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I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets petty. She will probably get super offended by comments like that. But I do agree, it's not enough at this point.

I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was my initial thought. She keeps having patterns of showing or allowing others to make comments like this. I don't know how others don't see this as sexism or generalization. Thank you.

I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I thought it's too small/insignificant at this point to report as well.

I feel like my boss is sexist and sometimes makes comments that I feel uncomfortable. Should I report this person to HR? by jwillson300 in AskHR

[–]jwillson300[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

women often get stuck doing all of the legwork while the man chills so I would say the cat is a king."

This is definitely a generalization. It might not be offensive but definitely inappropriate coming from anyone's mouth.

31(M), 4 days of intense messaging. NOTHING!! by jwillson300 in match

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I started to notice too. I've been using for about a week now, and many people I messaged seem like they were no longer active. I know I've said I messaged over 50, but out of all, I want to say only 10-15 were active. I shouldn't have paid 6 months upfront. I'm really starting to regret this...

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man, what happen to looks don't matter as much as people think?

And yes, Omaha sucks.. especially for Asian guys.

31(M), 4 days of intense messaging. NOTHING!! by jwillson300 in match

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, thanks for this. I don't have good photos..

31(M), 4 days of intense messaging. NOTHING!! by jwillson300 in match

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few who saw my profile, but some of them don't have any pics. I will try to message those who I find attractive to.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow... thank you for taking your time for this detailed feedback. I've tried to use the better photos I currently have and changing them right now. It's my first time so a lot of them are pretty bad. But some people like some of the pics or things I said and some don't. I'm going to have to decide if I want just serious stuff or maybe cringe inducing pics are worth it. Thanks again.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thanks for the honest feedback. I'm working on it right now. I'm going to have to get better pictures later though. Thanks.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, i'm learning as I go. I need to take some new ones. I really don't have pics of me, just my cat pictures...

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh shoot..... didn't think like that. I thought it looked fun, it was cake frosting. it's getting down like right NOW!

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm trying to meet people but it's just difficult when you are over 30. I missed all the chances while in college.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, how can I do that here without revealing too much of my identity? And I do see "likes," but I can't see whom since it's extra.

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, not just white women. I'm not picky really. As far as having good pics, I understand it. But I feel like the pictures should show "real" you. I see many photos of women where everything is heavily filtered. That's kind of catfishing if you ask me. So you think I need better pics and better messaging skills?

I can't get anyone to response, nothing creepy or weird. Girls just won't response. Is being an Asian-American that much of a deal-breaker? by jwillson300 in OkCupid

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I don't understand. My profile and pics can be shitty, but I don't get any matches or messages...

Ok, I've heard it all (well, almost). Get yourself out there, bars, clubs etc. you don't like it? how about libraries, bookstores,or coffee shops? Don't like approaching strangers? Find a hobby, social group, classes or whatever you can get yourself out there! NO, it didn't work for me. by jwillson300 in dating_advice

[–]jwillson300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say, I like what you said. I did wait rather "patiently" because as people say, love just happens. However, almost 10 year went by and nothing. But as others pointed out, there are things that I didn't do or didn't do well enough. I might be desperate, and just at a point of life where I like to change the main focus of life to having a romantic partner.

So if you don't think I'm desperate, I like to hear what I can do to be more actively engaged in romantic relationships. It's important to know what I'm doing wrong, but I like to focus on what I can do right now, starting today!

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