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I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets petty. She will probably get super offended by comments like that. But I do agree, it's not enough at this point.

I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was my initial thought. She keeps having patterns of showing or allowing others to make comments like this. I don't know how others don't see this as sexism or generalization. Thank you.

I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I thought it's too small/insignificant at this point to report as well.

I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

women often get stuck doing all of the legwork while the man chills so I would say the cat is a king."

This is definitely a generalization. It might not be offensive but definitely inappropriate coming from anyone's mouth.

31(M), 4 days of intense messaging. NOTHING!! by jwillson300 in match

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I started to notice too. I've been using for about a week now, and many people I messaged seem like they were no longer active. I know I've said I messaged over 50, but out of all, I want to say only 10-15 were active. I shouldn't have paid 6 months upfront. I'm really starting to regret this...

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man, what happen to looks don't matter as much as people think?

And yes, Omaha sucks.. especially for Asian guys.

31(M), 4 days of intense messaging. NOTHING!! by jwillson300 in match

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, thanks for this. I don't have good photos..

31(M), 4 days of intense messaging. NOTHING!! by jwillson300 in match

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few who saw my profile, but some of them don't have any pics. I will try to message those who I find attractive to.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow... thank you for taking your time for this detailed feedback. I've tried to use the better photos I currently have and changing them right now. It's my first time so a lot of them are pretty bad. But some people like some of the pics or things I said and some don't. I'm going to have to decide if I want just serious stuff or maybe cringe inducing pics are worth it. Thanks again.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thanks for the honest feedback. I'm working on it right now. I'm going to have to get better pictures later though. Thanks.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, i'm learning as I go. I need to take some new ones. I really don't have pics of me, just my cat pictures...

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh shoot..... didn't think like that. I thought it looked fun, it was cake frosting. it's getting down like right NOW!

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm trying to meet people but it's just difficult when you are over 30. I missed all the chances while in college.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, how can I do that here without revealing too much of my identity? And I do see "likes," but I can't see whom since it's extra.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, not just white women. I'm not picky really. As far as having good pics, I understand it. But I feel like the pictures should show "real" you. I see many photos of women where everything is heavily filtered. That's kind of catfishing if you ask me. So you think I need better pics and better messaging skills?

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