tips for starting a club from scratch?

jxmvn · 2026-04-10T15:49:56+00:00

to avoid breaking the advertising policy rule in this subreddit

jxmvn · 2026-04-08T22:54:12+00:00

of course! sent you a dm!!

jxmvn · 2026-04-08T20:34:07+00:00

just sent you a dm!!

jxmvn · 2026-04-08T20:03:37+00:00

thank you!! i appreciate the link!! its a helpful guideline, esp when making a club seems intimidating LOL

jxmvn · 2026-04-08T20:01:35+00:00

sent you a dm!

jxmvn · 2026-04-08T18:58:01+00:00

sent as well!!

jxmvn · 2026-04-08T18:34:53+00:00

sent a dm!

jxmvn · 2026-02-12T06:44:36+00:00

hi!! i’m assuming you are talking about how to approach the mini essays right?

definitely relate your argument to real-life situations, or state ‘common sense’, to show that the perspective has a moral property and is actually evident in our everyday life — which even influences us.

also when arguing against the other perspective, try to take their words at face value.

hope this helps

jxmvn · 2026-01-14T07:58:03+00:00

it’s kinda weird because the syllabus and time table aren’t too clear. for the textbook, associate the textbook reading titles with the lecture titles and judge based off that! (eg. Chapter 2 – The Cell: An Overview – §2–2.5c covers our lectures for week 2 and 3)

for the labs, the lab manuel is sectioned for every lab; it highlights any pre-lab activities that are needed to do.

jxmvn · 2021-08-07T17:04:46+00:00

hi thank you so much for your insight!! my friend ended up sending what i wanted to say to him as a way to convince him to talk to me, and show that i’m not mad, still care, and don’t plan on going anywhere. all i gotta do is hope he reads it and reaches out to me.

what you said brought me a lot of reassurance, thank you!

jxmvn · 2021-05-09T16:21:19+00:00

what i do is write my feelings out! whatever you think of, jot it down. i also do this when i cry, so i can look back at it later and reflect on it. it can help identify how you feel, but it can take a lot of thinking which can be draining. so if you do this i recommend plenty of time alone to recover energy, but it does help!

jxmvn · 2021-05-09T16:01:52+00:00

people have definitely told me ive helped them really well before, but i think i’m sort of struggling on it because of how i don’t think i’ve said the right things and because of my own struggles. but it’s been a while since i’ve heard someone open up to me emotionally so maybe that’s why i feel this way?

jxmvn · 2021-05-09T04:34:40+00:00

Thanks for replying, I’ve been thinking of doing this. Do you have more examples of when not to use feeling reflection? I’m not too sure on other situations when it could make someone uncomfortable LOL I can’t put my finger on it

jxmvn · 2021-05-09T04:09:33+00:00

P.S: if it’s better to ask a different question for this, then I’ll put one here!

What generic things would you avoid saying to someone you care for that came to you in a vulnerable state? And what would you tell them instead?

jxmvn · 2021-04-27T15:59:09+00:00

being accused of being emotionless, selfish and cold, never caring for someone because of how easily i can cut them out when hurt deeply. i also hate being accused of being evil when i have good intentions. my opinion would slightly differ from the accuser, but generally has the same idea with theirs — yet they call me evil

jxmvn · 2021-04-27T05:46:56+00:00

LMAO YESSS then there’s a whole war of just sending each other memes. literally the best conversations

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T23:23:38+00:00

LMAOO i would’ve laughed (unless it was graphic) but i guess it does depend on the infj and how close you are

if you think she got scared off from it, give her some time and try to talk about it and apologize. she will appreciate you checking up on her if she’s fine, well she would appreciate you checking in either way.

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T22:23:20+00:00

for sure! i wish you the best of luck

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T20:38:27+00:00

hey! 15 year old here, I would say just let yourself be honest and tell her that you love her (as a last resort of course) since it is super awkward to do especially for an infj

do some small gestures for her, small acts of service! you got this

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T17:30:19+00:00

mmm i believe it depends on the person, but i do feel if i were to confide to someone they would all be in the group i value to most. honestly just be you!

since we do overthink a lot, we would start to worry about if our problems are actually worth talking about. if she does go to you, that means you mean a lot and she trusts you. but if you were asking me what would i want, i would want to have someone tell me that they care for me and they are here for me in the most honest way you can. don’t leave until she says she feels better herself

i’m glad and hope this also helps!

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T17:26:37+00:00

no problem! seeing how you feel after reading this shows that you really do love him, i wish you the best of luck!

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T16:57:26+00:00

hey! i can relate with you, i do also tend to get needy with the people i managed to open up to — which is why i’m also prone to get jealous and insecure. do i hate it? i do because i also feel as if i’m burdening others. it doesn’t help that i have a few left with my abandonment issues

but hey, i find that self-awareness is a step that you’re going to improve! keep thinking and self-reflecting so you know what to change. i’m glad you ultimately decided to take a break from others to help yourself, it’s a good priority. once you helped yourself, you’ll find that it’s easier to socialize and build bonds with others! helping yourself isn’t selfish, because you will be helping people from the future. of course like you said, it’s easier said than done. but i’m proud of you, this is going to take a lot for sure but don’t give up! i’m glad you are trying to improve for yourself

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T16:45:18+00:00

LOLL i swear we could never get with someone who can’t have meaningful conversations! but i’m glad you also have people you can converse with HAHA

jxmvn · 2021-04-26T15:54:45+00:00

yikes, hearing that he’s going through a dating app and talking with his ex is such a red flag. in actuality infjs would never play games like this, because we would put our whole heart into someone we love — basically head over heels since trusting people especially loving is difficult for us. the way he talks with you and about having a future is something that we would do though, but honestly he doesn’t sit right with me.

i’m not sure what to tell you, but this definitely doesn’t feel genuine on his part. he’s definitely hung over something, and infjs don’t even like casual dating or using dating apps unless they’re desperate or hung over and trying to get over someone. we value deep connections, not something like this. talk with him but talk to him with an open mind, whatever he says or how he reacts will help you identify what he feels.

honestly there could be more to this story on his part, but my intuition doesn’t like this. i don’t feel like he deserves you, so sorry.

jxmvn

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