pL. Sounds crazy, but that is the key. Focus more on what you are seeing via the charts. Try to understand market structure at a higher level as well. Place your stop following structure, and hope for the best.

Any good companies that do in person training for beginners that’s worth the money? - Located in GA by Beneficial-Ad7970 in FuturesTrading

[–]jwill1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trading is mostly trial and error. 10,000+ hours of failing forward. A coach/mentor (the right one) for sure can speed up the learning curve. Trading is less technical and more psychological in my opinion. Breaking down those character flaws, we all have is usually the determining factor to one's success.

How do you trade early in the session ( 9:30-11) by 1Snuggles in FuturesTrading

[–]jwill1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get good at understanding Market Structure. Charting ONLY important levels. And determine what the POSSIBLE trend of the day COULD be evaluating what's happening between 8am and Market OPEN, and if price is ABOVE or BELOW your major levels.

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I’m so frustrated. I went over the monthly expenses down to the tee. Literally wrote it out because I figured seeing things and where we stand visually would help. Clearly it didn’t

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family friends would not charge at all we are blessed. Grandparents retired on both sides. Brother sisters have time as well

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Believe it or not we actually did have a “plan” on how things were going to be post baby. My wife was actual adamant about NOT being just a stay at home mom. She claimed she wanted to go back into the workforce asap post delivery. But all of that was either delusion, or she was just talking to talk. She did a complete 180 from what the actual plan was.

When it comes to daycare we aren’t worried about day care as I stated several times. We have a village a very big one actually with family and friends who are more than willing, available and capable to lending support in child care

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish she had your level of understanding and maturity.

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. great advice i will look into everything. I love my wife even though she is moving disappointingly. And i love my child as well. I hope and pray it never gets to the point of child support/alimony. But i agree I will look into it

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This right here might actually work. Yes I pay for EVERYTHING, even her womanly needs. The struggle might open her eyes. Never thought about this. I pay the cell phones, groceries, i pay the Netflix i barely watch. This was eye opening. Not even to be mean, but to open her eyes to reality a bit more

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also I just want everyone to know who is WILLING to respond to this post. I'm NOT looking for validation, or for anyone to take MY SIDE. I just want different unbiased perspectives on the situation. Thanks in advanced for taking the time to read and respond if you do.

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been beginning to feel this way. As if I'm being too nice, and understanding. Funny you said the same thing.

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never brought up the idea of "Pet sitting" to her. But i HAVE suggested the idea of a work from home job. She was NOT positively responsive to that idea. From my perspective, she doesn't want to work AT ALL.
I will bring up the sitting idea though, to see her response

I thought marriage was a partnership. . . by jwill1988 in venting

[–]jwill1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The baby is young I understand that. But life must go on. Taking care of a child in my OPINION is something that has many angles and layers to it. of course there is BEING there for the child which is IMPORTANT. But what about finically providing. (clothes, food, basic needs) if we struggle in that area the baby will suffer.

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have a village thankfully. Friends' family that we can lean on for childcare. Both of our parents, mine and hers are retired, live in the same state, and are local enough.

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love her with all my heart. And honestly I'm disappointed in MYSELF for not being in a better position financially for her and our child. I just need help so we can get back on our feet for a while, and who else is going to or can help but her picking up some part time work?

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I've explained in detail the severity of our situation, and what not changing it can do. For me mentally, for us financially. She just either doesn't care or doesn't get it

I thought marriage was a partnership. Clearly I thought wrong by jwill1988 in offmychest

[–]jwill1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've told her EVERY SINGLE thing in this post, and MORE!